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About masterupperhand

ITALIAN heritage Singer/Actor/Teacher The discipline of the arts is worth the pain for the results are more than satisfying. Without working as hard as you can to get your goal, Your prize is not worth the effort if you don't try at all. "I stir with an intense passion when I think of what you can give to me."

My friends who are of this community I am coming out to tell you of the first Three Months of 2010...please leave a comment. " target="_blank">
It must be April Fool's Day...no matter...2 more days till BaseBall...Spring is Here.
Be still my heart, for a few minutes ago I was so honored by a precious one.
The Front Page of Long Islands NEWSDAY "Rosa Parks sat so Martin Luther King could walk' Martin Luther King walked so Obama could run Obama ran so we can all fly," - Jay Z
I woke up this morning with songs in my heart. For finally " I Have Dreamed" for "All The Way" and sometimes "Time After Time" I received the most amazing Birthday greeting and gift from a friend and with that gift comes my loyalty. Nice Day so far except for the ice outside and having to shovel lol. I do have to move south someday.
"It's just another New Year's eve, another night like all the rest...let's make it the best." - B. Manilow Last night in the Video Chatroom it was not a night like all the rest...for me at least...and for those who know me well...I wish to say Thanks to A/all who made it one of the funniest and best December 31st's I will remember for a long time. The DJ as always was great to hear...and the ladies so beautiful and tipsy...and oh so nice spankings and puppies...the G/gentleman and not so gentleM/man were funny and true to form. Sorry for the lamb who had to leave us for a while because of the aforementioned. H A P P Y N E W Y E A R
What is quality of life? That term holds a different meaning for each of us, doesn?t it? I believe that life's quality is most often found in its seemingly insignificant details. It's in a kind word from a stranger and the days spent with your best friend. The highest quality of life is simply discovered when you find that place where you can feel confident, comfortable and happy with yourself and those around you.
There are many things that I've noticed about so-called/wanna-be Dominant men, whether it be at a munch, meeting, play party, at a dungeon or on-line but in my perspective the common thread of so-called, self-labeled Dominant men seems to be what I call T.O.A.D., i.e. the Trilogy of Arrogant Disrespect. TOAD's are those "Dominant" men who make arrogant assumptions, presumptions and exude disrespectful behavior towards human beings, and in this bloggers musing, specifically towards submissive women. And no, there isn't a submissive woman in the world who can kiss one of these TOAD's and turn them into a knight in shining armor. Why? Because TOAD's are not only making assumptions, presumptions and disrespecting submissive women - they're making assumptions, presumptions and disrespecting themselves. You can't take the splinter out of someone's eye until you take the log out of yours. You cannot expect a submissive woman to "turn herself over" to you if you cannot respect and know yourself. Don't even bother. You'll just look like a fool and hurt people around you. I would never tell you to trust me (not knowing me and such) but I am speaking from experience. Know yourself but never presume to know it all, do not assume anything and respect yourself in order to respect others. I did not write nor remotely come up with these concepts, they have been said for thousands of years long before I was born. They do speak to me though and I repeat them to you now with the hope that you will find some value in them. Read Cervantes "Don Quijote" again or for the first time.
In my opinion, the preeminent trait of the male species is to dominate. No, it does not sound all that profound or revolutionary, does it? It is however, as they say, trite but true. I begin this particular musing in such a fashion because it would seem to me that there are quite a few men either "in the D/s lifestyle" or those with a keen interest in the fringe of the lifestyle who have forgotten (or forget) the most basic of facts about where we come from and who we are. From there it is not a stretch to consider that these same men do not know where they are or where they are going, much more, what being a dominant man really means. To be perfectly clear, I believe that there are quite a few male human beings either "in the lifestyle" or somewhere remotely around it who have forgotten that we are in fact human beings first, i.e. before "dominant" we men are human beings who need to respect other human beings. It pains me to say that which should be obvious - what should be "common sense" but after many years of observing (and certainly participating in) the "lifestyle" I'm left scratching my head, wondering where men, where "dominant" men have gone so wrong. While this is certainly true to a degree, I would be remiss failing to note the type of man who gets it "right." Not perfect mind you, but as close to right as is possible within that given individual.
Terrific News I just got a call from Hillary Clinton and hung up on her, knowing she wanted to remind me about "Stupid Tuesday" After all if I vote for John Mc Cain, I'm stupid, or if I vote for Barak Obama I'm stupid. Which ever I choose it's the same. I guess I know why I loved the short story by Frank Stockton, "The Lady or The Tiger. It always made sense to me. Keep the cards and letters coming. VOTE
I sit and ponder the conditions we, men and women put on our relationships...that lead to a divorce or a breakup...there isn't any commitments of good or bad, better or worse...NOW THERE IS PRE-NUP
Looks like personal stuff is going back to normal. Courtesy and respect warrant a decent reply to an email...I find it with some and not with others. I can be understanding of the timid and the shy...but really it doesn't take much for a yes or no reply. As for my old and recent friends, let me say I am enjoying our talks...lot's of good talks. Sincerity is one of my most important trust issues and walls to break down. Keep up the good talks girls.
It's nice to be back on CM. It's nice to see new faces, fresh faces and no faces. I will be selective as I only wish one, true and sincere to love and adore till conciousness ends.
Always put yourself in others' shoes. If you feel that it hurts you , it probably hurts the other person too. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.
Finally found eyes worth writing about...The eyes are closer yet so far away...The eyes are truly the pathway to the soul...I hope to hear from this lovely girl soon.
Remember this: Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift. When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one that has been opened for us. The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had. ENOUGH
Another Friday is here, and for as long as I have not disertated no news is good news...wrong...i see something "central"ized today...and this point there is no news...you see?
What is it about Friday...Why do I wish to thank God for the day. I'm fried on Fridays and I don't care if Consumer Reports reports McDonalds as the best. Friday really stinks when you are alone. Friday puts me in a very bad mood. How I love spanking on Friday nights. It won't be long an ass will be red and sore. That's a promise. When it's Saturday I am happy once again...not long for Friday to be over.
The caution flags billow softly only with gusts of passion indicating the tempest. "La Donna e Mobile" isn't just an aria for a tenor. The light of day is brighter today than it has been for a long time. However, it's still damn cold. How will we survive the frost...very easily, we will think of turning the clock ahead soon. Turn the page.
As I wandered in the clouds of soft white snow thoughts of the angelbabies appeared as clear as in my dream...I woke up to a lovely goodmorning and then shoveled snow all day...ACHY is not a good description Read a profile that was so long; at first I thought this is really lethargic and all about themself...So I put on "Claire de lune" by Debussy and it made the reading come alive with the music. It is a good acting excercise for speech learning. I always prided in saying that Long Island didn't get much snow...well not this year.
January 27th 2004 was one of the most dynamic days I have had in such a long time...Perhaps my prayers have been answered with one of the other side. Surely we have had just about enough snow last night...but north seems to be where the quest will lead me and hopefully to work my way south. Today is the second day of my story. The strange happenings of life that we at the moment do not understand; appear much clearer when we look at it from the eagles perspective. So--- Do take your eyes away from your face and see what they see. "Close your eyes and feel" "mench" HAPPY TO MAKE YOU SMILE "HEY you". That's All!
This week has been very quiet...I do not like that much quiet...I could listen to Metallica for some peak excitement but rather have something more soft and innocent to listen too...Of course Mozart does the soft trick but fails to sate my hunger for the romantic era. AAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHH DARK SIDE OF THE MOON
A Birthday is a funny thing to have when you become an official "Senior Citizen" They still don't exist past 39, I have always said that TRUTH is funny and Jack Benny knew it. There isn't a cloud in the sky today, not even one. It's really a blue day...A good day to listen to Gustav Mahler and sit by a fireplace...No fireplace here but plenty of MAHLER. Oh yes, I do have some Remy Martin to take the chill away...It is my day.
The NEW Year has started quite well, and what remains is but to be seen. For even the unopened presents, bottles of bubbly and one's eyes still fill my heart with hope. Hope is a good thing to own. Don't take it for granted and don't take it unless you plan to keep it.
"To Dream The Impossible Dream" Words I have loved and believed. A character created more than a few centuries ago. About an old guy with dreams to make it right. A time when men were just as cruel and crazy as we find them today. And the vision of one lady that made all that misery go away. I like that thought myself. I hope to get a Christmas Greeting soon. As my 55th year approaches next month I am reminded of the fact that I will be officially a Senior Citizen. OH JOY THE DISCOUNTS OF IT ALL!
To do the impossible, to seek and find the dream of dreams...My lady Dulcinea is there...I have seen her...She is worth the QUEST...No matter how far.
Today seems to be a day of visions...I think it's time to move my retired self South...Time will tell.
Interesting and attractive listings today...I do will the one to come to the "home" of her desire and adoration. I must rest well today.
Back again, another hiatus...I would hope it would finally end...to find what I seek and that she be true to her words. I continue, and look forward to chatting soon. I hope my words inspire others and my feelings get heard.
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