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| I am a fairly inexperienced girl with desires that I haven't yet explored. I'm a lesbian and most of my sexual experiences are in this area but i am curious and want to have my boundaries pushed a little. What and how this entails will be revealed over time.
I have a mentor who is helping me in this journey and as i need some additional encouragement he is going to push me in the right direction. He's found some ways to 'motivate me'. He won't be directly involved if we do meet but he will decide and control who I meet and what will happen. He's also very experienced so has a strong creep/time-waster filter.
Some basic criteria. anyone who can't read or does not possess enough brain cells to follow this will be ignored. if you don't get a response the reason why is most likely below:
- texas only: no out of state, no visitors, no 'i am moving to texas soon', no out of country.
- be intelligent and articulate: good grammar, good manners, being a dom doesn't mean being a dick.
- be experienced: and be able to prove it, no... a picture of a toy collection doesn't prove shit, you will need to demonstrate you understand the 'right' fundamentals of a bdsm relationship and have a healthy approach to this
- safe, sane and consensual: hopefully don't need to spell this out. if you don't think this belong to bdsm then we won't be a good fit. it's about consent not abuse.
- no time wasters: your relationship status is less important but your ability to actually show up and live up to what you say you are matters. in most cases married men or dudes living in their moms basement are not suitable for this. be a realist.
- show yourself: be able to provide a picture of what you look like. ideally a couple of pictures so it's not one from 1989 when you looked decent with your shirt off. this is less about physical attraction, it's more about a show of being committed and genuine... and to check if you have crazy eyes.
You are most likely to be chosen if I find you're a match on a mental and intellectual level that 'gets' gets what I am trying to achieve.
If you're still reading you get rewarded with a list of some things I like the idea of: mainly lack of control.. being turned into an object... used.. treated like a pet and put and on a leash. given obedience training and instruction. repetition and drills... corner time... talked down to, some mild humiliation... being turned into something else from what i currently am. there's more but prefer to discover this in conversation.
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