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Female Dominant, 49, WestMidlands
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Female Dominant, 52, Wichita, Kansas
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About MsVampress
Thank you for taking the time to read My profile...
-Put this in your profile if you know someone who has survived or died of cancer-
i am disabled... so what... it makes me a better Domme...
ive had 4 strokes in the last 2 years along with a very bad back i am not lazy.
i do noit seek a slave to mearly take care of me. but things are how they are.
I am not interested in your wallet or how much fundage you have.
I will ask what you do for a living and how old you are.
I am currently taking applications for slaves or subs...
I am a BBW Dominant Woman. I can be strict and cruel when the need calls for it and I can also be loving and kind when the need calls for it as well I enjoy a variety of BDSM intrests please note the intrests on the page.
I do NOT take over seas subs or slaves. I am currently seeking a 24/7 live in slave. Im not into game players...If you enjoy doing that then dont bother to msg me...
I am not into scat, blood play, needle play, watersports, kids or beastiality
BDSM is NOT about the sex to me it is about service. if you think its about sex move along right now. I seek a slave for 24/7 live in for Domestics and more to Me. I seek one who is real, honest, open, attentive, obedient and has the willingness to serve and try new things.I do not want a doormat but rather one who will tell me what they think, feel and want IF asked to do so. I do not want to hear what they think i want to hear...My philosophy is that slaves and subs are real humans with thoughts and feelings of thier own and I want to know what those thoughts and feelings are... as long as its in a respectfull manner., I dont need have a slave/sub yelling at me as the last one did.
If I send you a msg with a one liner it is because I never know quite to say at first. so please be patiant with me as I tend to be a bit on the shy side when we first meet.
I am seeking a male sub/slave that is compliant to me and my wishes. there are 3 components that i seek when looking for a slave. Those are trust, safety and communication.
*TRUST*
This is something that is earned and not given. I understand this. so it is something that will come in time. only with trust can we begin to develope a good relationship with each other. Me being the Domme and you the slave. Only with trust can we build a lasting relationship.
*SAFETY*
safety is another important aspect with me. if i use a new toy on you. I have already tried it out on myself to see what it feels like. how hard of a stroke i can use ect... I make sure that if its leather the edges have been sanded so as not to cut you when i use it on you. if i use a bondage ring it has been tested to 3 times your weight. I will never ask you to do anything illegal. nor give up your friends or family. this is your safety net.
*COMMUNICATION*
communication is the key to any and all relationships. i dont want to hear
Ma'm may i have another when it should be Ma'am i deserve another. ultimately it is me that determines if you deserve another or not. Communication is the one most important thing in any relationship.
Do you find joy and contentment in your Dominant's service? Would you suffer pain and humiliation for your Dominant's pleasure? Not because you enjoy the pain, or its result, entering, "sub-space” or getting sexual pleasure out of it but because it is what you need and desire. Would you do it because you want to please him / her and willingly suffer for their pleasure? Does this give you satisfaction and fulfill a "need" in you?
Do you have a need to serve your Dominant for their pleasure?
To be owned and controlled, to be bound to obey.
Are these satisfying things to you? Others may consider it, but for you, is it satisfying? Even though you do suffer and cry out in real pain.
ask your self this...
what is it that you need and
what are you willing to give up to get what you need?
Do you have a "need" to be used by your Dominant without regard to your own satisfaction?
Do you have a "need" to serve, obey be owned and controlled? When your Dominant use's you, keeping your well-being in mind; but without regard to your pleasure, Is this fulfilling your needs?
Do you wish to serve your Dominant because it results in your joy and contentment, even if it means also your pain and suffering and deprivation of satisfying of your desires?
Do you in some ways get your satisfaction out of the very things others seek to avoid?
Are you a slave that thrives and grows on the kind of treatment that would cause others to wither and harden?
Then i am the dominant for you.
suffer in pain and for me
MsVampress
you can catch me on YIM i am mailto:vampress8182@yahoo.com
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I cant understand why submissives cant follow rules. Maybe they are too stupid to follow them or maybe they don't follow them just to piss me of. I have 2. im on every day. you would think that daily contact would be easy enough to do. Just a note that says hello Mistress wouldn't be too hard to do. |
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I stated earlier I ad a slave but s/he never showed My search continues.
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I believe I found the pergfect slave. with my help and control she will be the one welcome cd4updx. to my humble abode and my control. |
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happy birthday to me on the 16th ill be 50. i want a slave for my birthday.
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I will be offline untill august 6th...am moving this weekend... i want to thank everyone for viewing my profile in the meantime and will see you all on the 6th...good luck |
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happy new year and m ay everyone find what they seek in 2012 |
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it has come to my attention that because of my name some ppl have an odd thought about me. So...no i am not a vampire...no im not into blood play or the gothic lifestyle...it is a name and only a name |
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A Pickle, a Cucumber & a Penis were talking about life. The cucumber said when I get big & hard they chop me up & toss me in a salad. The pickle said when I get big & hard they chop me & drown me in vinegar. The penis said that is nothing compared to what I'm going through, when I get big & hard they put a plastic bag over my head & put me in a dark damp cave & bang my head against the walls until i throw up and faint!!!! |
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