I err very definitely toward the extreme end of the spectrum... if this is your bag then I would love to hear from you...
If your idea of D/s is to play games, have "sessions", tell me a hard-luck story in an ill-fated attempt to obtain money or to tell me about your many years' "experience" in the lifestyle" then I am not what you seek... the person whom you seek has "twat" tattood on his forehead.
Would definitely prefer to find a ladyboy than a lady although I'm open to persuasion.
But, then, you know this already....