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ToBeOfService4U

Female Submissive, 42
Male Dominant, 21
Male Submissive, 52
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About ToBeOfService4U


I am a sensual being that thoroughly enjoys pleasing in what ever fashion we desire. While not into extreme pain, my limits have not yet been reached there. cbt, nt, anal, oral, tease & denial, are some of the activities I crave.

Verbal control from a superior is always appreciated by me. I understand that my feelings have nothing to do with it. It is all about pleasing you.

Your lightest touch can have the heaviest effect. Private scenes are best.

On the other hand, I do switch and delight in taking control in a mellow way. No beatings, rather the firmness of voice, eye contact, the mental demands that makes the willing submit by their own desire.

Age and experience levels are not critical. I have a willing desire to explore the things that make the lifestyle so wonderful.

I am ready to continue the exploration of all style with new friends. Want to come along?
It's been a while since I have posted an entry here. Time to get involved again with like minded friends. Yes, I do believe the time is right for some interaction.
A long holiday weekend. Yay. What to do? What to do? Do you have any ideas?
Ahh. You've been considering finding a new plaything. I might have just what you are looking for. Inquire within.
Now that summer is in full swing, it's time to get out and play with friends. Who wants to play?

Does spring make you horny? It sure does for me. Need to take out my binoculars and scan the horizon for a playmate or two.

I know that most of what is found here is a fake or a flake, but every now and then a genuine being pops up. Ain't it funny how just one good connection can help put up with all the goofs?

Not a fan of the ice storm. Being cooped up for all that time makes my kinkometer rise. Now, I am sooo ready to get out and share some time.

So many playas. To each his own, but I find that a great waste of time. I prefer real time with real people. How about you?

Time to plan the after Labor Day wardrobe. Well, based on what I see in the store windows at the mall, it's time to break out the Santa suit.  :-/

 

Temperature back in the 90's. Definitely time to stay inside in a cool dark room and have fun.

Anticipation is excruciating.

My recent play experience was pretty intense (for me, anyway) and very much needed and enjoyed. Yum. Funny how it makes you want to do it again...soon.

I'm thinking it is time to find a couple to play with. Yep, happy endings for all. Sounds like a good time to me.

You know that feeling you get when you just can't wait any longer to be with someone who shares your desires? I have that feeling now.

Snow makes me horny. But then, so does air. :-)

Seeking a dominant to serve. It quickens my pulse.

Brrr. First freeze of the season. What can I do to warm up?

Seeing Big Tex go up in smoke was traumatic. But, he'll be back next year. I just hope they don't trick him up like some cartoon character from Six Flags.

 

And, I am in the mood for play time.

 

How about that for two totally unrelated items?

I find it interesting when reading profiles of 'Dominants' of how so many start right off with Not, Don't, Won't, Can't, all the negatives. Is that an indication of their general personality, one with such a dour outlook on life? Where is the positivity?

Is it just me or has the demographic here changed? Of those that designate themselves as female and dominant, there seems to be some rather hard edged personalities, more so than in the past. It is as if their interpretation of dominant means yelling loudly and stomping around. I guess for some that works. Me, not so much.

Ah, the longest day of the year today. And, in six months, it will be the longest night. Funny how that goes round.

Delightful Springtime. Perfect opportunity to enjoy being with a playful dominant. So, where are you, playful dominant?

Raw emotions do strange things to your body.

Ah, the New Year is here. I wonder what kinky things will happen now. I'm sure it will be an exciting time. What's on your lifestyle bucket list?

mmm. cooler weather makes me frisky. wanna play?

I thought I was going to have to call a plumber when I saw the water everywhere. Then I realized, hey, that's rainwater! Remember rain?

Enough with the 100+ degrees already! If this doesn't stop soon, I'm sending a strong memo. That ought to get it done, right?

OK, we're all ready to get over this heat wave. Would whoever has their hand on the thermostat let it go, so we can return to our regularly scheduled program. By the way, what is our regularly scheduled program?

Well, I survived the Fourth of July holiday without blowing anything to pieces, didn't burn anything on the grill, took a long nap on the couch with TV remote firmly in hand....all in all, a safe and sane day off....dammit. :-)

Is it just me or do holidays make you horny, too?

Just like a thermometer in the Texas heat, my kinkometer is in the red zone. This calls for playtime. Scanning the horizon for playmates.

Visiting Las Vegas this week. I wonder what I will find there. Remember the line---What happens in Vegas....is fun. :-)

What a perfect day to play in the woods all naked. Want to cum along?

Don't you love the tease of Spring and its warm weather? Tshirt and flipflops ... and then Ol' Man Winter blows through again to remind us he still has some say in the issue. Yeah, but Spring and Summer will take full charge here pretty soon. Outside play for a while, then back indoors with the AC turned way down so the sheets are cold.

The first day of the new year always makes the future look bright. It will be fun to explore and find new kinky friends to play with.

The week between Christmas and New Years always makes my kinkometer jump up to the red zone. I should do something about that.

Ah, now that the work flow has slowed, I can spend a little more time enjoying the lifestyle. Let's see, who might be fun to share with now?

What is it with this sudden onslaught of PayMe dommes and all their solicitations?

Sheez. Let me save you some time.

NOT GONNA DO IT.? Shoo.?
September...nice time of the year to serve.
Sometimes I just have to chuckle at the waste of time some people go through to try to scam others.? I guess I should feel honored that so many women from Russia want to have me bring them to the USA so they can be my bride. Nyet.
With the heat coming on so soon in the season, we should all buy stock in the electric company...so we can stay indoors in the cold and dark play area.
The seeking lamp is lit. Now I am actively looking for a dominant interested in sensual service. Could that be you?
Finally, warmer weather. Trees starting to bloom and grass beginning to grow. Daylight Savings Time is great, too. I wonder how I can spend my time now. The urge to serve has grown to its highest level in quite a while.
Cold weather, rain/snow, yuck. I'm ready for springtime...until then it's practice for playtime. Hmm, who wants to practice?
What will 2010 bring? Time will tell. It should be a great adventure.
Life is grand. And the drive from DFW to Houston isn't so bad, particularly when there is gold at the end of the rainbow.
Isn't it the sensation of touch that you really crave? Yes, me too.
Passion is so delicious. Sharing mutual interests makes the flame hot.
Ugh. The summer heat is stifling. Makes me want to be inside a nice dark, cold room.

I love this time of year. It's playtime! But then, I guess all year is playtime. hehe

I'm sure that for some, cyber and online interaction is thrilling, but it doesn't float my boat. Real time encounters only for me. Being in the presence of a dominant and being able to feel that power is what draws this one to the flame.
So spring is popping out. New leaves on trees, grass starting to turn green, and of course, weeds. It does get the juices flowing, doesn't it. It's playtime.
Ah, a new year. What adventures will it bring? Are you seeking adventure?
Cold weather is great for creative indoor activities.
Well, those that are shallow and hollow tend to float away. That's good. Those that are true and sincere about the lifestyle prove their worthiness. Meeting new friends here is a great adventure. Have I met you yet?
It's time to get back into more lifestyle activities. Who wants to participate?
Good things DO cum to those who persist in their desires.
Ahh. The pleasure of serving is a grand emotion. I should do it more.
I have a new found appreciation for the word "finicky" .... it seems to be what many dommes are.
Ah, a new year. I wonder what exciting wonders will be found. The hunt is invigorating. Being found, exhilarating.
The feeling of submission is intoxicating and addictive. The look in a domme's eyes after serving her is so delicious.

I'm learning how important it is to read profiles completely. And how many here don't. After a relationship has bloomed, it's unfortunate when issues arise that could have been avoided early on just by closer inspection. Use your time wisely.

I keep wondering what it is that drives us to push into the unknown. The yearning to explore forbidden cultures overtakes me and carries me to delicious states of being. I may have been a lab rat in a previous life. ;-)
An experience with a wonderful couple where she was domme and he was her subbie turned into a very nice afternoon. She seemed quite pleased that her two 'boys' performed so nicely for her. Her CBT was very intense as well. I need more now.
My recent experiences with a wonderful switch gave me much to think about regarding the lifestyle. I find that when not being the sub, I do enjoy the control especially when spanking. But, I think in the long run, I am a subbie at heart. Where will the next adventure begin? The more I experience, the more I crave.
Winter is such a dull time of year. i'm wondering who might like to make it more interesting?
Here's hoping everyone enjoys the holiday season and gets just everything they want and has fun doing it.
The more I learn, the more I realize how much more there is to learn. The experiences and interaction between people can be recorded in a book, but only truly felt in the heart, mind and body.
The early quiet hours of the day are usually very early and very quiet...

Standing on the corner, watching all the dommes go by.  Well, not really, but certainly am on the lookout.

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