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About MsValentine
Welcome to the profile of Ms_Valentine, Mistress to paulss1957.
I should make this absolutely clear from the outset, I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A SUB of any kind, shape, age, persuasion or type and expect this to be understood and respected.
I am also not looking to make purely online 'friends' as regretfully I am just too busy with other activities in my life to devote to this kind of commitment at present.
My reason for using this site is to read and contribute to forums and learn from the experiences of others.
I have been a member of IC and a few other bdsm sites (under a different name) since 2002 but became interested in what was going happening on this site and decided to join.
I first came out on the scene over twelve years ago and have been actively involved ever since . The young Ms_Valentine knew she was into bdsm at a very early age. At all of five years old, I watched John Wayne spank Maureen O'Hara and thought how exciting that looked.
In my teens early, but sadly unwilling, boyfriends had to put up with me trying to tie them up or spank them. If only I had known then, there are in fact, lots of submissive men out there.
It took a fair while before I found myself in a wonderful 24/7 D/s relationship. It was worth the wait though. Paul and I met in 2002 and we began living together in Jan 2007.
Paul is a beautifully obedient sub, loving and devoted. He is my best friend, lover, companion and more besides. I cannot imagine life without him. Our relationship is deeply romantic in nature yet embedded core deep with elements of the bdsm world
This next bit may be hard for some to grasp but here goes. paul is my sub. However, unlike many subs, he has no rights and is unable to leave our relationship unless released by me. He is not my slave and I am not his owner. He is simply a sub who has willingly given up all his rights to me.
I control paul sexually, financially, temporally and in pretty much any other way one could imagine. His life is devoted to my pleasure, happiness and comfort and doing this makes his life complete. He has no say over his use, treatment,punishments or indeed anything else.
It is now well over two years since we moved to this area and we have been touched by how friendly and welcoming people have been. Consequently, we both enjoy the bdsm social scene here and attend the Farnborough Munch, Reading Munch and Berkshire Dom Sub Munch as well as fetish fairs and club events.
If you see us, then feel free to come say hello.
I should add that I am a Professional Dominatrix under a different name in the UK. I am not interested in mixing my professional life with my lifestyle activities on this site. I will only talk about PDing if someone else brings it up and spouts stupid, biased, ill-founded nonsense which needs correction. :-)
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