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My name is Ray I am a Switch guy that is looking for another to grow with. I am looking for a guy that is somewhat new to the lifestyle so that we can learn together. I am more of bottom guy. I am just looking to open my mind to new things. If your interested in knowing more about me please feel free to ask.

I am a female impersonator that has worked in a number of places. I am looking for a guy that is willing to look past the fact I am a Drag Queen and take me for me as a whole. I am not claiming to be the worlds best drag queen but I am a highly recognized Queen it is more my personality than my looks. My crowd enjoys the way I intact with them and I love them all. I figured I would add this to give those of you a better insight to me.

I have come to understand that it is not something that is to embraced however it is a new time. I am a very to the point kinda of guy. I am looking for a guy that is looking for someone to please them. I was married to a man for a number of years. He was in the Armed Forces and passed away. He was a Dom but our relationship was more than just submissive and Dom. He gave me all I needed to be me but knew that I was to him and I was going to be there for him no matter what.

I like guys that are different than the norm. I am looking for a guy that is looking for LTR I am not looking for a short term. I have tried to find mister right and always get mr. right now I am not looking for that I am looking for a guy that wants to get to know each other. If we cant have an understanding of our mental places how can we grow to higher levels.

I work at camp every summer. Who ever I am with should be understanding to that. That is one thing that I just can't look past. I am also very close to my family and I would do anything for them.

WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR IN A UNDERSTANDING DOM/SWITCH

-An open minded guy
-A verbal man
-A guy that wants a guy that will be there.
-Someone that is understanding
-A guy that wants someone to be there
-A guy that is in need a PARTNER not a slave
- A guy that is a Switch

WHAT I AM WILLING TO DO

+ I will please you to the best of my ability
+ I am willing to please you sexually and mentally
+ I am into most things but the list is to long to sit and type it out.
+ Be there for you in all aspects of the words.
+ Walk in public with you

UPDATE:

Ok so I am doing some updates here. I am not really having any luck with having with my day to day life and now I am finding it hard to find that right person. I have talked to a few guys on here but nothing really sparked my attention I am not sure if I will find that right person. But it is worth looking into. I will continue to try and find that right person. I am not sure what else to write..

Well it seems that guys on here are just flakes and think that I am gonna give up my life to make them feel more like a man. I am so over the guys that think I am gonna be locked away and lose myself. It just goes to show that no one reads it seems. I am very clear in my profile and I am so not gonna bend. I want people to fully understand although this is a lifestyle there is more to it than giving up yourself. Cause no growth will come from it. Come on on people lets think about this.