MaidensMilk

I get a kick out all of the journal entries from "Doms" in my area that have been on this site for YEARS and chronically complain that there are no real submissives on this or any site. Yes, there are a lot of fakes. I dare say that these "Doms" have not realize that they are also Fakes. These "Doms" complain because they have no real way of attracting a submissive.

I'm taking a moment to exert my opinion. Which won't matter to these "Doms" because in their line of thinking, all U.S. women have a Princess complex and have dual personalities because we don't submit to fools. I have been taking care of myself since I was 14; not sure how that translates to Princess. But as most, I know danger when I read it.

These "Doms" complain that all the extremely beautiful submissives are suppose to flock to any of theses lack of communicating, chronically single, middle aged, criminally sadist, average looking fools that have no other social skill besides abusing women. 

I believe one "Dominant" called a class of fakes Neurotic Narcissists. He didn't realize he was also talking about himself.

I got a real good laugh at one "Dom" that suggested that all the true "submissives" don't know how to send email to a prospective Dom. LOLLLLLLLL! (I know that had to be a joke. Right?)

I'm assuring all these "Doms" that these submissives know where to find the Doms that they want to be with. Trust That! If they are not wanting to be with you, you need to figure out why on your end. 

I'm not writing this to bash people. Everyone that is decent deserves love. Maybe it is pointless to write any of this cause maybe there are some serious issues going on that is beyond an average persons thinking. But if one person can change his way and find what they are looking for, then it maybe it was worth it. 

P.S. I had to hurry up and edit my grammatical errors on here before someone pointed them out instead of dealing with the real message. LOL!!

I have been working out at the gym for 2 months now. I do from an hour to 90 minutes cardio and from 20 to 30 minutes weight training. I'm not seeing much of a difference physically, but I know changes are happening.  For 2 months I've work out without measuring body fat, water weight or lean muscle mass. But I do see changes mentally. I'm now addicted to exercise. I can't go more than one day a week without working out, or I'll get extremely depressed. I usually go 4 days on and 1 day off. Last week I went 2 days off in a row. It was drepressing. I'm debating on doing 4 days or doing 5 days on with one day off. After the 2 days in a row off,  I spend 90 minutes on cardio 2 days in a row to make up for the 2 days I took off, but i really feel I must do an extra day. I'm also focusing more on strength training. It's the building of muscles that allows you to burn more fat. And it's useless to F around with light weights. You must challenge your muscles to build them up. It's really a fine line between lifting the correct amount of weight and overdoing it! My inspiration is the oldest body builder in the world. Her name is Ernestine Sheppard. She is 75 years old and doesn't look a day over 50. I have also kept a food diary in order to understand my real food intake and what I thought to believe was a reasonable amount of food I should be eating. Yes, i have sugar coated the amount of food I've eaten. But keeping the food diary made me very aware of what I was eating and has allow me to no longer take pleasure in emotional eating.  I have now bought a scale that measures body fat and water weight. I can now have better control of fat loss. I have a goal to make my fat loss a downward spiral, and not remain stagnant. I'm shocked to see what my body fat measurement are at the moment and hope that what it was 2 months ago was worse, and I have made some improvements.

No point in taking back what I said about the cyber wankers.

First of all, I did not fall off a turnip truck, as my intelligent rural friends will say; nor was I born yesterday, as the city folks say. I do enough cyber to let u know I'm for real. If that's not real enough for you to meet me in person, you're a cyber wanker. I'm not going to spend time getting "inside your head". Thats code talk for cyber sex. If you are truly interested in my kinks, they are spelled out in my profile. All you married motherfuckers that are not satisfied with you vanilla wives need to pay someone to waste cyber sex time with you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Leave the real people looking for real connections alone!!!!!!!!!

Happy Birthday to me! It's also my year, the year of Rabbit. I plan to get a Rabbit/Cat Tattoo on my right back shoulder in a couple of weeks. I'm also happy with the selection of subs that have contacted me within the past week!!!! You all have pleased me greatly!!!!!

I'm only interested in service oriented men that have the capacity to please a BBW woman both domestically and sexually.  I'm not abusive, but you must be able to at first spend a 3 day wekend at your place or a hotel, at my breast inducing lactation, every 3 hours, 24 hours a day

1.)You must be willig to suckle every 3 hours. You will need to set an alarm  and follow through on this suckling schedule.

2.) You must be able to purchase meds that wll induce lactation.

I want to look as good as possible for my man. I work enough to take care of  myself, but not much room for subs that don't work and cosmetics. if you want someone to satisfy all your needs, you must be willing to invest in what you  Want!!!!!!!!!!!

Off to California.  Holler if you're in the SF Bay area.

• If you are only seeking the kink activities, the play, you should clearly state you are only interested in acting as a bottom.
  
• If you wish to submit your will over to another person and have a relationship based on authority transfer, then you are a submissive/slave.
  

• If you do choose to use a kink based photo as your primary, keep it tasteful. Artistic BDSM photos can be lovely.
  
• Cock shots, gaping anuses, and other vulgar photos will fail to capture the attention of most women in a good way. We simply are not wired visually the same way men are wired. If you have this type of photo, we will probably pass you over and move on to someone else.
  
• Be aware of the background. If you say you are service oriented but there is a pile of dirty laundry or dirty dishes in the background, we will likely chuckle at your inconsistency, but considering your services will be out of the question.
  
• Avoid using a picture of yourself with another person (unless you have their consent) or a picture where you obviously cut someone out of the photo. Chopped off arms just look weird and appears as though you are too lazy to put forth the effort of finding a photo of just yourself, or taking a new one.
  

• Tell your audience your views on relationships. Do you think D/s is bedroom only, or do you think it carries over into all aspects of the relationship?
  
• Share what you have to offer. Do you have any specific skill sets that a dominant woman might find useful? These skill sets can range from the mundane (like washing dishes) to the very skilled (like financial investment strategies). Most dominant women consider queening, or other forms of oral sex and anal play (including strap-ons), to be purely sexual activities. Understand the difference between sex and service.
  
• Tell us what makes you a better choice than all of the other submissive people vying for our attention.
  
• Pay attention to grammar and spelling. If your profile or journal entries are poorly composed that tells us a lot about you, none of which is very good.
  

Yes, it's true, we do have walls up. One of my observations here on CM is that the people that are looking for a real connection are bombarded by people that prey on the notion that we are looking for sex anyway we can get it. We want quality connections and not people annoying us with cheap fantasies. Just continue to open up through journal writings to let others know that we're out there.