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Pan Female Submissive, 48,  Phoenix, Arizona
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Honestly no idea what I am doing on this site. My profile has been seriously outdated for some time. Why this site does not update your age automatically each year like every other site is beyond me. Most of the pictures are from 8 years ago. I seem to manage to run into old online friends on here now that yahoo is a thing of the past it seems (shame). I am single and in the back of my mind still looking for "him".. and in the meantime settling for "it"
I am genuinely most likely bored and perveing the profiles to see whats on here.

(i updated it I am currently 48)

Maybe I should go into greater detail.. sometimes i like talking to people on here, this group is very diverse and sometimes interesting, other times it can be a real drag. I try not to be rude. I honestly do my best to respond and say thank you or give some guys a few minutes of time to capture my interest. Guys stamp themselves DOM and suddenly they think they automatically have an open invitation to do what they want with me. Well thats not the case. I am rather particular and quite picky in what I want. I have learned mostly what I DO NOT WANT and as I have gotten older (and wiser) I am not going to settle for a bunch of the crap I don't want just to get a small portion of the stuff I want need and desire.

A profile pic is always good too.

OKAY Lets get this back out here..


At no point do I want to get whipped, tortured, beaten or bloodied. EVER. I do enjoy some very mild pain during intense heightened sex.

No where in that place does it mean that I want my tits turned purple/black, or 300 clothespins put on every place tender on me or forced to cum for hours or even being tickled too much.

Painful= not enjoyable

I understand that my Master may want to modify unwanted behaviors or if I fuck up. He will punish me and that will be painful. I accept that. and that will prolly work. You know why? because I DON'T LIKE PAIN. I will do what I must to avoid painful shit. Pain is a great deterrent.

SO guys here's a clue when you get that few minutes of my time I wouldn't go into how you are going to make me suffer.

I get that there are a large amount of others that really do enjoy painful shit. There's nothing wrong with that. More power to those pain endearing mother fuckers..

That's not me though.

and maybe that is a way of showing complete submission to their owners. Proof positive.

But for me If I didn't want to give my will to My Man, My Owner My Boss to let him be in charge. for me to be teachable to what he wants, needs, desires. Me eagerly and actively learning those things..

I could just walk away.
Me being present and willing and there says volumes
I hope this helps,












Last Online:


 Submissive Female



 5' 4"

 140 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Male

Friends Only


 Lives For:



 Bar Hopping

 Flea Markets (Expert)

 Garage Sales (Expert)

 Going to the Opera

 Shopping (Expert)

 Volunteerism (Expert)

 Anal Play

 Breast Play

 Domestic Service

 Housework Service


 Online RPGs




 1950s Lifestyle

 Opera Music

 Punk Rock Music



 Amusement Parks

 Art Galleries


 Bird Watching










 Public Exhibition

 Being Massaged

 Hair Pulling

 Massage (Giving)

 Public Play




 Wax Play

 Arcade Games

 Comedy Shows

 Puzzle Games

 Role Playing Games

 Science Fiction

 Simulation Games

 True Crime

 TV News

 Web Surfing

 Art Collecting


 Cross Stitch






 Alternative Music


 Classical Music

 Eighties Music

 Hip Hop Music


 Rock Music

 Seventies Music

 Auto Racing




 Coffee Shops





 Role Playing


 Horror Movies


 Curious About:






 Erotic Hypnosis


 Orgasm Control

 Maid / Butler Service

 Vacuum Stimulation




 Renaissance Faires





 Cane / Crop Discipline

 Fire Play


 Humiliation / Degradation

 Needle Play

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Rubber Fetish








 Knife Play

 Female Supremacy

 Hard Limits:

 Horseback Riding




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Journal Entries:
3/23/2018 8:30:10 AM
honestly want to find my Dom and  make a nest get comfy anid spend the rest of forever with him. I understand that a connection needs to develop and see if theres any chemistry or spark some common intrests to build on some compatibility.

I want a Dominant Male for 24/7 long term relationship that will occur in real time in the same  city and State as me
. I am not interested in online  doms, Lesbian Dommes,  hypnosis, Doms in other countries, married doms, incarcerated doms, Doms that like to switch now and then for shits and giggles.

I really wish this was simpler


3/23/2018 8:15:57 AM
Maybe its  been a long week.. I feel like my journal here is becoming  nag fest having to spell out the simplest of things  heres something I wrote to someone turns out I already had an open dialogue with them and they had gotten lost in the shuffle.

this is for those that send the "hi", "hey"  "hot pics" messages....

I don't know if this will help you in your search or not. Please be aware us real females are inundated with messages like your own. Or the cut and paste of your entire profile..The guys that get responses back are guys that have taken the time to read our profiles have their profiles full of info and a picture. Have taken time to actually show intrest Do you think you would have been as inspired to message me if I had no picture. probably not. I understand if you have some job where you cannot post a pic so don't include your face in the pic or send a pic with your message. The only reason I am responding now is like this is the 100th "hi" this am. You guys have to be smarter than that, you know the chances of a response has to be slim...?

all the best sincerely,

{#emotions_dlg.scared}   Laughing

3/22/2018 9:44:19 PM
I can't believe craigslist personals are gone wtf. Its just sex. I have the right to be a slut if I want goddamnit.

3/22/2018 5:18:23 AM
  • If I click on "view senders profile" and it sends me back to the home page because you don't have one, I will not reply to you

7/14/2014 8:24:31 AM

"Uhhhhh submissive mother how much I want u to wear a dress made of that fabric then bed u over like that after u milk my cock with some olive oil in ur tender motherly hand half way then place my hands on your hips mount on you make a hole in your dress around your asshole then with one hit I penetrate you and thrust so crazy like a fucked up donkey wont stop til I break your back and release every drop in your bowels and pair them with white hut cum . leaving u bleeding and can never walk normal again ."

so i wrote back to him
"lol thats funny...i need to go find a real man to chat with now good luck with your broken donkey fucked mother fantasy, ive never had kids and would never fuck a bat shit crazy loser like you"

his response
"I would be the donkey if I planned on putting it in ur dirt . aren't u ashamed of exposing u cheap meat like that ? What a loser depraved bag of filth .Learn some English ."

YIKES,,, never ceases to amaze me. Gotta go brush up on my english now xoxo

1/8/2009 11:26:57 AM
Oh a side note..I pulled a tooth outta my head couldn't afford a dentist.. I don't like pain but tells you how hardcore I

1/8/2009 11:25:46 AM
I am thinking I needed to add a new entry. Someone brought to my attn that its been 4 months I want to thank everyone for their well wishes and thoughts on pain and that I should make my own path. I am doing better now. I have furniture. My apt is coming along nicely. Gets cozier everyday. My active search for a dom has taken to the back burner. It is always prevalent in my mind. It's just too taxing sometimes when I am looking. I give too much of myself. I have managed to pay my rent however I still am officially unemployed. That opens a door on here for a different sort of predator. so not looking for work...

I have been dating a guy off and on... I think he'd like to think hes Dom i think hes just selfish. The sex has been good but I really hate topping from the bottom. He often jokes saying he wants me to find him 25 slaves. Doesn't every man! sheesh dream on...

9/4/2008 11:52:45 AM

i am rethinking my intrest in the bdsm community. I have realized the hard way im not into pain.  I'm considering deleteing my account.

9/1/2008 12:10:24 AM
Thanks to all who have offered assistance in finding furniture. I can happily say that I now own a couch and loveseat (they even match) and I have an honest to god real bed to sleep in/on...It's the simple things in life that do it for

8/23/2008 9:18:06 AM
Here I am again. In spite of my newest drama things so far have worked out mostly in my favor. which is always good

Some of you Im sure dont know that I was sharing living space with a male friend (strictly platonic) of nearly 10 years. Well we had a disagreement and he gave me a week's notice that I needed to move. Im thinking great cant get much worse than this. Well 2 days later while I was out applying for jobs he puts all my belongings outside and changes the locks. I find out from another mutial friend and get my stuff and plant my ass on another  friends couch.  In the meantime the prior roomie is threatening to kill my cats but wont let me get them because hes too much a coward to open the door.. big drama

anyway long story short through a stoke of luck or fate. I find an awesome lil 1 bedroom apt manage to get the money to move in, get the power on etc I really love this lil place.. only bad thing is I have no furniture at all. I have an air mattress that has a really slow leak and if anyone has ever had one of those it SUCKS
 so I am continueing to attept to do the next right thing, i have done a few the next wrong things to keep food in my tummy and my cats happy

so theres your update
thanks for reading

** note** anyone looking to get rid of or sell a decent bed or couch  for cheap please mail me

7/14/2008 4:04:59 AM

here i am again.... spinning out of control at speeds that scare even me.. Everytime i seem to take a chance i feel used.. and not in a good way. I am no closer to finding employment than when i started. However I did get a call about a bartending gig which i am returning tomorrow. hopefully its close because i dont even have enough money to take the bus there. Never thought about pan handling however being hungry is making it sound more and more delightful.  I really need someone else to be in charge...

6/30/2008 4:57:14 PM
hello... i want to apologize to anyone i started a dialouge with as my internet is moody wifi and comes and goes at its own free will and I have hit a patch of unsolicited drama... so please bare with me. I am real just seem to have so much in the air and chaos seems to always find me.. hence my desire for someone to take the reins...

thank you

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