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About Jozie11
WHAT WE ARE LOOKING FOR
WARNING OPEN MINED ADULTS OVER 21 INTO BDSM, SPANKING AND BISEXUALITY ONLY.
Fort Worth Texas Couple looking for unmarried person or a couple that is a bisexual Dom or Dominatrix and into spanking and
bdsm.
Married couple looking for single male or female or married couple in the Dallas Fort Worth area (Preferably FW) to play
with. Ages 35-65. Must be bisexual or seriously bi-curious. Must be in to bdsm or D/s in a mix way of play and seriousness.
Must be into spanking for play and slight discipline. Female likes to be spanked and DOMed. Looking for long-term fun. No
quick meeting. Must get to know each other first. My name is Female born in 1970. My husband (born in 1961), and I have been
married since 1993. We are both white. We live in Fort Worth, Texas. Have no children yet, but are tying. I guess the first
and most important thing you should know is that we are disabled. We both have Cerebral Palsy. My Hubby is in a wheelchair
and cannot walk at all but can do a lot by himself. I can walk pretty well but I have a slight speech problem. People can
understand me most of the time. We are both a little overweight (around 275 lbs.), and about 5"1', but still fairly
attractive. MY bra size is 40dd or 44d. Hubby’s' penis size is an average 6 in. He graduated from the college with a
Bachelors of Arts in Sociology and is a work at home agent doing technical support on computers. I recently graduated junior
college with an Associates of Arts. I am not working now but sometime in the future I might start looking for a job with
computers or children. We are trying for our first child. We both consider ourselves BI-curious, Wanting to experiment
playing with the same sex but still prefer opposite sex. I am not quite a sub but more of a brat. Will play sub. I have a
tendency to try to top from the bottom. Can switch but inexperienced. But would rather which with someone more of a Dom than
sub. Hubby is not dom or sub but he does try to play the role as dom and spanks me when I ask. We both like to give and
receive Oral sex from the same sex but not too experienced. Love giving oral to opposite sex. We like to shave our genitals
but don't keep them shaved most of the time. We both prefer others to have Shaved genitals but if not that's fine. We are
social drinkers, only on weekends. We do not smoke cigarettes and a not big fan of those that do but that is not an instant
dismissal of application. We do smoke marijuana about as often as we drink but not quite. If you don't, we will not around
you. We try to always practice safe sex (condoms). We are disease free and are tested regularly. In our spare time we enjoy
playing board games, "get to know each other" type games, watching movies, watching TV (GH, lost, Reality TV, Desperate
housewives Etc.], Sports[football, Baseball.], going out to eat (all kinds of foods), and listen to music (Country, rock,
70's).
Well, if that information still kept your attention, I'll tell you what we are looking for as far as sex goes. We are looking
for a white single from the local area between the ages of 35-65. I like to be spanked and DOMed that must be part of our
experience together. In sex, we are looking for someone who would want to be with both of us, not just me (or him in some
cases). We are really looking for someone who is Bisexual or at least truly Bi-curious. The male/male contact should include
touching, and oral sex, but NO kissing or anal sex. With me anything goes except intercourse because we are currently trying
to have a baby. We would like an experienced spanker and Dom type. At least one of us enjoys or are interested in trying age
play, algolagnia (love of pain), asphyxiaphilia (breath play), auto erotica (masturbation), BDSM, blindfolds, bondage, breast
torture, bruising, candle wax, chains, Chinese balls, collar and lead, corner time as discipline, cupping (suction of the
skin), dacryphilia (arousal from tears), depilation (shaving), discipline, dildos, domination, D/s, Dom SUB, Electrotorture
(EMS TENS units), feathers, fisting, handcuffs/shackles, hair pulling, masks, masochism, nipples, oral fixation,
paddling/spanking, play rape, Play School, play house, power exchange, the rack, religious (nunplay, priestplay),
roleplaying, sadism, scent, slave/master, tongue fetish, "toys", vibrators, voyeurism, whips.
Picture Found Here
http://www.deviantart.com/view/6687952/
If we sound interesting and fun to you and you think you meet our desires, please fill out our form BELOW and send it To
JEstes7558@charter.net. Attach a pic if you have one.
IM me at buttercreamkises on AIM or
Buttercreamkinkykises, spankmeinfw, spankmeinfw2000, or looking4bidomindfwtx on yahoo! Massager
To fill out form
1.From web page highlight the form right click to copy text, open mail right click to paste to mail fill out.
or
2. from mail highlight form press reply then fill out.
____________________________
1. I am a
( ) Male
( ) Female
( ) Couple. If you are a couple, please check couple and check your sexes then have you partner fill out a copy of this also.
______________________
2. I Am…
( ) Straight
( ) gay
( ) Bisexual
( ) Bi- curious
_________________________
3. My age is
_________________________
4. I am.
( ) Married. Spouse will NOT be involved Please explain why we should consider you even though you are married
( ) Married. Spouse will be involved
( ) Single
( ) Divorced
( ) Separated / or soon to be divorced
( ) Seeing someone seriously. Please explain why we should consider you even though you are seeing someone.
____________________________
5. Do you have custodial care of children?
( ) Yes
( ) No
_________________________________
6. I live in
( ) Fort Worth
( ) Dallas. Please tell why we should consider someone at that distance
( ) Other. Please tell where and why we should consider someone at that distance
___________________________________
7. I am
( ) Dom
( ) Sub
( ) Switch
( ) brat
( ) None
__________________________________
8. My Experience at giving spankings is
( ) None. Not interested in that
( ) None, but willing to try
( ) Little
( ) Average
( ) Above average
( ) Expert
____________________
9. My experience in threesome/swinging is
( ) None. Not interested in that
( ) None, but willing to try
( ) Little
( )Average
( ) Above Average
( ) Expert
________________________
10. Experience in BDSM
( ) None. Not interested in that
( ) None, but willing to try
( ) Little
( )Average
( ) Above Average
( ) Expert
___________________
11.Experience in same sex oral
( ) None. Not interested in that
( ) None, but willing to try
( ) Little
( )Average
( ) Above Average
( ) Expert
______________________________________
12. Are you still able to have children?
( ) yes
( )no
___________________________________
13. I enjoy giving oral sex to someone of my own gender.
( ) Yes
( ) No
______________________________
14. I enjoy receiving oral sex from someone of my own gender.
( ) Yes
( ) No
______________________________
15. I DO NOT mind getting involved with someone with a disability, in a wheel chair, has a slight speech impediment, is
between 175- 225 Pounds.
( ) Correct
( ) Incorrect
_________________________________
16. I drink
( ) Do not drink
( ) Social drinker. Once or twice a month
( ) Average. Once a week or so I like to drink 4-8 drinks (This is us)
( ) Drink more than average
________________________________
17. Do you smoke?
( ) Yes
( ) No (We do not)
________________________________
18. Do you do any recreational drugs?
( ) Yes
( ) No
( ) Discuss later
Please tell what and explain.
___________________________
19. My Body type is
( ) Small
( ) Medium
( ) Large (This is us)
( ) Heavy
_____________________
20. My weight is
_____________________
21. My height is
______________________
22. I am how strong
( ) Not very
( ) Average
( ) Pretty strong
( ) Real strong
______________________
23. Women Only: Bra Size
_________________________
24. Men Only: Penis Size
A( ) Small under 5 inches
( ) Medium 5 to 7 inches (This is my husband)
( ) Large over 7 inches
B.
Thickness
( ) thin
( )medium
( ) thick
( ) real thick
c.circumcized
( )yes
( )no
_______________________________
25. Do you shave your genitals?
( )Yes
( )no
( )sometimes
_______________________
26. Do you prefer others to have
( ) shaved genitals
( ) unshaved genitals
( ) does not matter
_____________________
27. Your race
( ) American Indian
( ) Asian
( ) Black
( ) Caucasian
( ) East Indian
( ) Hispanic
( ) Middle Eastern
( ) Various
( ) Other
_____________________________
28. I am very open minded and open to the sayings "what happens, happens" and "let nature take its course". (Note this will
NEVER Include Male/Male Anal Sex)
( ) Yes
( ) No
________________________________
29. We have two cats. Are you allergic to or have a dislike for cats?
( ) Yes
( ) No
______________________________
30. We prefer to chat with people in a chat environment rather than e-mail. Do you have any of the following?
( ) AOL or AOL Instant Messenger; If so, Screen Name:
( ) ICQ; ICQ # If so, Screen Name:
( ) IRC Name If so, Screen Name:
( ) Yahoo! Pager Name If so, Screen Name:
( ) Other Chat program. Tell which and id
____________________________________
31. I like to
( ) Play board games
( ) Play get to know each other type games
( ) Watch movies
( ) Watch TV (list favorite shows)
( ) Go Out to eat (what kinds of foods are your favorite?)
( ) Go to clubs/ bars (What Kinds?)
( ) Listen to music (What Kinds)
( ) Other interest
______________________________
32. Do you practice safe sex (mainly condoms)
( ) Always
( )I try to always but some time in the heat of the moment I forget
( ) Sometimes - Depends on the situation. Never during oral, but necessary for penis to vaginal contact even though I am
disease free.
( ) Never
( ) No, because I don't have VD.
( ) No, because I can't have children.
_____________________________
33. Are you disease free?
( )yes
( ) no
____________________
34. What times are you free to play(nights, days, weekends, weekdays)
________________________________
35. Questions, Comments, Complaints, Advice, Anything else you want us to know? Here is your space to tell it all.
____________________________
36. BDSM checklist
Rate from 0 to 5 according to level of interest
0 = no way 5 = gotta have it. also you can put undecided if not sure or ? if you don't know what it is.
{ } acucullophallia (being cut) 0
{ } age play 4
{ } algolagnia (love of pain) 5
{ } Anal Fisting 3
{ } Anal Penetration 5
{ } Anal plugs 5
{ } Anal Sex (Giving) 1
{ } Anal Sex (Receiving) 5 hubby 0
{ } Anal Sex-fingers 5
{ } Anal torture 3
{ } Animal roles 1
{ } aromas, smells scent 4
{ } Asphyxiaphilia (breath play) 2
{ } auto erotica (masturbation) 5
{ } Ball Streching & Crushing 0
{ } Bare Hands spanking 5
{ } Bastinado(feet spanking) 5
{ } BDSM 5
{ } Beastiality(real) 0
{ } Big Men/Women 4
{ } Biting/being biten 3
{ } blindfolds 5
{ } Blood play 0
{ } bondage 5
{ } brats
{ } Breast Bondage 5
{ } Breast whipping 5
{ } Breast/Nipple Torture 5
{ } Brown Showers/Scat (feces shit play) 0
{ } Bruises 5
{ } candle wax 4
{ } Caning 4
{ } CBT Scenes (Cock & Ball Torture) 1
{ } Chinese Balls/Ben Wa Balls/Anal Beads 5
{ } Chores (domestic service) undecided
{ } Clit bondage 3
{ } Clit fucking 5
{ } Clit labia Clips 5
{ } Clit pussy torture 4
{ } Clit suction 5
{ } cock Bondage 4
{ } cock fondling man on man 5
{ } cock fondling woman on man 5
{ } cock kissing man on man 5
{ } cock kissing woman on man 5
{ } cock licking m/f 5
{ } cock licking m/m 5
{ } cock manual play man on man 5
{ } cock manual play woman on man 5
{ } cock play man on man 5
{ } cock play woman on man 5
{ } Cock rings/straps 5 hubby
{ } cock sucking man on man 5
{ } cock sucking woman on man 5
{ } Cock swallowing 4
{ } cock worshiping man on man 5
{ } cock worshiping woman on man 5
{ } corner time as discipline 5
{ } Corporal Punishment 5
{ } D/s Dom SUB 5
{ } dacryphilia (arousal from tears)5
{ } Daughter - Daddy play 5
{ } depilation (shaving) 3
{ } Dildos (Handheld) 4
{ } discipline 5
{ } Doctor/Nurse Fetish 3
{ } Dominating a female or male as my sub 2
{ } Double Penetration (oral/vaginal) 3
{ } Double Penetration (vaginal/anal) 5
{ } Ear Plugs 4
{ } Edge Play 4
{ } Electric Play tens unit vibrators 5
{ } Enemas 4
{ } Eye contact restrictions undecided
{ } Face Slapping 0
{ } Fear Play(being scared 3
{ } Figging (ginger root) 4
{ } finger fucking anal 5
{ } finger fucking vaginal 5
{ } Fire Play 2
{ } Fisting (vaginal) yes 4
{ } Flogging cat o nine tail 5
{ } Following orders 5
{ } Food Play 1
{ } Foot fucking 3
{ } Forced Masturbation: 4
{ } Forced Orgasm 5
{ } Forced servitude 3
{ } fucking machine 5
{ } Fucking-rectum-cock 5
{ } furry animal 0
{ } Gags 1
{ } Golden Showers water sports urine(piss play) 0
{ } hair pulling 5
{ } Hairbrush spankings 5
{ } Hand Job-getting-clit 5
{ } Hand Job-getting-cock 5
{ } Hand Job-giving-clit 5
{ } Hand Job-giving-cock 5
{ } hickeys 5
{ } Human Pony dog1
{ } Humiliation degradation 0
{ } Hypnotism 0
{ } Ice cubes 5
{ } incest(real) 0
{ } Infantalism diaper play 0
{ } intercouse 3
{ } Labia Stretching undecided
{ } Lactation milking 1
{ } Leather Belts spaking 5
{ } Lectures for misbehavior 5
{ } Marks-permanent 0
{ } Marks-temporary 5
{ } masochism 5
{ } Massage (giving) 3
{ } Massage (receiving) 5
{ } Master/Slave 3
{ } Medical Scenes 3
{ } Mind Fucks, mind control, mental bondage mind games 4
{ } Mouth Soaping 1
{ } Needle Play 1
{ } Nipple clamps and clothespins weights 5
{ } nudism 5
{ } Oils/Lotions/Spices/wax/tiger balm/ rubbing alcohol 3
{ } oral (man on man) 5
{ } oral (woman on man) 5
{ } oral fixation 5
{ } Oral Sex (giving) 5
{ } Oral Sex (Receiving) 5
{ } oral(woman on woman) 5
{ } Oral/anal play (rimming) giving 0
{ } Oral/anal play (rimming) recieving 3
{ } Orgasm control 5
{ } Orgasm denial 5
{ } Over-the-knee spanking 5
{ } paddling 5
{ } Pain (medium) 4
{ } Pain (mild) 5
{ } Pain (severe) 3
Pedophilia(real) 0
{ } piercings 1
{ } Pinching 5
{ } play fight 4
{ } play house 5
{ } play rape 5
{ } Play School 5
{ } Podophilia (Foot Fetish) shoe fetish 0
{ } power exchange 5
{ } Prison Fantasy Play 4
{ } Prostitution (real) 0
{ } Public Play-parties dungeons/play spaces 4
{ } Punishment-play 5
{ } Punishment-real 4
{ } Pussy Whipping 5
{ } religious (nunplay priest play) 3
{ } Resistance Play 5
{ } Restrictive rules on behavior 5
{ } Riding Crops 5
{ } roleplaying 5
{ } Rough Sex 5
{ } sadism 3
{ } Same Gender Sex 5
{ } same sex kissing 1
{ } same sex oral 5
{ } Scratches Abrasions 3
{ } Sensory deprivation 5
{ } Sensory Enhancement 5
{ } Serving 2
{ } Sex During Menstruation 0
{ } Slings/Swings 4
{ } Slutty language obscene talk 1
{ } Sound Control 4
{ } Spanking 5
{ } spanking on the hand
{ } Spitting 0
{ } Strap-on-dildos 5
{ } Strapping-full body 5
{ } submission to another 5
{ } Suction Devices 5
{ } Swallowing semen 4
{ } Swapping swinging 3
{ } Switching Roles 3
{ } threesome m/f/m 5
{ } Threesomes (f/m/f) 4
{ } tickling 4
{ } Torture Scenes 5
{ } toys" 5
{ } Transvestism, transexual, crossdressing 0
{ } Triple penetration 2
{ } Uncircumcised Men 2
{ } unprotected sex no condom 0
{ } Urethral Sounds Vibration (metal rods) 3
{ } Violet Wand (electricial toy) 5
{ } Water torture 4
{ } Weapons guns knives, 0
{ } Wearing symbolic jewelery collars 5
{ } Whipping 5
{ } Wooden paddles 5
_______________________________
Thank you for taking the time to fill out our questionnaire. We will get back to you as soon as possible. Please send this
form to JEstes7558@charter.net !! Attach A pic if you can.
Angel's sex and bdsm facts about me
I am a brat not a sub.
I like to fight being punished
be forced to do things
be force to take my punishments
be physically controlled
i like pain most places being hit. ass, thighs, pussy, breast, back of my legs, arms, legs
back (back light only Lightly)
i like breast torture
i like hair pulling
i like light pussy anal torture.
i like rough sex.'( i think)
i like play rape.
i like to play fight
i like role play
i want to be told what to do
bdsm to me is not about serving.it's about physical and mental control, being forced, and
punished i like things done to me. i do give back though but sometimes like to be forced to
give.
I like to have your choices taken away from you, but reserve the right to say the safeword.
I like the excitement of the chase
i love to be lead by pulling my arms or hairOR BY CONTROLING MY NECK.
i fantasize about being spanked once an hour.
i hate doms that are arrogant assholes.
I want a dom that can be mean at the right TIME and can be loving at times
I want a daddy type dom. Strict firm but loving.
I like to be mentally dommed/controlled.
I've had little house on the prairie spanking fantasy since i was a kid.
I like daddy daughter role play both discipline and sexual.
I like over the knee spanking
I like to be choked very lightly. More like controled by the neck.
I like to be spanked with hands, paddles,floggers and brushes but want more experience with
belts. I want to try crops and canes but doubt I will like them.
I like impact more than sting. but not all impact. The bigger the weapon the better.
I like anal sex and oral sex.
i don't like being called slut bitch etc.
i don't like to gagged.
I like to top from the bottom.
I like to be undressed by the dom.
I do not like it when dom withhold spankings as punishment. ( I mean forget it for real)
I do not allow face slapping.
I believe people who like to be spanked can still be really punished by spanking by making
it hard and with things they don't like in ways they don't like.
I want to be spanked as real punishment.
corner time , writing or typing alot are good punishments for me.
I always use a safeword.
I believe in good girl and bad girl spankings. Good girl spanking are not as hard and more
sexual.
Spanking is not necessarily sexual to me although i have orgasmed during it.
I like sex to hurt sometimes.
I'm a pain slut but i hate that term.
I think ultimately the sub if in control.
I am a SAM.(smart assed mashoist)
I'd like to switch but only if the person is truly more dom.
I've been told I've be a better dom because I like to control things. But a dom can't get
controlled and spanked.
I'm to hardheaded and selfish to be a real sub.
I like to try hands spanking and Bastinado(feet spanking)
I'm not as mobile and flexible as some and i have poor balance. plus being bigger. can get
tired easy don't have real high stamina.
I love giving oral and i do swallow but sometimes my teeth get in the way because i have a
small mouth and buck teeth.
I like to be required to say sir or ma'am.
I like having rules.
Hubby and I are nudist at heart anyway.
I think some guys forget there is more to the breast than the nipple. i like my whole breast
squeezed.
I like to be forced to have an orgasm but also forbidden to have them.
When playing I have to be careful of my herniated back and neck and poor balance. I can
never be hit without support.
When sitting I must get up slow and careful.
I like to be played with during a spanking. Rubbing my butt, clit, fingering me.
I'm a spanko.
I'm more shy in real life than on line.
I can't kneel on the floor or sit in the floor for long periods of time.
I like marks and hickeys as long as I don't have to see family any time soon.
I like to feel the pain from play for several days.
I dream of being thrown over our kitchen table which is in the living room spanked so hard i
cry and then fucked in the ass.
I like to be touched on the check with a guys thumb with the rest of the hand holding my
face.
I also want to feel a paddle placed long ways between my butt cheeks and rubbed up and down.
I want to be made to cry.
Most Spankos spank on the cheeks but why not focus more on the sit spot in betweem.
I like being backed up against the wall.
I love for dom to whisper in my ear. Especially threats or ultimatums.
I have a fantasy where I'm bent over a bed or table and my pussy grab from underneath. And somehow push or pulled to hurt.
Not sure how it would work though.
I hate counting spanks.and adding 'thank you Sir" more and then adding "may i have another" more.(use at your decression)
I hate my inner thighs hit.(use at your decression).
I usually don't have an orgasm the first time I play with someone. It takes time to get comfortable enough for me.
I tend to laugh during play alot it is best to ignore it but if you want to go the "so you think this is funny" route you
can.
During sex i like my hands held over my head.
I have experienced ice in my pussy. It was very different. I'd like to try that again.
I like to be spanked on back my legs held in the air.
Hubby and I used to play a game where he puts his fingers just inside my vagina then waits then without warning suddenly
thrust his fingers inside me. I love that.
I used to brag about being able to take any spanking. my group called me iron butt. But the iron butt melted with one very
hard swat. It was so hard i went in shock. Since then I don't brag any more.
I like the idea of electrival play
In my daily fantasies( mostly little house on the prairie pa/Laura spanking scenes) i use
certain phrases all the time. I'd really like these phrase in our play. Here they are.
"it's ok" (after a spanking)
"you know better" (when I've done something wrong)
"good girl"(when I'm good of course)
"young lady"( i like to be called young lady even though i ain't that young no more lol)
"do you understand me?"(when given an order or a punishment)
"now!" (when told to do something and I don't)
"yes, what?" or "no what?" (when i forget to say sir)
"you need your ass beat or whipped"
"go get the belt(or what ever) now"
"spread you legs" (during spanking or sex. I really like this one don't know why)
"I'm going to have to give you a spanking"
"i want you too........" (whatever instructions)
look at me"(when in trouble),
"come here"
"bend Over"
" I'm gonna bust you butt"
"i'm gonna whip you ass."
" when I tell you to do something you do it."
Hubby can scoot down in his wheelchair for play.
Hubby likes cock play, cock worship, cock sucking, fondling, manual play,cock kissing.
we want a poly type relationship but with out living together.
we want a long term friendship not just a one time "fuck buddy"
we want some one that want both of us not just me.
My complete bdsm check list
Rate from 0 to 5 according to level of interest
0 = no way 5 = gotta have it. also you can put undecided if not sure or ? if you don't know what it is.
Abduction Scenes 4
Abrasion undecided
acucullophallia (being cut) 0
age play 4
algolagnia (love of pain) 5
altocalciphilia (high heels) 0
Anal abuse 4
Anal examinations 4
Anal Fisting 3
Anal Penetration 5
Anal plugs (large) 3
Anal plugs (small) 5
Anal servitude ?
Anal Sex (Giving) 1
Anal Sex (Receiving) 5
Anal Sex-fingers/fist 5
Anal torture 3
Anal training ?
Anal worship ?
Anilingus 0
Animal roles 2
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders) 3
Aromas 4
Asphyxiaphilia (breath play) 2
auto erotica (masturbation) 5
Ball and chain 3
Ball Strechers & Crushers 0
Ball stretching 1
Bare Hands spanking 5
Bareback raw fucking [with no condoms] 0
Bastinado(feet spanking) 5
Bathroom use control ?
BDSM 5
BDSM without Sex 3
Beastiality 0
Beating (hard) undecided
Beating soft 5
Begging/Pleading 5
Being bitten 4
Being serviced (sexual) 4
Big Men/Women 4
Biting 3
blindfolds 5
blood 0
Blood play 0
Blow Gun Play ?
Body bag 2
Body Hair 3
Body Harness 3
Body Modification 1
Body Worship 4
bondage 5
Boot worship 0
branding 0
Branding Scenes 1
Breast Bondage 5
Breast Clamping 5
breast torture 5
Breast whippingyes 5
Breast/Nipple Torture 5
Breath control undecided
Brown Showers/Scat (feces play) 0
Bruises 5
Butt Plugs 4
Cages (locked inside of) 1
candle wax 4
Caning 4
Cat O' Nine Tails 5
Catheterization 0
Cattle prod (electrical toy) undecided
CBT Scenes (Cock & Ball Torture) 1
Cells/Closet-confined 0
Chains 1
Chamber-pot use 0
chastity devices 2
Chinese Balls/Ben Wa Balls/Anal Beads 5
Choking undecided
Chores (domestic service) undecided
Chosen clothes for 1
Chosen Food For 1
Cling Film 3
Clit Clips 5
Clit or cock bondage 3
Clit or cock examinations 5
Clit or cock fucking 5
Clit or cock piercing no
Clit or cock suction 5
Clit or cock torture 4
Clit or cock training ?
Clitoral orgasm 5
Clothespins 5
cock fondling man on man 5
cock fondling woman on man 5
cock kissing man on man 5
cock kissing woman on man 5
cock licking m/f 5
cock licking m/m 5
cock maunal play man on man 5
cock maunal play woman on man 5
cock play man on man 5
cock play woman on man 5
Cock rings/straps 5 hubby
cock sucking man on man 5
cock sucking woman on man 5
Cock swallowing 4
cock worshiping man on man 5
cock worshiping woman on man 5
Cock worshipyes 5
Collar & Leash 2
Collars (wearing) 5
Competitions (with other Subs) 1
Confinement/Caging 1
Coprophilia (Shit Play)/Scat 0
corner time as discipline 5
Corporal Punishment 5
Corsetry 1
Cross-dressing 0
Cuffs 4
Cunnilingus 5
Cunt Torture 5
cupping (suction of the skin) 5
Cutting 0
D/s Dom SUB 5
dacryphilia (arousal from tears)5
Daughter - Daddy play 5
Degradation 0
depilation (shaving) 3
Diaper Play 0
Dildos (Handheld & Strap-ons) 4
discipline 5
Doctor/Nurse Fetish 3
Dog Training 1
Domestic Chores undecided
Domestic Service 3
Dominating a female or male as my sub 2
Double Penetration (oral/vaginal) 3
Double Penetration (vaginal/anal) 5
Drawing Blood-any form 0
Ear Plugs 4
ears 3
Eating hot fresh raw semen 3
Eating Patterns Control 3
Edge Play 1
Electric Play 5
Electricity 5
Electro Torture Scenes 4
Electrotorture (EMS TENS units) 5
Enemas (for cleansing) 4
Enemas (retention/punishment) 4
Enforced chastity undecised
Erotic Humiliation 1
Erotic Pain 5
Erotic Pain-heavy 2
Erotic Pain-light 5
Examinations-medical 3
Exchanging bodily fluids seman only 4
Exercise (forced/required) 2
Exhibitionism 2
Eye contact restrictions undecided
Face Slapping 0
Fantasy abandonment 1
Fantasy gang-rape 2
Fantasy rape 5
Fantasy safe abuse ?
Fear (being scared) 3
Fear Play 3
feathers 5
Figging (ginger root) 4
Fire Play 2
Fisting (anal) yes 3
Fisting (vaginal) yes 4
Flame play 2
Flogging (back) 3
Flogging (butt) 5
Following orders 5
Food Play 1
Foot fucking 3
Foot worship 1
Forced bedwetting 0
Forced Crossed Dressing 0
Forced eating 1
Forced Feminization 0
Forced Homosexuality 4
Forced Masturbation: 4
Forced Orgasm 5
Forced servitude 3
Forced smoking 9
Fucking-rectum-cock 5
Fucking-rectum-dildoe 5
Fucking-rectum-fingers 5
Fucking-rectum-fist 3
Fucking-vagina-cock 5
Fucking-vagina-dildoe 5
Fucking-vagina-fingers 5
Fucking-vagina-fist 5
Full head hoods 1
Gags 1
gangbangs 2
Gas masks 0
Genital Bondage 4
Genital sex 5
Golden Showers (piss play) 0
Group Sex 4
Gun play 0
hair pulling 5
Hairbrush spankings 5
Hand Job-getting-clit 5
Hand Job-getting-cock 5
Hand Job-giving-clit 5
Hand Job-giving-cock 5
Handcuffs 4
Harems (serving w/other subs) 2
Harnessing 2
Having clothing chosen for you 1
Having food chosen for you 1
Head Harness ?
High heel wearing 0
High heel worship 0
Hobble Skirt Wearing ?
Hogtie 3
Homage with tongue (non-sexual)?
Hoods maybe
Hot oils (on genitals) 3
Hot waxing 3
Housework (doing) undecided
Human Pony 1
Human puppy dog 1
Humiliation 0
Hypnotism 0
Ice cubes 5
Immobilization 3
Inducing Multiple Orgasms-getting 5
Inducing Multiple Orgasms-giving 5
Infantalism 0
Initiation rites undecided
Injections 0
Intense Pain 4
Interrogations 1
Kidnapping 2
Kneeling 1
Knife play 1
Labia Clamping 1
Labia Stretching undecided
Lactation 1
latex 2
leather 2
Leather Belts 5
Leather clothing 1
Leather cuffs and belts 5
Leather restraints 5
Lectures for misbehavior 5
Leg Irons 3
Licking 5
Lingerie (wearing) 2
Making Home "Movies" 3 (if we keep)
Marks-permanent 0
Marks-temporary 5
masks 4
masochism 5
Massage (giving) 3
Massage (receiving) 5
Master/Slave 3
Medical Scenes 3
Ménage à trois
Menstruation 2
Mental Bondage 3
Mild Pain 5
Mind Fucks 4
Mind Games 4
Modeling for erotic photos yes1 only personal
Mommy Play 4
Mouth bits 0
Mouth Soaping 1
Multiple Partners-both sexes 5
Multiple Partners-female 5
Multiple Partners-male 5
Mummification(saran wrap etc) 1
Mutual Masturbation 2
Neck Bindings 2
Needle Play 1
Nettle Play 2
Nipple clamps and clothespins 5
Nipple exams 3
Nipple milking ?
Nipple play/"torture" 5
Nipple rings (piercings) 0
Nipple training 4
Nipple weights 2
nudism 5
nurse/doctor fetish 3
Oils/Lotions/Spices 3
oral (man on man) 5
oral (woman on man) 5
oral fixation 5
Oral Sex (giving) 5
Oral Sex (Receiving) 5
oral(man on woman) 5
Oral/anal play (rimming) giving 0
Oral/anal play (rimming) recieving 5
Orgams 5
Orgasm control 5
Orgasm denial 5
Orgasm forced 5
Outdoor sex 1
Over-the-knee spanking 5
paddling 5
Pain (medium) 4
Pain (mild) 5
Pain (severe) 3
Pee play 0
Penis Ligation ?
Period blood play 0
Persona training undecided
Personality modification (RL) undecided
Phone Sex 1
piercings 1
Pinching 5
Piss 0
play fight 4
play house 5
Play Piercing 0
play rape 5
Play School 5
Podophilia (Foot Fetish) 0
Position Training ?
Posture Training 3
power exchange 5
Power Tools ?
Prison Fantasy Play 4
Private Humiliation 0
Prostitution (actual) 0
Public Play-private parties 4
Public Play-public dungeons/play spaces 4
Punishment-play 5
Punishment-real 4
Pussy torture 4
Pussy training 4
Pussy Whipping 5
religious (nunplay priest play) 3
Religious scenes 3
Resistance Play 5
Restrictive Behavior 5
Restrictive rules on behavior 5
Retifism (Shoes or Boots) 0
Riding Crops 5
Riding the "horse" (crotch torture.) ? 3
Riding the Stallion (fucking machine) 5
rimming 3
Risk sex 0
Ritual Play 3
roleplaying 5
Rope Bondage 5
Ropes 5
Rough Sex 5
sadism 3
Same Gender Sex
same sex oral
Scalpel-butting ?
Scarification ?
Scat 0
scent 3
Scourging?
Scratching - getting 2
Scratching - giving 0
Scrotal Infusion ?
Sensory deprivation 5
Sensory Enhancement 5
Sensory Relocation ?
Sensual Play-sensation 5
Service Scenes 3
Serving 2
Serving as a maid 2
Serving as a Pony 2
Serving as art 0
Serving as ashtray 0
Serving as furniture 0
Serving as Pony 0
Serving As Toilet 0
Serving as waitress/waiter 3
Sex During Menstruation 2
Sexual deprivation (long term) 2
Sexual deprivation (short term) 4
Shackles 3
Shaving 3
Signal Whip/Bullwhips/Single Tail 4
Sleep deprivation undecided
Sleepsacks ?
Slings/Swings 4
Slutty language obscene talk 1
Sound Control 4
Spanking 5
Speculum training?
Speculums (Anal)3
Speculums (vaginal) 3
Speech restrictions (when, what) 4
Spitting 0
Spread-Eagle 4
Spreader Bars 4
Standing in corner 5
Stocks 0
Straight jackets 0
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by) 5
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on) 0
Strap-on-dildos (wearing) 1
Strapping-full body 5
submission to another
Suction Devices 5
Suspension 2
Swallowing feces 0
Swallowing semen 4
Swallowing urine 0
Swapping (with one other couple) 3
Swinging (multiple couples) 3
Switching Roles 3
Sword/Machete Play 0
Talking Dirty 1
Tampon Training (in ass) 0
Tape Gags 0
Tattooing-permanent 4
Tattooing-temporary 5
Teasing 5
TENS Unit (electrical toy) 5
Terror Play (e.g. Chainsaws) 0
the rack 4
The Rack/Medif/m/f) 4
Thumbcuffs (metal) 4
Ticklers 4
tickling 4
tiger balm rubbing alcohol ect. 5
Toe Sucking-getting 3
Toe Sucking-giving 0
tongue fetish 1
Torture Scenes 5
toys" 5
Transsexuals 9
Transvestism 0
Triple penetration 2
Uncircumcised Men 2
Uniforms 1
Urethral Sounds Vibration (metal rods) 3
Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine) 0
Vaginal dildo 5
Vaginal exams 4
Vaginal exposure to strangers 0
Vampire Gloves ?
Vampire Scenes 3
Vibrator on and in genitals 5
vibrators 5
Victorian Play 4
Video (watching others) 5
Videoed Scenes 3
Violet Wand (electricial toy) 5
Voice Training (speaking the way your Dom/me wants you to) 3
voyeurism 3
Wartenburg Wheel 4
Water torture 4
Wax Play-dripping 3
Wax Play-hair removal 3
Waxing (hair removal) 3
Weapons 0
Wearing symbolic jewelery 5
Web cam play 3
Weight loss (forced) 0
Wet & Messy 0
Whipping 5
Wooden paddles 5
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I get tons of people interested in my ad. You probably figure most are
idiots. Oh How true. All we want is a single bisexual Dom/domme That
lives in dfw that can look past our disability. Plan and simple yet 90
f the people that respond aren't and they are idiots.
Tons of people just want to be with me not hubby. They LET will him
suck them. Oh man what an honor of then to allow him to suck them. OH
PLEASE! Some that have came over suck him a whole 2 seconds and that's
it. We want someone that if fair in a threesome. All three give to both
the others. It's fair! I mean my hubby should get something for letting
guys fuck me. We want someone that is turely orally bisexual. People
that have day dreamed about giving same sex oral. Who have tried it.
Who KNOW they enjoy it.
Then there are people who aren't really in
to bdsm. I always ask them what bdsm means. Many don't know. I ask "are
you into bdsm". "yes" "ok what does bdsm stands for?" "I don't know?"
"Ok so youre into something but you don't know what it is? What idiots?
My favorite answer was it stood for "torture and shit". That answer
scared me. Most think it's just bondage and spanking or just
controlling someone. Few can name all six parts b/d d/s s/m.
Then
there are people who are pretty much perfect but they refuse to fill
out the form. I mean it help save wasting time. I get to know all the
main things. If there is a reason it won't work I usually will know
there. No talking for month and then find out they are allergic to
cats. It also shows how serious a person is about meeting. I mean these
people want spend lots of time with us, lots of time traveling to us,
and they want to fuck us. Yet they cant spend 30 minutes to fill out
the form. Too fucking lazy or conceited on. These people dont have time
to fill out a form or are too lazy, I know they wont find time to be
with us or just to lazy for us. Or else they are too stupid to fill it
out. Directions are right there on the page.
Then there are
Doms that arent doms but arrogant assholes. They try to Dom me from
minute one. And they are just full of them selves.
Then I get
subs wanting to find a mistress. Damn look at my name. Look at the
first thing my page says. IM LOOKING FOR A BISEXUAL DOM.
Then
there are people who cant, wont or dont read my page. Most of the
people who respond have not even read any of what Im looking for. Much
less all of it thoroughly. They dont know we are disabled or they that
dont read that Im a brat not a sub.
There are the married people who want to cheat on their spouse. We dont condone cheating. Enough said.
Then there are the liars. The one that tell you anything you want then
to say just to get in your pants. Its usually so obvious that arent bi
or into bdsm but will say they are. You know they have no clue about
bdsm.
Then there are one that want me to "teach" them bdsm. I'm
not a teacher. Subs don't teach Subs. If you want to learn bdsm get off
your lazy ass and go read about it.
Then there are the kids
age 21 to say 25. They have not lived sexually and don't really know
what they like and don't like. They haven't had much time to get
experience in bdsm and bisexuality.Why would a 21 year old want a long
term relationship with a disabled couple over 35. They will never stay
around long.
The scammers. Ok I never ran into one
until the other day. He lives far away. He used lines like .i wonna be
with u for the rest of my life, can we get it started? and how about
the deal i guess?, i could be in ur place any moment from now, u know
what? i think i told u im not in the states right now, but i can leave
here becuz of u, but i need to hear the details, Isn't it a DEAL?, i
call it DEAL He said hope you and you friend are doing well Now we have
not really talked. He lies and tries to say what I want to here. But he
wants me to send 400 dollar so he can fly down here. How fucking stupid
does he think I am? I would pay for anyone to come here much less
someone I dont even know. I told him Id send the money. LOL scams on
him.
Then there are the people who live too far away anything
over 35 miles is too far. We get people who say they have the money to
travel. Please people who will pay that much and time for sex is just
too desperate. We get people from UK, Middle East, all over the world.
The Middle Eastern just wont take no for an answer.
There are
the babies you get mad when I say no. My most hated most received
comment your loss. What an immature comment. Just today a guy though a
temper tantrum cuz I said no. He put messages on all my blogs. I hate
immature sore losers. Thats why I prefer older men.
There are the one that fill out the form talk a day or too seem interested then disappear.
There are the people that Ive never talked too before Iming me they
want to come over that night. Please I dont want to be murdered thanks.
The ones that say Im in town I dont care. Bye. Geez.
There are the people who just want a fuck that all. We want a long-term friendship. Mot quickie on time fucks.
Lastly there are the people who contact me saying Im horny I say good
go fuck yourself. People who want cyber or web cam sex. I only want the
real thing. These assume Im a nympho cuz of my ad. Im not. Or how about
the ones that just say call me at whatever number.
Then again there are the plain idiots. Enough said.
Weve met about 11 people so far. All those fit the first category. Not
really bisexual they may suck him 2 seconds that all. They lied to get
to me. One guy Im still kind of seeing (not sure for very long) Has
said after meeting that he just want to play with me not hubby and
nothing for him. I figured why not. As long as I dont have to give to
him hubby and I dont lose anything. But he has this thing about saying
Im coming over tomorrow. What? No Invite? No advance warning? Im a
planner so Hes really getting on my nerves.
So I hope we can meet
someone real. Ill point all idiots and real hopefuls here so either
they will get the message or realize they can be what we are looking
for.
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get so sad sometimes cuz thinkgs are missing inmy relationship with my
husband. thing we both know about. But nothing we can do. Because of
his wheelchair he can't reach out and touch me. He can't abuse me in
the way i desire in bdsm. We agree to try seeking at third. An orally
bisexual for him and a dom for me. But they all say the are interested
then take off. Problably all liars that aren't really bisexual?at all.
I'm so sick of having my hopes set up the knocked down. I'm sick of
liars. I'm sick of non-bisexual fakers. All I want is someone to sit by
me on the couch and touch me some times smacking me. Some one to scare
me at times when i'm a naught little girl but make me feel like? a
beloved child sometimes. I doubt i'll ever find the one for both of us.
I'm in tears now sick of the stupid game.right now all i seek is a
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