MsVoyeringmama

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	You will not address me as Mistress, Definitely not before you meet with my bare minimum requirements to be allowed to address me that way. Take this as a warning. Don't address a letter or pm to Dear Mistress! > I don’t demand to be called Mistress by every sub/slave.I don’t even particularly enjoy being called Ma´am when I’m in top mode. Unless it’s by someone I have a long-standing D/s relationship with, and they’ve earned the right to call me those, *YOU WILL ADDRESS ME AS MS ALEXIS** . With time comes Experience, with Experience comes Knowledge, with Knowledge comes Wisdom, with Wisdom comes Patience,* and with Patience comes Discipline. While I am NOT a full time Pro Domme, It is Not my main source of income, I have had lovely gentleman visit me who appreciated that I am not a spanking mill, get them in & get them out & move on to the next. PS. >> ATTENTION-Married's- Wanna be's - Wankers- Players.= I HAVE SET UP A PRODOMME SITE JUST FOR YOU - ask me for site- I prefer CT/MASS/NY local,BUT NOT LIMITED TO THIS. ALL sessions are/will be prepaid.. ===================== Only the serious need to continue reading on – "If you are looking for a relationship, built on fondness, trust, likes and common goals and interests keep reading. I am currently interviewing Mates/subs for live-in, service-type/relationship position. I am NOT looking for a stay-at home sub/slave. I expect whomever I choose, to actually have a means of income. I work full time and I plan to continue to do so. I desire a partner to HELP me out (not support me totally- I’m NOT seeking a "sugar daddy-sub") domestically & financially, as well as someone that can help me with running of my home and/any of my groups and other Lifestyle events/plans. I am NOT seeking someone to "do it all" for me, (as noted elsewhere in this profile) LETS MAKE THIS VERY CLEAR !! Every so-called submissive male claims to want to serve, but really wants play...but NOT commit!! You are either a sub or not in R/T-you commit or don’t-anything else is a difference between the need to serve others and the need to lose oneself in the service of others. For those proclaiming "wanting to serve me and will relocate" – NOTE: please be of USA, not international REALITY IS– it takes years for INS. to let you here- and I’m NOT interested in waiting 6 + years. - NOR to marry you to make you a USA citizen!! RULES FOR CONTACTING ME: INTRODUCE YOURSELF APPROPRIATELY IF YOU EXPECT ME TO RESPOND. - PLEASE include a clear recent picture and have a profile. "Physical attraction is only PARTLY, 1 facet, (but shouldn’t be a main key factor when getting to know a person) but it is an important initial facet." I'm sure a 24/7 type relationship will develop With the right woman, and you have to feel attracted to a woman before you can feel submissive to her. (pet peeve)- dont offer a pic after 1st mail for me to chase after-attach it with 1st email to me. - IF I AM INTERESTED IN YOU, I WILL ASK FOR CONTACT INFORMATION SO BE PREPARED TO GIVE IT .- BE VERY SPECIFIC ON WHY YOU FEEL YOU ARE WORTHY OF SERVING ME. A few questions you need to answer for me, before the next step of ME getting to know you. ANSWER ALL THE QUESTIONS I’M ASKING BELOW that you see in RED BOLD-copy and paste them!! AND THEN ANSWER. OR your letter will be ignored.. And P.S. more QUESTIONS do follow. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Can you serve a Mistress? Are you more than a doormat? Do you have a brain as well as a senseof humor and wish to use both of them? You, as sub/person do not have to take any drugs to maintain your time and space in this plane of existence. YOU MUST BE Relocatable, ARE YOU? Were you married? - Do you have kids? Forget that you are in this site seeking a Mistress. What types of lady do you date-when/if you date? What do you do for a living to support your household? What NON-play/bedroom - likes/hobbies do you have? Forget that you are in this site seeking a Mistress. Describe a casual date with no sexual fantasy's involved and $40.00 in your pocket. Do you prefer city or country living and why? I like to dance- whether jiggy at home doing chores- or going out occasionally- do you dance? What experience do you have being a sub/slave? When you ask me to dominate you- what are you expecting from me? What have your experiences been? What hasn't worked for you as much? Do you have any emotional issues I should know about? Is there any type of play that disturbs or bothers you? ~~~~~~~~~~~~~ It would be advisable to be good at something and be able to demonstrate a set skill/s -Everyone is good at something, make your abilities stand out: ~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Do you clean or can you contribute to organizing my household? Can you cook a good breakfast, lunch or dinner for Me and your brothers? Are you great at giving back/feet or full body massages? Which I seek daily. Once we get a home, for our large family - Can you fix up the yard or make veggie garden? Can you build a new bondage toys that are useful? Or maybe build the home we all will share? Can you provide something special for Me? Are you willing to see Me when I want to see you and not when you want to see me? Are you willing to put My pleasure before everything, especially your own? Can you endure the test of time and provide what I want, with out any expectations, always knowing I love My Mates/subs and that I am sensitive to all your needs when you have earned it (and remember I decide that). I'm about true servitude, not just tying you down, spanking your unworthy ass and sending you on your way, when I am finished, even if the thought enters my mind. I have always had open conversations with my partners, which includes hard and soft limits. HARD limits are Not to be explored or tested, if a bottom ever uses the safe word, the scene is stopped and all restraints are removed immediately. I have never caused harm or endangered any of the sub/slaves I have been with. I have no real tolerance for people who want to top from the bottom. I love what I do, it excites Me, it turns Me on, and that’s why I do it! But, I do it My way, while taking into consideration all of your needs. I am an extremely sensual and feminine Domme who believes in the pleasures that can be given through the many fulfilling aspects of this lifestyle. IF THE ABOVE CANT BE MET- DONT WASTE MY TIME... ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I'm NOT a cold, distant Bitch Goddess, who feels submen/subwoman are inferior. His/Her submission does not make him/her weak in the least. It takes a great deal of inner strength to try to make oneself into a submissive who pleases their Dominants. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I'm a Polyandrous (Polyandry) Mistress. I will never have just ONE Mate/sub. If this is a problem for you, then I am the wrong Mistress for you. I do not believe in jealousy nor do I allow it in my home. There is also no APLHA or BETA subs in my home. Just subs, all equal to each other and no one above or below the other. If you do not feel this as well, then I am not the right Mistress for you. Polyamory: - (or “Poly” for short) honest, responsible practice of loving multiple People simultaneously. Based on Loving, stable, and open, long-term emotional, And sometimes a sexual Relationship between more than two people. Unlike Swinging, the relationships are long-term, committed, and emotional. I am >> Polyandry: the state or practice of a woman having two or more mates/lovers/husbands at the same time. I am seeking MateS/subS who will surrender completely to Me and devote himself to My happiness. This boy will be seeking a 24/7, live-in position with the hopes of being Owned by his Dominant for the remainder of his life. For disobedience I will withhold My affections or perhaps offer a touch of pain at My discretion. Such punishment is enough for any disobedience from My slaves!! You must be prepared to serve Me in all ways that I request and often!! In return, you will taste the many pleasures I offer as reward. My/our home will run as a community/family with 4-5 men. D/s lifestyle/Mates/partners. I will need to some time to NOT JUST THE BEDROOM) a friend/companion/partner I'm seeking a submissive boyfriend/partner-mate- lover/husband for MY SELF!! (I DO NOT WANT NOR SEEK 1 - WHO IS SOMEONE ELSE'S HUSBAND/MATE-PARTNER). I would prefer you to be, BI - No younger than (35-55) (BUT not a Requirement) I am living here in Enfield, CT/USA. I DO HAVE CHILDREN IN THE HOME STILL, SO I WANT HONEST/CARING/LOVING LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP. My kids and family know of my lifestyles- You must understand it is a family environment and Respect will be highly important to my children. Our lifestyles shall be kept to a reasonable level in respect to family members with in the/our home. They do know and understand my lifestyles already. So limited play will be planned and worked around to a safe and Private environment within our home. Special time will be easily planned around the Children. Ex: when they are sleeping, at school or out for the evening and overnight stay to other family/friend members. Discretion WILL be applied at home I seek 1 that > who is/wants to be submissive but that also wants to be my Equal in a full (vanilla) non-bdsm relationship as well. One who is willing and eager to cuddle, kneel, serve, be helpful, pamper ME-- 1 who is very service/domestic servitude oriented, likes to please and pamper and provide a higher comfort level for important ones in their lives.... Title/labels: Single (MOM), POLYANDRY, Pansexual, BBW-domme/MISTRESS, I'm a Transgender/queer LOVER/chaser and Dater to them. I am a G/G (100%) Female". I am a Smoker, have 2 cats -I DONT allow drinking or drugs in my home!! If you cant handle ANY above, then I'm not for you! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ You will tend to My/Our home and to ME. You Will contribute, to the running of Our home- with contributions being of your time and finances, I expect services that you provide will range from home/lawn maintenance, building of furniture and equipment, domestic servitude, basic cooking skills, basic household repairs. You Will Help me do the chores (not requested to do all by thierself-unless it is a punishment) the laundry, cook- dishes- floors- clean the home. You will definitely be responsible for my Foot and Back rubs, draw my bath. IN OTHER WORDS, YOU ARE FULLY RESPONSIBLE FOR MAKING ME HAPPY, as I'm to make you happy. I will not have a freeloader as a sub, I expect you to be responsible for your share. I will NOT relocate a boy; you will come on your own accord. You will be expected to hold an outside job as well as chores at home, you will get along with your brothers, and all will know that each are special to Me. I'm sure that you have read on other profiles about some one being "Naturally submissive." It is the same with me. I am naturally Dominant in my everyday life, my sexual life, and my home life. To me this lifestyle is more mental than it is physical or sexual. I believe a Dominant should be respectful, creative, quick witted & imaginative. Able to communicate on many levels, not just sexual or bdsm. I hope to find someone who shares those desires.. and more. If you are sincere you should know you will receive regular punishment and go through an initiation period that may last over a month depending on your willpower. During your initiation into my home I intend to use social and sensory deprivation techniques to mold you physically and mentally to please me. You will be used completely whenever, however as my property, objectified, humiliated, degraded and disciplined but valued by me. I will be create rules and be consistent with discipline but will torture you at my will. I’m naturally dominant and will be creative in how I use you. I realize that owning a slave is a large responsibility and requires the commitment of both parties. For me a Domme/sub relationship is not legalized abuse and the sub is a real person not a doormat. A Domme should be in control of herself first and show compassion for someone who is willing to turn over all that he is to her.* A submissive should never be demanding or complaining to me that I don't make them happy within their expectations. Because a true submissive should already know that this lifestyle is about the Mistress, not about the submissive. I am caring and compassionate ,along with being firm and in control. My interest in the lifestyle is more of control and power not abuse and violence. I feel for a Domme to truly be in control the sub/slave has to give himself freely and can not be forced to surrender. Although it is possible to force servitude and require obedience for it to hold true value it must be given as a gift. The sub/slaves needs are important to me and if one of us is not being satisfied then we can make an informed decision on what to do. The quality’s I look for in a Mate/sub is: I prefer professional, well mannered, and successful men who have the time, energy, and resources required to attend to My every desire and whim. Along with having Humor, wit, charm, attractiveness, honesty ,loyalty, obedient, confidence, eagerness, willingness, personal capability within the individual submissive to be their best, with a desire/passion to please.. A man who is passionate, romantic, giving and sensual. Someone who can challenge and intrigue my mind, while enticing me with his surrender. ==================== Any more info you need/want-just ask GOOD LUCK TO ALL on seeking out your HEARTS DESIRES :)

***What ALEXIS Means***

A is for Adaptable

L is for Loving

E is for Energetic

X is for X-Rated

I is for Important

S is for Sparkling

if you cant understand this- then we deffinately arent on the same page..

sent:8/19/06 2:51 PM-kirby-read:8/20/06 8:21 AM..

Because I specifically told him to pm me in evenings as well,not always mid day. and then I see him logged here 6 hrs ago---time to take down the consideration from your profile- and say "im a player" didnt meet the standards was given to me by her" and it's still not changed- NO-IM NOT CONSIDERING HIM ANYMORE- he's all yours-- any domme..

POSTING THIS 5/18/06 >>With summer approching, I'm seeking friends/companions/VANILLA-NO BDSM INVOLEMENT.. -SINGLE/or 1's that can be seen in open public view.. (Male/ 30- 50)- to go to 6 flags (Agawam,Mass.)or -movies-dancing-- thruout the summer - (me and my kids have season passes/for both the rides and waterpark) so sometimes with my kids -sometimes not.

It's nice to share the compliments 1 gets -with others.
played on sunday 12-4-05- with 2 boy/s.

1 my toymate- the other my leather-tools toymaker - both men are friends :) ---

(s): -did we have fun?

ms_voyer: yes I did.

ms_voyer:did you both?

(s):YEPP.

(s):he said you are good at what you do, you know your stuff.

ms_voyer: ok.

~~~~~~~
ms_voyer:to (B):well- you seen what i can do- i deff enjoyed our play time together.

B: - I had a real good time.

B: I enjoy your forcefulness but in a soft way.

B: rare combination.

B: to softly be in charge not many can do that.

ms_voyer: ty- .

B: well night night sweet dreams.

WHAT A LOVELY way to end the wknd. TY boy/s.

ok- have to do this: profiles saying "I would like to serve an attractive experienced Domme near me." and "unhappily, i am not interested in a long distance relationship" -- yetttt >> they joined:11/26/03 --- last on:11/18/05 - Relocation: Willing to Relocate.."

AND I DO STATE THIS IN MINE:"Physical attraction is only PARTLY, ONE facet, ( but shouldnt be a main factor when getting to know a person) but it is an important initial facet." -- SO TO BE A GOOD SUB OR DOMINANT-- 1 MUST BE ATTRACTIVE --- AND THEN IF YOUR NOT YOU CANT BE GOOD AS A SUB OR DOMINANT ?? ---- THINKS- SOME 1 NEEDS TO REPRASE "I HAVE NO LIMITS" to I have "limits only if your a hottie"
“…deep within each of us lie goodness unimagined, wisdom, music, talents of every variety, joy, peace, humility and love…a vast gold-mine, WOULDN'T YOU SAY :)

most "subs/slaves" have a 1 track minds and selected reading limits. "HOW they served another Mistress" "how thier scenes played out" "what they did to appease her (the last Mistress). DONT YOU FOOLS GET IT!!--I'M NOT HER-I'M NOT GOING TO DO THINGS THE WAY SHE DID/DOES-I DONT CARE WHAT WENT DOWN BETWEEN THE 2 OF YOU..I TRAIN YOU TO SUIT ME- NOT AN OLD GHOST MISTRESS!!--- I WONT REPLY TO 3/4'S OF EMAILS I GET FROM HERE-AS ONLY A HANDFULL HAVE COMPLIED WITH WHAT I ASK,FROM MY PROFILE/AD - you can mail me tons of times- and you wont get a reply!!-- there was a very impressive profile I came across this week,he's a- Male Slave, 50, San Diego, California, its nice to see a gentleman, he doesnt speak of what he can do for you- or how you should do for him, but of how you both work to compliment each other in guidance and fullfillment. after chatting with him,1 of his hard way "NO" limits,is 1 of my simple pleasures (smoking cigs)- david as I said in last email to you,good luck on your sole searching path :)

*sighhhh - I get so tired of seeing male profiles proclaiming wanting "REAL DOMME/MISTRESS" ----well I'm seeking REAL 24/7 mindset live-in wifeyyyy/grrrl Mate/sub. SO aside from the "im not paying for- the wanna be fantasy wanker player - the married's that can "serve me" when they pass through town" -- where are THE REAL -RELOCATABLE - WANTING TO SERVE subs?

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY snuggles- TODAY 1 YR AGO YOU ANSWERED MY AD FROM HERE, you've been a dear friend/toymate since then- many more yrs of friendship and play. KISSES- HUGGS..

In light of Katrina/ I have opted to help those victims and open 2 rooms of which a family that is relocating from the dangered areas,to my home-

so with in the next 19 days I will have an extended family in the home-
9 yrs ago I was without a home and some 1 opened thiers for me-

tho many of you have helped out in monetary for the victims-
please call your "govenors office"- the "american red cross"- and "habitat for humanity" --

If you have a spare room or 2- a basement- a garage- any thing to help these people
get back on thier feet-(put your self on the list to ADOPT a family) there are 100,000
ppl now needing shelter, and the shelters them selves are extrememely over loaded.

If you able to or know 1 that can open thier home- please contact: YOUR LOCAL >>
"Govenors office"- the "American Red Cross"- and "Habitat for Humanity".
>>> put your self on the list to ADOPT a family <<<
PLEASE PASS THIS TO ALL YOUR EMAIL FRIENDS/BUDDYS/FAMILY

ALEXIS/MS_VOYERINGMAMA & starmoose2000 (my sis)

Look and learn,I had this boy-make a puplic
apology on his profile for addressing me
with another Domme's name

8/27/2005 5:00:09 PM
WHY 1 SHOULD NEVER CALL OUT THE WRONG DOMME'S NAME:
It is rude to address a Domme by the wrong name, either through typographical sloppiness of by confusing names. It shows a lack of respect to that Domme, and makes it seem as if the sub is not paying appropriate attention, but instead may be thinking about some other Domme. It is an inexcusable mistake, and even worse for a writer such as myself. It is so easy to check and make sure the spelling is correct. I owe Ms. Alexis a significant apology, and this public repentance is part of my punishment for this transgression. Thank You, Ms. Alexis, for so ordering me.

lee the sloppy writer bad boy

this was written from my boy WeEzz4VOY in his profile- thought to share here as well with others.

Happy Anniversary to my Miss Voy.
yes-August 12th/ is our One year mark.
I enjoy being your Boy. It was a pleasure to do all the assigned tasks, It was nice to see how Miss Voy was pleased. Some were easier than others but I managed to do the harder ones as well. It was always exciting to wait for the next one to come so I can make her happy no matter what it was.
I can only wish for you,another Boy a R/T one as you deserve one, he would be so Happy with you. He would definately be a lucky Guy. <<

Tho I play in my home- my toyboy's home and our play groups home---I'm seeking a priv yard/place ( a host/SAT.or SUN.)- where a few like minded can gather, (or simply Me and boy) have a pot luck cookout as well as use the outside to play / to do a humiliation scene with boy naked/tied/gagged to tree or car. can any 1 provide this or know of some 1 that can do this? Hartford/Springfield county area.

well its june 24,2005- and tho I have chatted to many- and met quiet a few,I'm still getting the "I'm married types- who claim want to serve,but is limited to time (their's NOT mine)" so tell me where are all the "so-called single-relocateable's" ?? - And of course I still get the profile's of those soooooo wanting- and you write to them- and get a unanswered reply- LOOK-A few simple words of "I'm not interested- thanks for writing" --WONT BREAK YOUR fingers or burn out your brain....

NOTHING PISSES ME MORE-then when I write you complimenting something on your dam profile- and you cant EVEN RETURN A DAM THANK YOU!!! >>

I'm still seeking my sub/mate- tho I do have a few toymate subs- Big differance between the 2..

After placing an ad on Fri. Oct 1st,2004- I reply'd to an email of a local to me from here (snuggles) we met and played sat. night to a 1st sat. monthly bdsm play party I go to.. Im Happy to say snuggles is deff. a keeper :) - he also knows at times my poly side of me likes to play with 2 or more at the same time, and is ok with that. so saying congrats to snuggles - 1 of my new toymates.. {{KISSES & HUGS}}

I have been known to do PRO Domme, simply ask me what I may need or want at the moment, for a tribute.

title/labels:Single (MOM),POLYANDRY,
Pansexual,BBW-domme/MISTRESS,
Transgender/queer LOVER of / chaser "G/G Female".
Seeking:wether you are- Single str8 / Bi Male-C/D- M/M Cpl- T/g female- Sub- Triad..(23 +)

Mistress/45/CT-seeking submissive sissy toy-to play 1st (sat.) wknd
every month -at a priv.play bdsm party-YOU must be local and (23 +)
seeking sissy submissive play toy do'ers NOT wanna be fantasy talkers

I have varied interests, I love to cook all types of foods, bingo, casino's, hiking, camping, cookouts, horse back, bowling, dancing >hopefully you get the "IDEA".
favorite season is "FALL" with a cozy fire burning. I love VERMONT.
for my choice of MANLY MEN -I'm extremely fond of men with full beards-ya know (GRIZZLY ADAM) type,(out doorsy-rugged) Ummmm and salt pepper hair (BUT not a requirement)
as well as ren fair long haired men and hispanics,
but as I stated I like all types of men as well for other lifestyles.

I'm a warm,cuddly Domme/MISTRESS who feels that punishment is necessary,
but not enjoyable!!

I'm NOT a cold, distant Bitch Goddess,who feels men/woman are inferior..
His/her submission does not make him/her weak in the least.
It takes a great deal of inner strength to try to make oneself into a submissive,
who pleases thier Dominants.

A slave is a man who came to me and brought something that completes myself.
Without a slave I cannot be,since I cannot be the dominant that I am,
without a counterpart. Since I am female,he must be male.
Since I am dominant he must be willing to be shaped into my counterpart.
This is what he brought with him:
himself and his willingness to be shaped and formed.
Not desire, since desire would be based on his former self.
Not readiness,since he did not know what to be ready for.

I am a Smoker & have 2 cats-if you cant handle either,then I'm not for you !!!
If you are serious,and LOCAL and would like to be a toy/or live-in for a BBW,Domme/Mistress,
let's get started with getting to know each other,and meet.
This process should take a month or two MAX,NOT 6 months of endless emails/chats
and bullshit reasons why "now is not the right time,because of blah,blah in my life".
I hear that shit all the time!-

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