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Male Dominant, 23, Altamonte Springs, Florida
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Male Dominant, 54, Florida Panhandle, Florida
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Male Dominant, 50
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About MasterZaph
Do not ask the stones or the trees how to live, they can not tell you ; they do not have tongues; do not ask the wise man how to live for, if he knows , he will know he cannot tell you; if you would learn how to live , do not ask the question; its answer is not in the question but in the answer, which is not in words; do not ask how to live, but, instead, proceed to do so.
A Calm, intelligent gentleman and sensual Dom, with an underlying dark streak, polite yet firm, and can be neither when needed.. Over 10 years in this has brought me to understand the subtleties of the different dynamics possible. From D/s , through ..../girl and Dd/lg to M/s , I've seen the beauty of a woman's submission and the pleasure of revealing her deepest desires
Whatever your experience is to date, we will build upon both our experiences and Foster an environment for safe kink exploration. |
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You look so much cuter with something in your mouth : Nickelback |
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Happy New Year to you all!
I was sent this recently, and liked it so much i thought i'd post it here for you all to enjoy too.. Empathise anyone?
"I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don't mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh God!, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don't mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling, to do all that I am capable of doing, but I am going to be pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding." ~Anais Nin |
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Off to San Francisco and Bay area next week! Bound to be non-vanilla fun, frollicks and activities there!!
OH! And found this which i really liked..
Traits of a Master!
Honor... in all
Dominance... of himself and of those who depend on his command
Consistency... in his dealings with freepersons and slaves
Strength... to not be swayed from his principles
Self-assured... not dependent on others for approval
Curiosity... to delve into the individual
Wisdom... to understand what curiosity has discovered
Maturity... to understand, but not misuse, the power of his Mastery
Sensitivity... to have interest in, and to listen keenly for the concerns and issues of others and his slave
Compassion...
to hear the true feelings of his slaves, and to deal fairly with issues
raised, within the confines of his principles and command Accountability...
to accept the responsibility for the behavior of his slave and himself;
to accept responsibility for the safety and security of his slave; and
to deal honorably with any issues that arise for either concern Courage... both to stand up for his principles and honor and the courage to admit a mistake when he recognizes one has been made
Mentor... to others who have need of his example
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A message to all the subs out there, a couple of things to note.
1) Don't put words like "Desires to be used as a slut, whore, bitch, slave and so on" in your profile unless you have really "THOUGHT" about what that actualy means; then dont be suprised when you get treated like one.
2) IF your new, it will be a heady rush and thrill for you as you go through your first encounters with Dom(me)s etc; but be prepared to prove your a real person. Not a man pretending to be a girl, a girl pretending to be a couple etc etc. You will get caught out eventually, so you might as well be honest up front. The use of phone and photos is critical for proof of life!
3) There is no 3
4) It is understood that you will be inundated with lots of emails from wannabees, rude and offensive people, or just the plain stupid one liners "Hi" , "kneel slut" etc. Not to mention the fakes and spammers with offers of travel, cheques etc. Be warned.
5) 3 .. ahh there it is.
Enough! Now, go and think about who you are, and what it means to be sub, and act like one.!!
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Well, that's pretty much everyone in Collarme contacted, who I can contact!!! Lol .. Now to wait for the flood of replies! ... Yeah right! |
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A message to all the scammers out there.. If you are going to contact me, then do try and be original, articulate and not so obvious. Otherwise i shall just have to abuse you and bait you even more than i am doing! |
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TruBlood, SciFi Channel ... Aweseome!
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ahhh silly season is here for the spammers!
Three today, and been blank for weeks!
Oh how they dash their futile efforts on the rocks of my delete button! |
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grins..... nearly summer!!!
still plenty of people exploring, coming to CM to discover themselves!
Life is goood! |
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Happy New Year to you all!
I'd like to say a special "HI" to all those that have taken the time to read my profile, journal and watch my video greeting.
In my discussions with people i have found an excellent quote, from a book that i am reading at the moment. I'll leave you to read it and draw your own conclusions.
"? it is not uncommon for masters to pride themselves on the depth with which they know their slave girls; this depth is far greater in my opinion than that with which the average husband of Earth knows his wife; the slave girl is not simply someone with whom the man lives; she is very special to him; she is a treasured possession; he owns her; he wants to know, profoundly and deeply, the background, history, the mind, the intelligence, the appetites, the nature and the dispositions of his lovely article of property; ?
? For example, it is common for a master to force his girl to speak at length and in detail to him of the secret sides of her nature, explaining and elaborating on her fantasies; if she is literate, she may be forced, naked, collared, on her knees at a small table, sometimes with her ankles shackled, to write them out; this supplies the master, of course, with abundant materials which may be used by him to make her further and more helplessly his; sometimes the girl attempts to deceive the master; it is not difficult to detect inauthenticity in such matters; she is then beaten; too, she may at times be ordered to invent fantasies, sometimes of a certain type; these, too, after she has invented them, are, to an astute master, instructive; these intellectual, emotional exercises, performed by the girl under a condition of slavery, particularly if coupled with an enforced exercise regime, posings under male surveillance, and such, can do much to sensitize her to her collar; they awaken her body and, of equal importance for the Gorean, though not for the Earthling, who sees sex with the perception of a hippopotamus, as a matter of body rubbings, her fantastic imagination and mind; she becomes curious, soon, about the deeper implications of what she is, a mere article of her master?s property; then, with authority, with assurance and power, to the depth and height of her mind and imagination she is taught; the slave girl experiences a paradox of freedom; the free woman is physically free, but miserable, fighting to be what she is not; the slave girl, physically in bondage, even to the collar, sometimes chains, is given no choice by men but to be totally and precisely what she is, slave; such women, the slave girls, interestingly, are almost always joyful and vital; they are, paradoxically, in their feelings and emotions, liberated; they are not pinched, not psychologically restrained; why this should be I do not know; to see such women, their heads high, their eyes bright, their bodies, their movements, beautiful, as no Earth woman would dare to be, is quite pleasurable ?"
Tribesmen of Gor - Page 42
Obviously there is no Gor, however there is much in the sentiment of the quote that accurately describes the freedom of a slave vs the slavery of a free woman in todays politically correct society!
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So i finally had my video greeting approved, albeit a bit grainy!
CM is starting to make sense now, there are multiple crowds of people on here..
1/ Fakes.. We all know about them.
2/ Lurkers. Refraining from engaging with anyone for fear of rejection, maybe. Just waiting to see what pops up.
3/ The Crowd : Regulars who participate in chat, message boards and have usually met in RL as well.
4/ Out-Crowd : A grey area of people who occasionally, chat, are not big lifestylers, maybe inquisitive and are one step up from Lurkers.
Just a thought!!
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Which bit of "if your from Nigeria i wont reply" dont you understand.. Gawd, its as bad for us Dom's as it is for you subs..! Where are the genuine people!! ANYONE!! |
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Well having spent the past N days on here all i can say is..
1) There are just as many "fake" slaves/subs as i am sure Doms.
2) Please have a decent level of English if you wish to speak with me.
3) If i write to you then do have the decency to drop a line back..see 1) maybe.
5) There is no 4)
6) I appreciate intelligent, articulate women who have a mind to say what they think, i dont want walk overs..even if i want a slave/sub.
4) Aahhhh! there it is.
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Having seen some Journal entries of girls, i can't believe that some men let the side down with stupid introudction lines like "serve me bitch" or "submit to me"...
At least show some respect to a human being who is making a bold statement of her inner self by writing a profile and exposing her desires.
That said, i am wondering what one has to write in that first email to get a response..
As they say "If you throw enough mud against the wall some will stick"
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Interesting that many people dont even have the decency to reply to a message.. yet they are the ones complaining about rude, abusive, dominant messages.. just as rude in my books
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