MisstressWylde

After the disappearance of yet another service submissive and another potential long distance relationship-sub (both last week), I really have to wonder what is going on.  Someone once told me it's hard to find loyalty in this lifestyle.  I'm starting to think he's right.  Emails and text messages are hard--they seem to bring out the worst in me.

you get out of a long distance relationship (well any relationship really) what you're willing to put into it.  it takes patience and acceptance of the other person--characteristics I have yet to see here.

need to clean house.  *sigh*  One room at a time, right?

Great.  Cowboys getting their asses handed to them.  AGAIN.

Great.  Dumped by text message.  I hate dating.

I am a lifestyle Domme looking for submissives in the DFW area to serve me in specific and tangible ways.? I want to reward you for completing house and yard chores to my expectations. ?I will NOT consider anyone else who can't do the following. ?Otherwise, skip all the way to the end for more info.

And maybe some day, I want?to enjoy your company for dinner, movies, and maybe even?shopping.? (my high heel collection needs refreshing)?

You'll need to be local or able to come to Me for a day or two.? I'm putting my focus on real life rather than?time spent on the Internet with you.


So, the above are my priorities, and physical reward and kink have to wait.? But none of the above can happen without mental domination, so you won't be completely bereft of D/s.? And for some of you, maybe what I've described is just what you're looking for.? I'm just not ready to dive into relationships or bonding.? I've decided to only test the water a bit with my fingertips....


And it's been so long since intimate play with any man.? A word, strap-on sex to me is what vanilla sex used to mean to me when I was 16--it is the holy grail of all intimate acts.? I have done it with only one man.? I have only come close to it with another, but I held back so neither one of us would get hurt.

And someday, I'll be ready for the following? (I've also included the characteristics of my personality below):

If you are a male slave seeking ownership, I am very interested in you.? I do have a child who would regard you as a live-in housekeeper (with your own room--with cage if necessary).? But, she is not here all the time, so otherwise I can openly treat you as the slave you are.? Don't offend me by emailing me without reading my?profile, and then not know I have a child.

Even I question the worth of the following approach.? I've put so much focus on being real and following my companionship needs...now that seems to be crap.

Not surprisingly, sex is one of the main reasons people argue, often above money, housework and other common sources of conflict. Sex is also one of those subjects that women tend to keep bottled up because they?re afraid of eliciting an angry reaction.

Arguing naturally triggers the brain?s ?fight or flight? response system. Many men respond by fighting, and it?s been shown that this confrontational approach raises one?s heart rate, increases blood pressure and plays a big role in cardiac disease. But interestingly, the opposite reaction, flight, can be just as harmful, if not worse, for women. It leads to self-silencing: a bottling-up of emotions that causes anxiety, depression and a cascade of unhealthy behaviors.

So, my kiddo got bored & agitated the other day and broke off several keys from the laptop.  One is the space bar. I won't be writing much til it's fixed.

It'sannoyingashell!

one thing (ok, many)  I'm tired of is answering a bunch of questions about what I am looking for; oh this is a new one:  what do dommes get out of strap-on; what I'm like as a domme, etc., etc., with no follow up or disappearing acts when I talk about meeting.  That's why I'm declaring doors closed over here.

  *Sigh* I'm so tired of leading with my D/s domme-ality, when I'm so much more.  I am independent, confident, a leader; I like recognition and compliments;  and these are all very domme-like qualities, and I'm not even talking about having someone at my heel worshipping me or taking orders.  And you know what else?  I am also vulnerable, want to be heard, understood, and protected.

A Top-friend-of-mine-with benefits suggested perhaps an answer for me is another Top, but I'm not sure that's it either.  I keep hearing of alpha male submissives, and I guess that's who I hope I find and click with.

So, I think my new rule of thumb is I'm not interested in getting to know you unless you set a time with me to meet, and then follow up.  that's going to be true for everyone.

And, I am decidedly not interested in those who've discovered that this lifestyle suits them because they want to worship 'the superior sex.'  My outlook?  We are all yin and yang, anima and animus.  To say that women are superior (or men are superior) is to say that there is something wrong with my own 'masculine' qualities.