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Hetero Male Submissive, 44,  South Brunswick, New Jersey
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Pretty kinky, always kind, rather nerdy, but never boring. I'm ultimately looking for an LTR with a Domme that completes me as much as I complete her. Only seeking someone relatively local to me and interested in meeting face to face. Or face to foot, or gag, or open palm. . . we'll figure it out. Respectfully, I have no interest in any sort of financial - tribute - professional situation.












 Submissive Male

 South Brunswick 

 New Jersey

 5' 11"

 195 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Transgender

Dominant Female

Switch Female

Female Led Couples

 Lives For:

 You tying me up

 Being humiliated by you

 You using a strap-on on me




 Amusement Parks

 Art Galleries

 Being allowed to beg you for things

 Being allowed to worship your body

 You punishing my gentials

 Rear End Play

 Hair Pulling

 Medical fetish play

 Sensation Play


 Intellectual Discourse

 Liberal Politics






 Renaissance Faires

 Martial Arts

 Being blindfolded

 Being allowed to wear your collar

 Being massaged

 Being gagged by you

 You putting me on a leash

 Being allowed to give you massages

 You deciding what I wear

 Being allowed to service you orally

 Role Playing

 Sensory Play

 Being allowed to use a vibrator on you

 Arcade Games

 Board Games

 Card Games


 Comedy Shows

 Science Fiction






 Political Activism

 Alternative Music

 Classical Music

 Eighties Music

 Folk Music

 Nineties Music

 Rock Music

 Curious About:



 Eye Contact Restrictions

 G-spot Stimulation

 Erotic Hypnosis

 Erotic touch

 Mental Bondage

 Obedience Training


 Orgasm Control

 Outdoor Bondage

 Rubber Fetish


 Speech Restrictions

 Suspension Bondage

 Theatrical Scenes

 The Occult

 Female Sovereignty






 Hard Limits:




 Computer Expert

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Journal Entries:
3/6/2023 10:15:02 PM

Being demisexual with a very high libido has caused me to jump into sex I wasn't ready for and to connect in relationships that couldn't satisfy me. Really wish I'd figured that shit out sooner.

4/14/2018 8:31:46 PM
I just made a change to my profile, I'd better see how it looks.

Hey! Someone just viewed my profile. I wonder who it is.

Every. Damn. Time. /facepalm

3/31/2018 4:31:43 PM
I have never seen a website search function so direly in need of the ability to exclude search terms.

2/27/2018 10:01:58 PM
The first time someone tries fisting, they are both open to and opened by a new experience.

5/16/2016 10:41:10 PM
Most of the messages sent on this site were written not for the recipient but for the sender. Bearing that in mind makes them no more tolerable, but considerably less perplexing.

1/10/2014 10:42:02 PM

I just received the quintessential CollarMe email. A blank hello, from a blank profile who, after a three second Google Image Search, returned the following hit:

 "Best guess for this image: nigeria scammer"

 That about sums it up, eh?

8/1/2012 6:55:16 PM

I thought I'd witnessed every type of sadism this site had to offer - and been turned on by most of it. I thought I'd pierced the veil and seen true darkness, pure wickedness, complete hatred of joy, and malicious delight in the suffering of others.

Then I found a profile that required all submissives to read the Fifty Shades trilogy, and found out that it's possible to rape someone with the English language.

Seriously. I wish I could add them to my Hard Limits.

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