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I am almost never on this site. Find me at under same name....
I am a submissive woman, but do not fit into stereotypes. I am strong willed, independent, alpha, type A personality, but yes I am a sub (sexually). I am married, (open marriage) and not interested in married men, who are not in open relationships. If that isn't your thing don’t bother, we won’t work, and it will all be upsetting, and I hate drama. I am into BDSM, and interested in many other things. I can't say I know the traditional ways of things, as I have never had a long-term, local dominant. I would like to explore possibilities. (Also, I do not wish graphic emails either words or pictures until such time as I request it/them.) Thanks!
(Please, If you are not within 100 miles of Cincinnati, I am not interested. I am not interested in chatting unless you are within that area as well.) |
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Well, interesting thoughts... Dom/Dommes please remember to cherish you subs... we want to be special and wonderful in and of our selves. Even if we share with others, each of us needs to be special and cherished by you....
I am beginning to think maybe I just have either unrealistic ideas of what can be achieved in this lifestyle or I have no good judge of character via the Internet... The ones I wish would write, don't and the ones that do are from far away... or I think they may be someone I want to meet and I cant seem to get them to meet somewhere I consider safe.... |
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Okay,... after much time and very few face to face meets... lets revise things a bit. I remain interested in meeting someone for real life contact. I am not in a position to have a lot of on line time. Therefore, let me further delineate that I wish to talk with those who are in the greater Cincinnati area (no more than 100 miles away), who are either active within munches [wiling to at least meet at one] or are willing to meet in VERY public places of my choosing. It might sound bitchy but I do not have a ton of time to return online discussions. I do not wish to waste your time. As I have previously stated, I am very authoritative and used to being a non-door mat. I submit to those I choose, not someone who thinks they are my dominant. If that isnt your thing... you don't want me. Neither of us would be happy. To whomever is still interested .... |
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Well, it has been about three months of being here on CM. It has been interesting, enlightening, exciting, and at the same time scary, disappointing and at times filled with rudeness. I had other journal entries to help clarify who I am etc. I found that many were either very pleased or very upset. I understand the former but not the latter. Therefore, I deleted those posts and waited a bit to try again. I think that the negative remarks mostly came from Dominants who had/have strong opinions of what a submissive should be and how they should behave. I am certain I will never be what they desire.
The one great thing being here has done for me is to reinforce that I am not submissive anywhere besides the bedroom, and that people are okay with that. Not everyone, but enough to make me feel not so freakish. The kind letters, compliments and interest has helped me feel better about reaching out to the BDSM community more.
I find that I am still very slow to respond to emails, and very slow to decide to meet face to face with people. I have found that I am more willing to meet folks at munches or even at a local swing club than to meet one on one even in public. Perhaps it is all the bad news stories of off their noggin type folks who meet women (and I am sure men) via the Internet and hurt them/stalk them. So if you are still reading and are interested, please be patient with my poor response time, and come out to meet me through the local munches. :) |
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OMG! I just found my bulk mail file! I missed soooo many emails. I am so very sorry for my rudeness. Oh my.... |
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