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Female Dominant, 33, Las Vegas, Nevada
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Submissive Couple, 52, Sydney
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Female Dominant, 54, Northampton
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About rayneJD
I am so tired and a bit lost.
I am not really sure what to put in this profile, other than to say the most precious memories I have of recent years were spent in an active D/s relationship.
I am not a slave. We did not role play. We were two vanilla functioning adults, in love with one another, and by nature I craved to submit to him, and by nature and who he was... to dominate me.
Domination is not controlling. For me a Dominant is someone who the sort of person I 'want' to follow. I have learned by his trustworthiness, to have faith in him. I have learned by his excellent judgement that his judgments are more often than not, better than my own. For me, and I can only speak for myself - a good Dominant has a life long list of achievements.. they are successful people, born leaders with great self discipline.
And finally, for me, a great Dominant is someone who will accept the control and use it only and solely for the good of the relationship or the submissive and never for selfish or personal gain.
In turn a successful submissive is one who honors the control the Dominant has accepted. (It's not a task to be taken lightly or by fools). A successful happy sub is one who looks to the needs and desires of their partner first and foremost. They are both equals operating on opposite plains in a strictly unselfish atmosphere for the happiness of eachother. And yes.... I was blessed to have all that.
And so I'm tired. I believe I have lost faith that I will ever find it again. I am not sure I am really even looking very hard. So why am I here? A question I can't answer... perhaps because I'm tired and feel a bit lost. I have turned back to a place that holds up a lifestyle... a time in my life that was so precious. |
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