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Male Dominant, 26, New York
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Female Submissive, 35, San Diego, California
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About kalapathar
On the surface: Smart, musical, artistic, bratty, witty.
Below the surface: I need to be owned, used, possessed. Put on a pedestal in public, used like a whore in private. Prime fantasies at this time include being a kept housewife or the pet/playtoy of a Dom/Domme or Dom/switch couple.
Experience: I know what I need, but am not set in my ways. I haven't yet lived most of my fantasies. But I'm more interested in living YOUR fantasies.
I'm happy to send face pics and identifying information after we get to know each other.
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Since people don't read the journal entries:
I find it absurd that I get tons of messages randomly offering me live-in slave situations as first contact, and additionally with no other communication. I do not respond to such messages. Also contact might lead to being play partners but if you're looking for it to lead to a 24/7 or live-in situation I think that's weird. If play partners became something else, that's a possibility but you're simply way ahead of yourself if that's what you're looking for.
I also yes like to chat with people long distance.
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Further update:
I'm probably not looking for any new play partners any time soon right now. For the many who have enquired, yes my search here has been productive. I'm still interested in chatting long-distance or possibly up-close, but between regular life and current play partners I do not believe there is any more time in my schedule. |
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To be clear I'm now looking for friends and playmates in the San Diego area. I'm also open to possible owners and soulmates but let's not get ahead of ourselves.
Also I can't believe how often I continue to get messages that ask right off if I want to move to a completely random place, and be someone's slave. I got one recently that said they'd first want a "Trial period of 7-10 days". I guess that's longterm for some people. :-9 |
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I am the most terrible at using the CM interface. Looks like I was in CA, PA for a few months here. People tell me that it's them and not me. |
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I'm sorry, but I'm not going to respond to cold turkey suggestions/propositions that I come live with and be your slave right now with no further correspondence. Feel free to talk to me with your fantasies, what you'd like to do to your property or me, what you like, what you like in the rest of life. "Will you come be my slave in Toronto" is not a conversation nor a fantasy. |
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Wow, I have gotten more than 10 messages in the half hour since I joined the site. I hope to respond soon. |
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