InternationalMe

I am searching for UNATTACHED, non-smoking submissives or slaves in the greater Washington, DC area. For those attached submissives: if you contact me, be prepared to let me meet your significant other to ensure everybody is on the same page.
Please be LOCAL to the Washington, DC area.

I will consider male or female submissives, possibly couples. I am also interested in discussing a service relationship.

I have been involved in the BDSM lifestyle for a good number of years and am active in the Washington DC community. I am a caring and nurturing dominant, who enjoys a combination of kinky and vanilla activities and would like to find a like minded person who is strong and capable in everyday life, but who enjoys giving up control in a private or kink related setting.

The person who contacts me understands that it takes time to develop the level of commitment and trust needed for a successful relationship. I expect total transparency and I am slow in developing relationships. I need to see ethical values, consistency, honesty, intelligence and compassion before I am able to bond with someone.

Please, no "collar of the month" applicants. I receive a lot of messages from purported submissives who want to be collared in a couple of weeks, long before a relationship can be established. If you are looking for an "instant collar," please pass me by.