I am saddened that I must be this blunt: If you are in a relationship and your partner does not know of your lifestyle or relationships then I am not interested in pursuing anything with you. I believe strongly in truth and communication.

I'm not really looking for anything at this point in my life. I am in a poly relationship that makes me happy despite the long distance. But I do hope to meet like minded people to chat with. If more is found, that is a plus but not expected. I prefer to get to know people before I trust them enough to submit. So please do not contact me expecting sex/play right off the bat.

I am more of a bottom then a submissive as I enjoy pain and all the sensations involved. But I will submit for the right person. Someone who knows when it is time to be gentle and when it is time to be rough.

I have a geek job and play WoW. I have my own car and I am not looking for anything 24/7. I also have a daughter who comes first to me above everyone and everything. She is my minime.

I also used to be a local photographer. Feel free to send me a message if you would like the link to my portfolio.

If you are still interested after reading all that, drop me a line ;)