LondonBlue

My Ideal Person:
I do have a sadistic streak, maybe not as hardcore as many, but I can administer pain and punishment calmly and effectively but to me it is more than that. I have gentle, caring side as well.To me BDSM has a balance of mind and the soul. I take it seriously and I think it is important to do so but although their is a serious side (for safety reasons) to BDSM their is also a fun element as well. I like to think I can counter balance the two very well. During my time in this lifestyle I have been fortunate to meet and be with some very friendly, loyal and overall very nice people allowing me to grow my experience and to build their confidence and trust. To use my skills and knowledge calmly, sensibly, and effectively. I have never received any complaints so I accept that as a compliment. I am happy to chat and meet with people gain more knowledge and more experience. BDSM is not a closed book in my mind. I respect wishes of all I am fortunate to be with, SAFE, SANE and CONSENSUAL at all times. I would also like to look further into a D/s relationship, would like to find that special person: who longs to be held, loved and guided. My equal in our vanilla life so I am keeping an open mind hopefully you will too, but for the meantime I am happy to be with people who are happy to be with me. Looking forward to the New Year and to chat and meet with new friends be it in the clubs or just socially.