Strong, independent and successful woman seeks that certain man to share life with!

While I am actively involved in the BDSM community and that part of my self is important, it is by no means the full extent of what I am. I am seeking a man who will treat me like the lady I am in public and remind me of the submissive I am in private. I am not looking for a man to think for me, nor am I looking for someone to tell me how to lead my life. But if I am to have a LTR with a man, some of those dominant/sadistic tendencies must be present. But again, let me state, this is only for the right man. This man must be intelligent, honorable, fun loving, creative, well mannered and physically able to best me. BDSM tendencies should be part of the relationship, but by no means the full scope of it. He should be comfortable sharing all aspects of life from BDSM, to day to day chats about work and life, to spirituality, to.... you get the picture I think :-).

I enjoy submission and role playing and can be masochistic (but tolerances need to be built for this). I can be bratty and push the rules or even flat out break them at times so that I can feel my Dominants wrath.

I am as comfortable in the city enjoying a fine meal as I am in the outdoors watching the sunrise over isolated valleys. I am gainfully employed not looking for someone to take care of me. Neither am I looking to take care of someone else. I do not want to complete you; I just share a wonderful walk through life with you for however long that walk is comfortable to the both of us.

My first tendency is to laugh at life. I find humor in most things. If you are easily offended or thin skinned, don’t bother replying to this post. I am full of flaws as are all humans, but I think I have mine mostly under control. Hopefully, yours are as well.

Be forewarned that I know what it is that I want and I intend to find it. I am happy with who I am and am looking for someone to share my happiness with. I also realize that chemistry is a huge part of any relationship, either it is there or it is not. I know it exists though and will soon find it's way back into my life.

If from reading the description above, you think we are looking for similar things, drop me a line.