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What to tell you about me...... Born in Europe so I tend to have to try very hard to fit in here in Oregon. Been here for many years so I have lost my accent but my mind and values don't always meet the approval of the locals - I tend to state the obvious which bothers some people. Seems alot easier to me to just say it, instead of beating around the bush; What that means is that I am blunt but also honest which can sting emotionally at times if you are not behaving or I believe you are in need of learning something to become a better sub. 31 years clean and sober along with my heritage has made me a little different than the average American male. Never legally consumed alcohol since I quit before I turned 21. I have been into BDSM since early sobriety, I am experienced and creatively kinky ;-) I have been married and divorced twice - both lasted around 10 years. Raising my son and 5 step children who are all adults now has given me alot of patience when it comes to teaching. Not sure what label you want to put on me, I really don't care but if I had to choose one I would label myself as a Daddy Dom. Vanilla on the outside partly due to work, not into or able to do the 24/7 in the past -life, family, employment and kids always got in the way.....Desire it more now that I have the freedom to do so with the kids grown but honestly I perfer some vanilla, I want to be able to go public with you or assign tasks for you to complete. If I can't take you out of the house that means I have to go get the groceries and the Vanilla ice cream myself - LOL I understand concepts such as positive reinforcement and consequences..... and I know how to use them effectively. I believe that the strongest desires begin in our frontal lobe triggered by suttle suggestion which is a delicious way to keep passion alive in a relationship. I appreciate and enjoy a partner that will flirt and tease when they want my attention along with being able to communicate their wants and needs or at least be teachable in the sense that they can learn to say please. I am looking for someone who can anwser questions beyond "Yes, Sir" and "No, Sir" - You need to have a personality.... When I ask questions about your likes that means I am learning more about you and how to reward you; I need detailed anwsers when I ask - I want to be able to have a conversation with you, about anything. Way too boring for me if all you can say is yes and no. I Have to admit I do appreciate you being bad occasionally because I like to see your cheeks jiggle and turn red as you get spanked. There are also many other consequences I enjoy but experience has taught me what is a consequence to one person is a reward to another so any consequenses I administer are custom designed to my partners likes and dislikes. I truly enjoy using rope, I think it is an art that goes well with sensual seduction and teasingly lustful intimacy as well as punishment. Send me a message if you want to know more about me or more details, ask away - I will anwser honestly, no point in wasting your time or mine. I am not looking for a one night stand or an easy lay if I wanted that I would just go down to the local bar. That being said, I would truly appreciate finding a sub to become acquainted with, intimately acquainted with and hope to spend the rest of my life with.    
5/31/2015 10:23:12 PM
“Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.” 
― William Shakespeare

12/31/2014 9:06:58 AM

~If the submission is not based on honesty the dominant cannot predict it's outcome. If he can't predict the outcome he's not on top. If he's not on top he's not domming. So - If D/s is not honest it's not happening.~

Source: http://www.asubmissivesjourney.com/honesty.html

8/9/2014 8:19:17 AM
Actively seeking : )
7/15/2014 1:52:53 PM
Took a day off from work to relax and chose to spend some time on Collarspace, basically behaving like I do on Facebook by commenting on things and people I find interesting or intriguing.
Then I get some message stating I have triggered the bulk filter - What ?
Wish they would have told me about that before I tried to communicate in the largest BDSM community on the planet that behaves more like a dating site as opposed to a community - grumble grumble grumble
3/4/2013 11:09:23 AM
30 years Clean and Sober as of Today - Ouah!
12/31/2012 5:46:01 PM

Yet another memory:

 

I feel my left pocket buzz.........

 

I check, A subtle smile creeps onto my face as I see A text message from my loved one.

 

"I joined a bowling league on Tuesday nights" the message states

 

Hmmmmmmm

 

"Interesting that you chose to do this without discussing it with me first" I reply


"Its not very much time apart; only 2 1/2 hours a week" comes back in my phone followed by several text messages justifying how this is no big loss time wise


"Ok, we will talk about this tonight" I promise in reply to keep the phone from buzzing in my pocket


I notice her nervousness as we eat.....I make her wait for discussion of the topic bothering her, the text from earlier today.


After dinner we head into the bedroom and I swiftly force her onto the bed and tie her spread eagle.


She complains and whines about my actions until I put my hand across her mouth and say, "Shhhhhh"


I reach over to the night stand grabbing the alarm clock


"You apparently need to learn a lesson about time" I say


"Your text this afternoon stated that 2 1/2 hours is not very much time, not very long"


As I tell her that The alarm is set to go off in 2 1/2 hours I explain that 2 1/2 hours CAN be a very long time.


Before she has a chance to debate the issue I quickly grab a glass dildo positioning myself across the middle of her body and start sliding it into her hard and fast.....


Harder and faster until I hear her beg for permission to cum.....


"Count to 25 - then you may cum" I respond


1, 2, 3 .... 11, 12, 13 ..... 23, 24, 25!

 

As she convulses beneath me I stop, rotate and snuggle upto her reaching for the alarm clock;


Holding it in front of us I comment, "A whole 10 minutes has passed, only 140 minutes to go"

 

I head to the bathroom and as I return I notice sincere concern showing in her facial expression as she watches me slip a latex glove onto my hand.....


"Are you Starting to understand how 2 1/2 hours can be a long time?" I ask

9/9/2012 7:19:54 PM

End of Summer is signified by the beginning of the Bowling League - LOL

9/3/2012 11:01:27 AM

Another memory…..

 

I return home exhausted from a busy work day looking forward to seeing my little princess.

As I enter the house I notice that it seems unusually quiet…..

I look in the living room and in the bed room to find them empty and when I look in the kitchen I find that the task assigned to Her, the dishes are still undone.....

I Sigh as my mind rolls through random possibilities that would help teach my little girl how to do her part in the house and the importance of her doing her assigned tasks.

I remove my blazer and roll up my sleeves…

I proceed to unload the dishwasher with thoughts of punishment drifting through my mind…..

As I reach the point of loading the dishwasher I hear the front door…….

My little Princess quickly finds me to show me the manicure she got at the mall seeking my approval of the color chosen……

“Look aren’t they pretty?” she asks

I dry my hands with a towel as I comment on the color chosen; as I do so I see her eyes wander over to the sink and she realizes that the dishes should have been done by her……

“I am sorry Daddy, I forgot”

I put my hand behind her head pulling her face into mine giving her a long slow kiss……

As I pull my lips away from hers I say “Go in the bedroom and wait for me in the corner, I will be in there as soon as I am done with your task”

She pouts, slowly turns and walks down the hallway knowing that she has made a mistake……

Upon completion of the task I head in to the bedroom only to find her scrambling towards the corner…..

“I was just checking my messages Daddy, I promise I will behave…” comes out of her mouth with a hint of sincere concern in her tone

I quickly move up behind her grabbing an arm and bending it behind her back as I wrap my other arm completely around her neck with my elbow at her chin swiftly pulling her into my chest . . . My mouth positioned by her ear . .. .

“What the Fuck do I have to do to get you to behave today!” comes out of my mouth in a stern tone as I move her towards the corner…..

She tries to reply but struggles to form a sentence due to my arm being wrapped tight around her neck

In the corner my knee kicks the back of hers and I force her to the ground…..

I attach her collar, lock it and proceed to lock the chain attached to the eye hook on the floor with only 12 inches of slack forcing her to keep her head low………

I secure each of her knees to the hooks on the wall leaving her on her knees bent over……

I then tie her hands together behind her back and run the rope up to a hook above her……

I take a deep breath as I contemplate what is next…..

I hear her whimper…..

I respond with a hard slap on her ass making her flinch and squeal;

followed by the comment, “This is your own Fucking fault!”

Followed by slap after slap until her ass is becoming bright red and she is justifiably crying….

“Please stop Daddy, I promise I will be good”

Slap after slap after slap…….. Until I see her quit struggling……

I position myself behind her and as I grab her hair leaning over her back she can feel my hardness at her entrance as I whisper, “ How hard you try to make Daddy feel good right now! will decide whether you spend the night on the floor or in the bed with me”

“Now rock your hips; fuck me like the good little slut you are!”

9/1/2012 8:54:12 PM

Designated driver on a University game night..... That will get the adrenalin going!

1/1/2012 2:28:05 PM

In the midst of our lives, we must find the magic that makes our souls soar”

Evelyn Beilenson

12/24/2011 7:43:43 AM

A Memory.......

 

I sit at the breakfast table as she brings me coffee.

We chat as I begin to awaken and I notice her commenting on the beauty of the day outside - several times.......

I investigate through conversation and when she mentions the privacy of the backyard it is obvious!

She wishes to be bound outside.

I suggest the option to do so to her and her eyes light up followed by excited comments about dreams she has had of doing so with water involved.

After I finish my second cup of coffee I instruct her to meet me in the back yard naked as I go to retrieve some rope.

I see her standing in the sun, a little shy and a little worried - Such a delicious sight!

I instruct her to have a seat in the large metal chair.

I bind her hands to the arm or the chair, her ankles to the legs of the chair and wrap rope around the leg just above the knee, run it under the chair and wrap it around the other knee pulling her legs apart. A rope behind her neck, under her arms then behind the chair and the upper half is secured.

I take a moment to admire her beauty followed by a long sweet kiss.........

I retrieve the garden hose and to her surprise I go behind the chair and tie it to the chair so that the hose is positioned on her shoulder next to her neck.

She looks puzzled as I go to turn on the hose, this is not what she expected. She had thought I would spray hard in sensitive areas and actually comments as to my intent.

"Shhhh, we have all day sweetie"

As the water begins to barely trickle out of the hose it becomes apparent to her how this will work......

The water trickles down her chest, between her breasts and down into her groin, slowly flowing across her clit....

Enough to excite her but it will take alot of waiting for it alone to be able to make her cum.....

I fetch another cup of coffee,

sit back and enjoy her arousal.....

As time goes on the heat of the sun and the slight trickle of stimulation makes her beg for release.....

I enjoy the wait and reward her begging by letting her service me with her mouth......

The excitement of gagging on my lust is too much and she finally explodes in the chair pulling and tugging on all the restraints.....

Her body relaxes in the chair and I give her a kiss.....

As the kiss ends I pull away and comment,

"You forgot to ask permission for that"

 

 

Creolelady
 
 Age: 21
  Texas