Kalaphi


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	About Kalaphi If you'd like to hear my Theory of Domming, or my life story, or whatever of the many other things people often put in these profiles, just ask. I'm into BDSM because I enjoy it, and because I enjoy exploring other people. Feel free to message me, I'm always interested in people. I live in New York for now, and often visit the Raleigh area of North Carolina. At the moment I am looking for a sub or slave for friendly play and possibly more. I'm particularly interested in the less explicitly sexual types of service.

I'm in southern california for a while.. possibly going back to NYC, but not sure yet.

In raleigh, NC, for the rest of july.

Not being able to find anyone to go to a midnight movie with is annoying.

I'm not particularly looking for boys at the moment. Got all the attention I need in that department.

What I am looking for? a local play partner. I'm not looking for it to be or become a serious relationship. I'm also not necissarily looking for sex to be a part of it. Could be, could be not, depending on the person and our interest in each other.

Mostly, I'm looking for someone to explore the harder end of sadism/masochism with. Bondage also a definite possibility.

And I got a haircut, someday I may update the picture. We'll see.

Two things:

1. Why do male dominant profiles keep messaging me asking about becoming my slave?

2. I had a conversation recently with a freind about financial domination. It's an interesting and sometimes difficult concept, and at the same time, it's no different from any other form of powerplay.

By giving a dominant figure gifts/money/whatever, it's easy to see that this represents an exchange of power - giving someone money is not unlike letting them tie you up, or any other form of powerplay. Money these days is often equated directly with power, and it's pretty obvious why it turns people on to involve it in play.

The only real difference from other forms of play is that money has an external, additional, value to it, that can lead to abuse - while having someone follow your orders is stimulating to some people, getting money is of interest to almost everyone. So you end up with a lot of people just doing it for the income.

New picture, old one got boring.

I love SF, but I sure don't love sitting on a plane for 6 hours.

I... am going to be in north carolina next weekend, and then I'm moving to NYC! Lets hear it for drastic life changes.

I really need to start packing.

Happy slightly delayed VD!

(valentines day).

Why do people try to kill themselves? I've never understood it.

Seems the answer to my question is yes.

I just cut my hair. its sort of hard to see inmy picture, like everything else in my picture, but my hair was very long, past my shoulderblades to about the middle of my back when pulled straight (its pretty curly).

Now it wont even reach under my chin.. its very different. I'm still getting used to the feeling. Its a little disconcerting when I see my shadow or catch myself in a mirror, but it feels great, too.

So, has anyone ever actually found that theoretical Hot Bisexual Submissive Girl Who Wants To Have A NSA Threesome And Maybe Make Breakfast?

Yes? No?

I am in a really weird mood lately.

So, I guess we have a webcam now. I might even take a new not crappy photo...

Going to Buuuurnign man!

asteriods. snake. breakout. its like my formative years in black and white.

Ok, kids. Color theory time. When you put two primary colors next to each other, particularly on a computer screen, the human eye does not deal well - esentially seeing them vibrate really fast, and spasming as it tries to compensate. It hurts. Don't do it.

Raise your hand if you ever see someone with a really cool profile, and you want to say hi, or complement them on it, but don't, because you're not the gender/role/whatever they are looking for and you're afraid to waste their time.

so... Ludacris. Oddly compelling.

wtf is muslimism, anyway?

And did they take breath control off the list, or did I just miss it?

Why yes, it is half-price roll night, thanks for asking!

*dies of overwork*

Quote of the day: "I am a mistress with a hot bodie!"

Dirge Factory was fun.. damn this work at 6 am crap. Had to leave at midnight.

Quote of the day: "Cold tickles!"

Goin home.. be back on wednesday..

Dear god.. too much work. Likely wont be on until sunday.. or monday.

well, it was better before it got stretched side to side like that.. but hey, pictures. yay.

I do believe this warrants more pie.

We'll just hide that behind this slightly less terrible one..

There it is.. my terrible picture.. hrm.

Ta-da.. a picture (whenever collarme approves it). Not a very good one, but the only one I have on my computer at the moment.

My apologies to those who sent me messages the last little while, my internet service has been utterly unreliable, not allowing me to stay online long enough to properly answer your messages.

Ok, so black on beige is boring. However, hot pink on blue is cruel and unusual. Bad. Bad. Very bad. Don't do it anymore.

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Kalaphi

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