master4thetaken

Okay so we've all seen the titles on a screen name, or we've heard a submissive or a slave refer to a Dom as "Master", but I don’t feel that half the people on this site in general know what a Dom or a Master truly is or represents...

The word Dom is just essentially short for Dominant, the female derivative of that title is Domme.

Generally speaking, if you follow the real world traditions of this lifestyle, you'll find that Master is a title bestowed upon a Male Dominant by His community based on their recognized experience and achievements within the lifestyle.

A community can bestow the title of "Master" to an individual Dom as a form of recognition and acknowledgement. Usually only those Dom's that have spent many years in the lifestyle are considered for this honor.

Another use of the word Master is as an intimate title between a Dom and his submissive or slave. It is perfectly acceptable for a Dom to teach or permit his girl to refer to him as Master.

Just because his girl does this is no reason that others should also refer to him as Master.

This is the age of technology, it is the age where anyone can be anything that they want to be with the help of the Internet and an extraordinary imagination!” (Some imaginations not as extraordinary as others lol.)

I guess what I’m trying to say is that we need to be careful as anyone can call themselves a True Dom or a True Master and make up a bunch of rules and punish someone online, demand that you call them Sir or that you need to prove yourself with a picture or a phone call the first time you talk!”

The Internet is a crazy place and so be careful with posting pictures and whom you trust because it could someday come back around and bite you in the ass!” (Not in a good way bite either!”)

If you are still in your teens or new to this lifestyle in general please heed to my warnings!”

All of these fakes and phonies don’t realize that just because you are a slave or a submissive doesn’t mean that they all aren’t a bunch of Scarecrows from the Wizard Of Oz without a brain!” They have real lives just like the rest of us and some are in high power positions and are so smart they could be your Boss!”

So just because you have self proclaimed yourself a Dom or a Master doesn’t mean the first time that you talk with a slave or a submissive that you can demand that they call you Sir or Master, that they need to show you pictures like you are some “Almighty Higher Superior Person” that is better than all of us!”

You don’t own them nor even know them because you just met and relationships like this and relationships in general take time!”

I hate to tell you this but whether your a Man, a Woman, a Master or a Slave. We all still put our pants on the same way.... “One leg at a time!” (Also don’t give me “I put my pants on two legs at a time bullshit because that will make me for sure think of you even more as a childish moron!”)

Now that all that is taken care of I can actually get down to why I am here and that is to find the right woman that happens to have several things in common with me both in this lifestyle and the vanilla world as well!”

I have been into this lifestyle for sometime now and have become proficient at many of my crafts with constant practice but by no means even though by some I am called a Master including by my previous subs, slaves and pets, do I expect you to call me Master or Sir unless you feel I have in someway deserved to be called those names!”

I do love and have a huge passion for this lifestyle but also have so many things that I am into and that interest me that it would take me forever to explain in writing what I am actually seeking. So I thought the best way to give you an idea would to just post something that is close to my heart and beliefs....

The Dominants Creed -

Above all else he cherishes his submissive, in the knowledge that the gift she gives him is the greatest of all.

He is demanding and takes full advantage of the power given to him, but knows how to share the pleasure that comes from that precious gift.

He is in control of himself first and foremost, so that he may control others. As a stern and demanding Dominant, he can cause his sub to cry real tears. As the consummate lover, he will then kiss the tears away, without ever stepping out of character.

In times of trouble, a Dominant will leave the roles behind, to be a supportive friend and partner, never forgetting that this is still a loving relationship between two caring individuals. He is quick to understand the differences between fantasy and reality. He would never ask a submissive to put him before her career, or family, just to satisfy his own pleasure.

To win his submissive's mind, body and soul, he knows he must first win her trust. He will show his submissive humor, kindness, and warmth. He must also show her that his guidance and tutoring is knowledgeable and deserving of her attention, that this is a man she can learn from, and trust his direction.

He is romantic enough to be protective and chivalrous. When called upon, he will fight for his ladies' honor. He proves to her that he is someone she can lean on, and depend on.

He is old-fashioned enough to be a bit of a chauvinist, yet modern enough to respect his woman. Quick to point out the differences between them, he also knows there is no inferiority in those differences.

When it comes time to teach his submissive her lessons of obedience, he is a strong and unyielding professor. He will accept no flaw, nothing less than perfection from his student. Never does he use discipline without good reason. When he does, it is always with a knowledgeable and careful hand.

He is a careful guide, with safety always his main concern. He knows how to use pain to extend the bounds of pleasure. He is a mentor who can bring her to the edges of her envelope, and gently show her the inner courage to reach new heights.

He is always open to communication and discussion, always ready to hear her wants and needs. He is patient, taking the time to learn her limits, and knowing that as her trust of him grows, so will they.

He never has to demand ritual behavior by her. She responds to him out the want of pleasing him. Compliance comes from the wanting to please, not the fear of punishment. He understands the fragile nature of mind and body, and never violates the trust given to him.

He is secure enough to laugh at himself and the absurdities of life. Courageous enough to accept assistance. Open minded enough to learn new things. Strong enough to grow. His tools are mind, body, spirit and soul with a little help from rope, paddle and blindfold. He understands that each partner gains most from pleasuring the other. And both of them know that love is the only binding that truly holds.

That is it for now but I might later add more or change a few things as in life things are a constant change so I’m just going to go with the flow and how I’m feeling for now!”

If you like what you read and think we might be compatible or just have a curious question please send me a message.

It would be nice if you would write something more than a one line sentence and maybe add a picture or two as I like to know whom the person I am corresponding with looks like.