HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY TO ALL THE MOMS OUT IN CYBERLAND

What makes a Good Master? 

A Man who displays sensitivity Will be a Master who is sensitive to you  A Man who displays humility will be a Master who will show you respect  A Man who is not afraid to cry will be a Master who understands your tears  A Man who is quiet will be a Master who will hear your quietest whisper  A Man who knows fear will be a Master who will not leave you to face yours alone  A Man who will listen to a child will be a Master who will always work to understand your words  A Man who can stand alone will be a Master who will not crush you under His weight A Man who controls Himself with ease will be a Master with the ability to control you in the same way  A Man who does not have to prove His point will be a Master with many worthwhile points to share  A Man who never makes demands will be a Master who treasures anything you give  A Man who doesn't run after you will be a Master you will never need to run away from  A Man who is calm will be a Master who can weather your storms  A Man who has walked the path to peace will be a Master able to guide you along that path  A Man who does not shout will be a Master who will never deafen you  A Man who knows Himself will be a Master who will have time to know you  A Man who never stops learning will be a Master who never stops growing  A Man who always seeks to be the best He can be for you is the only Man truly worthy of being called Master.

Permission granted to use from BadBoy1000

      MY FIRST WRITING ASSINGMENT FOR An Old Daddy

          Daddy is off for the weekend!! And there is a munch scheduled for Saturday night. Daddy has been teasing baby girl all week because he knows she is very nervous as this is her very first munch. He comes in and ask how has my baby girl been all week? I have been lonely and missing you Daddy I say to him. Is my baby girl ready for her first munch tomorrow? Well sort a I hesitantly say as you hear the nervous in my voice. You take me in your arms and ask me just who do you belong to baby girl?

Well you of course Daddy I innocently say, as you nod your head in agreement. Now what are you to me baby girl? I am your nasty baby girl your play toy your confident your most prized possession Daddy. This is correct baby girl now do you actually think I would ever allow harm to come to you?

Well I guess if you put it that way Daddy no you would not. He then asks, are your limits gonna be tested tomorrow?

Of course they are baby girl, but I will be beside you all night long and nothing is going to happen to you that I do not allow to happen to my baby girl.

          We go about our night then, loving and pleasing each other. I ask for the ropes on my hands and you tell me no. I look at you questioningly but you just shake your head not tonight baby girl. We  get up the next morning and do all the Daddy is home for the weekend chores, such as stripping the sleeper and doing up all the laundry, grocery shopping , and we add in going and getting baby girl an outfit for her very first munch. It is a lil black mini skirt dress with silver hand cuffs as appliques all over it and a pair of strapping black heels add to the attire is a black leather collar with a dainty D ring in the front with a leash.. We come home from shopping and Daddy fires up the grill as I go into the kitchen and start to make a salad and put in the potatoes for dinner. I then go and run a bubble bath to start getting ready for the coming night out. We eat dinner and Daddy keeps a shit eating grin on his face as I pick at my food my nerves on edge now.  We finish dinner and go and finish getting dressed and ready to go. As we get to the door to go to the car Daddy takes me in his arms and whispers in my ear you have always made me proud brat I expect no less from you tonight. I nod my reply of yes so nervous I am afraid I may lose it and beg to just stay home tonight, but knowing this means the world to Daddy I refrain and find the strength deep down in me to get into the car as Daddy opens the door for me. Daddy gets in and starts the car and right before he put the car in reverse he caresses my thigh remember all that I and Uncle Bill have ever taught you about protocols  baby  girl and I will be with you always never forget that ..Just remember do not use our normal safe word tonight but the one used with Bill before you became mine.

          As we pull up to the place the munch is being held at and Daddy parks the car he turns and smiles a reassuring smile and slips the leash from his pocket attaching it to the collar. I look startled and unsettled for a moment but he softly murmurs as I get out of the car it is no different than when I slip my belt around you when we are at home you can do this baby or I would have never allowed for you to come tonight. Just never forget that you are my most prized passion and you are very cherished my love. I give a small nod showing that I have heard and understand as I follow Daddy to the entrance. There is a is someone at the door greeting us and you give a small tug on the leash reminding me to kneel in greeting to the one at the door. He gives you our seating tickets and we proceed in finding our seat I take my place kneeling slightly behind you, as the first demonstration begins.  I watch intently as the demonstrator starts to tie a girl up on the table. As he calls out the different knots and loops that he is using to tie her with. I give a small shiver as I see how helpless and bound she is and knowing that soon I will be placed on that same stage with much the same knots and loops attached to me. I start to think of how much control I will be giving away and what little escape I will truly have once those ropes go around me. I say a silent prayer. Lord please give me the strength to be able not to panic tonight. I know deep inside I will not be harmed but Lord I really need some strength. As the demonstrator releases the girl my stomach does a total flip flop as I know I a m next to be tied up. Lord Dracomis calls out priss it is now your turn. Daddy gets up from his seat and leads me up to the stage            unhooking my leash as he goes and retakes his seat but still in eye sight of the table. Lord Dracomis proceeds to hog tie me to the table making what I feel are a million knots and loops all around my body .It is hard for me to breath I feel slightly panicky and think real hard of calling the safe word, but I turn my head to the crowd and see the look of pure pride on Daddy's face and it gives me the strength I need

to go on, so I take a deep breath and finish what I started, knowing full well this is only the first of the demos that I will be a apart of tonight. As Lord Dracomis ties the very last knot I breathe a sigh of relief and beam knowing that I have somehow overcome this and as long as I live I will not have to be afraid of not being able to run away from anything ever again. Lord Dracomis then unties me as Daddy comes back up to the stage to get me once again clipping the leash to my collar. As we go back to our seats I go to kneel behind you, but instead you pull me onto your lap and have me sit there.

           As I watch them clear the stage and get ready for the next demonstrator you whisper in my ear very well done baby girl, and yes I saw the struggle....but I also saw when you overcame it with your mind and you will ever only be bond with bindings now my love never from fear you have grown much already tonight and I am very proud of you, are you ready for the next demonstration baby girl? I look into your eyes and nod my yes glowing not only from your praise but the feeling of self-confidence that in just a few moments I have over came more than years of therapy ever could. As Lord William comes on the stage I see the peg board like wall all lined with floggers and my heart starts to race. Daddy feels the tension in me build and whispers in my  ear the more you fights this the more it is going to hurt ...relax calm down focus on only one blow at a  time  you can overcome this  this is the easy one baby girl . You know you can handle the pain look how much the ones before me made you suffer you have it in you baby girl and I a m here always. Lord William calls me up stage and I carefully allow him bind me to the beams he has stretching me out spread eagle with my back to the crowd. I start to panic I can't see Daddy how am I to focus on Daddy if I cannot see Daddy? Then I hear it somewhere in the back of my mind “ I am with you always baby girl you can do this , this is the easy one relax break” Suddenly I hear a whoosh go through the air and right before it translates to my brain that is the flogger  I feel the first sting.  It stings I almost cry out but stop myself short. I dig deep down and find the strength that I have relied upon time and again with the assholes in my past that has only made me stronger even though I never see the growing. Lord /William changes the swing and whoosh there it comes again that biting sting.  I bit my bottom lip but do not filch nor cry out. Lord William shows the munchers about 15 different swings you can use with a flogger one after another on my tender flesh. I sang against the bonds holding me up spread eagle for all to watch. Finally I feel Daddy behind me gently releasing me pulling me into his embrace, as he helps me off the stage. I hear another sub being called up to the stage, but am too weak to really listen. I am pleased with myself I did not cry out nor flinch. Yes I am very sore as anyone would be after such a flogging but I can hold my head up high and know that I will never have to fear a flogger nor bonds again......I have grown much in just one single night and even if none else knows the struggles I went through tonight I do. I know these munchers do not know that I have never been bound nor flogged before...but I do and so does Daddy and his trusted friends that where the demonstrators tonight. But I did it and I overcame it  so now we just have to work on those few other hurdles that are out there in my mind...But with trust faith and understanding those will be overcome in time also.

Written by miss_priss29  Dec 2011

What is a Daddy......

by Raveheart

about 4 years ago

I have a article that was published in 2005 that i was blessed enough to write, I would like to share it here I see many questions on this particular board that it will answer I hope you all find it useful. I have been Mentoring Daddy/Masters for a very long time.

Sincerly

Raveheart

What is a Daddy?

A Daddy is many things, that is the individuality of the Man. But to each Daddy there is a core make up of what He consist of. I will endeavor in this writing to discuss what a Daddy is to me, and my opinion of character traits He must possess.

First off, before any other trait, a Daddy must love. Not just loving like to any other relationship, but this love must be unconditional, and must be complete in its conception and its application. He must be able to love a baby girl through all of her many modes, and her many adventures.

When she is a cute cuddly affectionate baby girl , and she looks up at you with those eyes and says I love you Daddy , that is the whole reason we Daddy’s truly exist, to show her daily no matter what happens, no matter what is said or done, We love them through it all. This is the easiest time to love her as a baby girl.

When she is sulking or pouting, and not understanding why her Daddy said or did something, or didn’t find something of value the same way she did, those times can be a harder time to love her through it. So again we see the core of the relationship and the greatest motivator is not only her love to you as a Daddy but your consistent love to her.

Second, a Daddy must be kind, even thought at times it requires us to be firm and strict, standing to our word, there is a way to do so with proper motivation and being genuinely kind , in how we conduct ourselves. Weather that is in public, private or in an emergency situation (that may be a emergency to her) no matter how we as Daddy’s see it.

We must be kind to everything she finds of great value or importance, for to accept her is to accept everything in her world, and at times even if something doesn’t set with us well, we have to be kind and accept these things as part of her. You cannot put on a façade in front of her your kindness must come from deep within and be very genuine, for it is tested daily , if not at times every few minutes.

Next, a Daddy must be caring, even as we help baby girl through a very rough and trying world, we must be genuine in our caring, of so many things. Her welfare, her surrounding, the insignificant things she finds important, and the experiences her day brings her.

We must care for her complete happiness, her every single need, want and desire. We have to care for her completely as we would care for a small child that has no ability to protect or provide for itself. For if she could handle her needs alone there would be no reason for Daddy’s to exist.

We must care for her friends and her family as it is our own. We must be able to show her when we discipline or punish that we do so because we care and be able to show her no matter how upset we become that because we care we are who we are as a Daddy, Yes tough love can still be accomplished with loving, kind, caring ways.

Next as a Daddy we must be compassionate, we must make things important to her important to us, and we must feel her emotions and her results of things that influence her. We must be able to feel her sorrow, her joy, her excitement, when we want to be strict and firm and get a point across to her, sometimes we have to use compassion to be certain we are understanding what this particular experience made her believe and feel.

When her world comes crashing in on her as a Daddy it is our responsibility to for see her emotions and reactions, and plan things accordingly. We must be able to cry with her laugh with her, openly express to her we fully understand what she is going through, and take her by the hand and lead her through all the scary times life brings her.

A Daddy must be strong, not just physically, but mentally, and spiritually, a rock cannot be fragile for how can a relationship be based on something that isn’t consistent and waivers. Daddies need physical strength, to pick her up and hold her when it’s needed. They must be able to physically maintain the baby girls pace; as you know young minded people are normally full of energy from their dreams goals and desires.

A Daddy must be mentally strong to handle all the emotional changes of the day, to ward off the monsters of the baby girls life, and to show her consistency in times of trials. He must be able to lead by example, and think clearly at times others would find it impossible to think through situations.

A Daddy must be spiritually strong; to complete the bonds with her, to kiss her boo boo’s and convince her everything will be just fine. He must be a leader to her in the strength of a giant , the wisdom of a Daddy, and the heart of her favorite teddy bear, He must be strong but not overpowering, He has to allow things to happen so he can show strengths in even the worst of times.

A Daddy must be intelligent and have a certain degree of wisdom. Not knowing it all by far, for everyday he should be learning more about himself and his baby girl to be the best Daddy possible for her. He must be intelligent to handle everything possible that life can throw at not just his baby girl but also to himself.

He must be intelligent in His structure He sits before her, to keep things fresh and exciting without letting boredom or ruts become daily events. He must be able to decide at every instant in life what is the best course of action to take if any. What to do for his baby girl that will benefit her best.

He must be willing to pay the price of being a Daddy, and to at just the right time offer council and wisdom, then be loving enough to let her choose her path , weather she heeds his advice or not, and regardless the outcome be intelligent enough to help her handle and learn from the repercussions.

A Daddy must be the most understanding He has ever been in his life, to be able to function even in basic ways for her. He must be able to understand her better than him own self, from her loves and craves to her fears and insecurities. He must be able to understand what she consist of deep inside, what motivates her and what will cause her to withdraw into her shell.

He must be able to understand the significance of items and events in her life, instead of labeling her past as baggage be able to understand all her experiences have made her the baby girl she is. And then have the knowledge to help mold her into what she needs to become.

He must be able to understand her reasoning for all she does and says. He must listen to her not just to let her vent but really understand what, when, why, is this event causing what reactions in her, as she walks though life.

A Daddy must be fair meaning He must be nonjudgmental; he cannot pick sides without having the full information of each event or experience that she stumbles upon. He must not have the mindset of prejudging his baby girl, He should always be optimistic and through his love and trust be open minded and give her the benefit of the doubt.

He must be nonjudgmental of her family and friends, and allow her to choose and select those around her that she feels will be most beneficial not a selected field of influence based on her Daddies capacity to trust.

He must be fair in his punishment, in His structure, in his guidelines and expectations, He cannot judge her on events of his past or based on a prior relationship. He must not judge her for pushing the limits and testing him to see what she can get away with. Instead he must use a nonjudgmental thought process to understand why she does what she does.

A Daddy must become her Teacher and Mentor, to feed her daily to grow into the woman she is to become. He must have attributes of a Man willing to go to any extreme for her true completion. He must be able to use all His attributes to effectively lead and teach her , He cannot just jump into this mode when He feels it is time but he must stay in this ability at all times, helping her learn from everything she experiences in life.

He must be willing to let her explore and let her experience things to help her set her own guidelines base don their communication , and develop mutual goals that are beneficial to each party. No matter how testing or hard this is on himself He must allow Himself to seek the teaching of others and the guidance of others to be the best he can be for his baby girl.

A Daddy has to find a balance of the relationship and be able to know He doesn’t need to order her around , for out of her love for him she will please him for it breaks her heart to know she has disappointed her Daddy.

He has to willing at times to let her have her independence , and when she makes the wrong choices or decisions be the most stable person in her life, to take her hand and help her overcome. He must be willing to be her partner and team mate against a very harsh and cruel world. Not condescending and saying I told you so , that is a emotional killer.

He must be willing to at times no matter how hard learn to be silent and let her venture out of His comfort zone, with the understanding it will not only help her grow, but also Himself. He must again be able to give total love and trust to allow her certain since of equality, even though out of love and respect He never looses his position as her everything and the precious title she gives Him of Daddy.

A Daddy must be her confidence when she hasn’t any , he must be able to calm and soothe her in many areas, he must be able to use His gentleness to make her feel safe and secure and loved . He must be able to convince her daily He solely exist to be everything she needs.

He is a builder of her not a destructive force that negates her every feeling and action. She should never fear her daddy but let him take her fears away and make them insignificant.

He should make her feel safe.... secure.... wanted.... loved.... cherished.... adored....she should become his little princess. He should be non selfish and willing to sing her to sleep , or read her a bed time story, whatever he must do for her to complete her He has to be willing.

A Daddy must be openly communicative, flexible, patient, so many more perhaps for another writing we will explore deeper. I think as a final note there are faces and phases as a Daddy we must show all this and more through. We must love her a s a baby girl, as a lady, as a naughty brat, as a fun loving kid, as a sexual beautiful creature.

Notice this writing didn’t even touch the area of the affection or intimacy in this relationship for the core of the Daddy greatly effects the bond of the relationship, and it leads to her comfort in both of the other areas. If he isn’t consistent in his core and able to love unconditionally, be kind, gentle, strong, intelligent, patient, fair, compassionate, and understanding , just to name a few traits, the affection and intimacy will be pointless.

So let me lastly leave a word of encouragement if you ever thought you wanted to be the best Daddy in the world for her and wanted her to see you with all the love and respect you feel you deserve, apply yourself to be her Daddy consistently there is no greater reward again then to hear from her mouth daily Daddy your Baby girl loves you.

DaddyRaveHeart © 2005

THE TOTAL FAKES PLAYERS AND OUT AND OUT LIARS ON THIS SITE TOTALLY AMAZE ME!!!!!!

By:
DaddysGentleHand

Daddy's prayer
 

To the highest power I ask for wisdom

The wisdom to be understanding
The wisdom to be patient
The wisdom to be just

The wisdom to know when to be firm or when to be gentle
The wisdom to know the truth

The wisdom to be worthy of my baby girl
The wisdom to never take my baby girl for granted

The wisdom to know that my importance to her is only equaled by her importance to me

The wisdom to love the things she loves, as much as she loves them herself
The wisdom to love and respect her for who she is, forever
The wisdom to show her my unconditional love

The wisdom to lead in a positive direction
The wisdom to learn from her
The wisdom to teach her
The wisdom to give and receive love equal to the love she gives me

The wisdom to let go of my fears

The wisdom to know when to stop
The wisdom to know when to start

The wisdom to know when she needs me the most
The wisdom to recognize when she needs her space
The wisdom to lead her, and the wisdom to follow her

The wisdom to know the trust she gives to me is the greatest gift she can ever give
The wisdom to earn her trust and keep her trust
The wisdom to trust her with the same devotion that she trusts me

The wisdom to make her laugh and smile, to feel at ease and comfortable being herself
The wisdom to encourage her positively, and help make her better in every way

The wisdom to express myself clearly and thoughtfully
The wisdom to understand her words and her actions unerringly
The wisdom to anticipate her needs and to respond to them appropriately

The wisdom to be the gentleman to her lady

To the highest power i ask for these gifts
And in this higher powers hand I give my trust
For help
For guidance
For support
And for wisdom

To be the Daddy she deserves, always and all ways

The Good Daddy by DarkLord50

Firstly, I want dispel any notions or misconceptions about the relationship between daddy dominants and their special subs. It has nothing to do with incest, age play, or any closeted desires or fetish for, or with children. It is not even about a father-daughter relations, in fact, there is nothing about this type of relationship that resembles anything about their father for these subs, whatsoever. In this dominant's opinion, a daddy dominant is the most tender of all dominants. He loves and adores his submissive with a true, eternal passion. A daddy dominant has his sub's best interest in mind, even when it conflicts with his own personal desires. This does not mean that he surrenders to her every demand.

There can be significant differences between the submissive's desires and her real needs. A daddy dominant has to be prepared to sacrifice for her, if needed, and yes, at times he does punish his submissive when needed, which generally hurts him just as much, if not more, than her. He will always do what is best for his submissive charge. He always helps his submissive to set and attain goals in life. He will strive diligently to help her improve herself to be the best she can be, not for himself, but for her. A daddy dominant is not only looking to make her a better submissive, but a better person overall. He has many roles in her life. He is a mentor, a teacher, a protector, a guide, and most of all, a lover.

A daddy dominant offers to his submissive what she needs most of all, which is unconditional love and acceptance. He must maintain consistency in his actions towards his sub, so that she always knows what to expect from him, and having the confident knowledge she can always depend upon him. He desires nothing more than to pull his dear submissive close and protect her from a world that seems to be bent on cruelty, however, knowing all along that he cannot. So it is up to the tender dominant to prepare his sub for whatever life may throw her direction, and to always be there for her when things go wrong, knowing that she will run to him when she becomes frightened or overwhelmed by the stresses of life. He will always listen to all his submissive's fears and concerns, and will help her face them down, thus slaying her dragons, if you please.

A tender dominant will cuddle his special submissive and show her great tenderness when it is needed. When she is unsure or uncertain of herself, he will whisper words of encouragement to her. When she feels ugly or unwanted, her dominant reinforces and reassures she is beautiful. When she feels scared or nervous, he is her safety net. For the tender dom, his submissive is the pride, joy, and main comfort of his life.

There are really no large differences between daddy dominants, as opposed to their regular or sadistic counterparts. His sub may be the twinkle of his eye, but she is definitely all woman! And he may be a daddy, but he is still, first and foremost, a dominant! He has to be able to punish and discipline his submissive when she needs it, and let his consistent actions prove that she cannot wrap her dominant around her little finger, or she will lose respect for him, thus his control over her is severely diminished or hampered. This could be pending doom for the daddy dominant/submissive relationship, or any D/s relationship.

We all realize that you cannot have the love without the respect. In that, and other ways, I may or may not have mentioned, a daddy dominant is not different from a regular or sadistic one. The only true contrast I see is how the love is given and reciprocated in this particular relationship I have discussed. I hope I have been able to bring some clarity to the notions about daddy dominants and their dear submissive relationships, and provided some insight and knowledge on the relationship itself. I am fully aware that this essay has been posted previously under the title, "The Tender Dom." I thought I would post this thread again to give some folks the change to read or re-read it. Play hard! Be consensual and safe! So long for now!

HAPPY 4TH OF JULY!!!!!!!

Happy New Years E/everyone! Hope Y/your 2012 is the best yet!

from a Dom's profile named adloc2....

"treat like a princess, control like a child, use like a slut".

 dont bite the cock that feeds you !

something my best friends Mom said all women should ispire to be:

 A LADY in the streets

A WOMAN in the boardroom

and

A WHORE in bed

and she is vanilla lmao

Happy Turkey Day E/everyone

My slave, My love
My submissive partner.
You know just how to
please me.
You hear and
obey Me.
My every command,
pleasure and Ecstasy
is what I demand.

My submissive,
I, Holder of your lonely heart
Keeper of your fear
protector of your soul
My other half that makes me whole.
within your eyes I see the art
of keeping love unclear
and thus I gain control
My submissive.

By day, a love we share
in a world of
family and friends.
We try to obey
society rules.

By night, behind closed doors
we enter a different world.
Our world, just the two of us,
together we crave
that pain,
that pleasure.

We begin a journey
into our world of
dominance and submission.
I am your Master.
You are my slave.

You know your role
all so well.
With a caress or a kiss
your tongue, a teasing lick,
don't disappoint me my dear
or the crack of my whip
is what you shall hear.
The pain you will feel
I know how much
you love this ordeal.

This game we play.
This life we lead.
Our love for each other,
the Ecstasy we need.

Our bodies yearning for
the desire,
the lust,
the pain,
the pleasure,
the rewards of our passion
for only each other,
an understanding
like none other.

My slave,My love

"A Dominant says more with a look than a shout."

"No brake should be applied to passion, when the appetites speak, they must be heard."