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Female Dominant, 37, Lincoln, Illinois
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Female Dominant, 60, San Antonio, Texas
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Female Switch, 47, providence, Rhode Island
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About LadySadey
Non-standard deviation seeking cohort.
Twisted sense of humor that never quits.
Voracious curiosity, intensity and intellect.
Fun, feisty, femme.
Charming, cultured demeanor that belies the bawdiness within.
Major turn-offs:
Deceit, dishonesty, duplicity, discourtesy.
Assuming or presuming.
Control freaks.
Looking for: Frequently my keys...
Friends. Playmates. A Partner.
FRIENDS: Always happy to make new ones!
PLAYMATES: Creative and honest. Role titles don't matter; interaction does. I am a sapiosexial bi-sensual, equal opportunity kinkster.
PARTNER: someone strong in play and in life with whom to develop and share awesome intimacy.
Only Honorable Menschen need apply.*
Our relationship will be intense and deep. We will support and nurture each other. No one will be more important; we are each other's First Priority. Our fierce play will touch our souls. We will explore as far as our imaginations reach and go beyond, together.
Sub: Only to my Partner, only in total trust
Switch: I want it ALL - at least some of the time, but not necessarily with the same person.
Dominant: Inflicting pleasure is such delight! Holding someone's soul ... on the edge ... A mindfuck is a terrible thing to waste.
If you would like to serve or for me to consider being your dominant, please tell me why and how. Bodies to beat and body worship are not important to me.
Slave: Jt. Tenancy or Partnership only or do you want to be mine?
If there's something you want to know - ASK, but be careful what you ask for; you may get it.
*You don't have to be Jewish but realize that I am, very much so, not as in frum but my neshuma, my soul, my outlook on life reflects Jewish principles as I understand them. I see the world - including BDSM - through Jewish eyes, and you do need to understand what that means.
Miscellany: A far deeper level of connection and interpersonal penetration is rare.
Play is very personal and serious, even when laughter abounds.
Aftercare matters a lot. If you say it's not needed, then someone is doing something wrong.
A power exchange is not a power struggle.
Courtesy, respect and appreciation are always in order.
NOTE: As a Switch, I am equally comfortable in several different roles, but #1 "neither slave" nor "property" is among them and #2 being able or willing to submit to a particular person when I so choose is a far cry from being "a submissive".
GEOGRAPHY:
I am always a New York Woman no matter where I happen to live. Current residence is near Wilmington, DE but I am looking to move and generally willing to travel the NE Corridor.
CHAT: No, thanks. Carpal tunnel. But I do reply to all sincere email.
IF YOU ARE NOT SINGLE, No problem. Many of my friends are married, engaged, poly, committed.
BUT
the role of "other woman" or "dirty little secret" hold ZERO interest.
What would that say about my integrity - and yours?
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Surgical Success - So Far, So Good! All fingers work and wiggle well.? Being online just to read is tough due to need to keep hand elevated.
Thanks to all for support!!!!
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Surgery today - 12/09/08 - to repair, reconstruct, rehabilitate my right hand.?
Understand if you don't receive a reply for a couple weeks.? I'll be able to read email but not write.
All good thoughts, prayers, light and love sent my way will be much appreciated.
Thanks.
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On Line, you are what you write. ? ? ? ? ? ?
Communication is basic in human relationships.? Certainly gestures, expressions, tone of voice and body language matter, but on line, words rule not only in one's profile section but further into email.?????????
It baffles me that someone who has crafted a reasonably well-written profile would suddenly switch to text-speak in email.? Text-speak is bad enough in text messages, but especially for those without qwerty keyboards, I empathize.???????????
When used in email, it sends a message, indeed, but not, to me, a favorable one. It bespeaks carelessness, laziness, sloppiness and disrespect by engaging in a level of unwarranted familiarity. I'd compare it to wearing dirty, torn jeans on your first or second date, and there are no plans to do painting or cleaning or trash hauling or auto work.?????????
Really, you may have a photo or ten that show you looking like a major hunk but your writing shows what's inside.
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WOOF.???
An animal trainer recently paraphrased an adage to fit dog behavior:????????
If you have them by the head, the rest will follow.???????
If you will not or can not or do not realize the necessity of engaging me "by the head", i.e. through my mind, why do you think any other part would respond to you?
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If someone doesn't read and pay attention to what is in my profile, why would I think that any more attention would be given to me at any other time????????
Isn't it clear that no interest exists in being anyone's property or being owned???????????
Where does my writing hint about having any need, desire or willingness to submit absent establishment of a relationship based on deep trust?
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People who would never think of wearing a stained or a torn shirt to an interview nevertheless give little consideration to the condition of what they write in email or even on their profiles.? Do they not think that anyone who is going to pay close attention to the content of what is written will not also attend to the style?? Splashes of red may add to the decor of a room but not online statements.? The red flags are warnings of lack of attention and of caring about your personal online appearance and interaction with others.
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