I am relatively new to the BDSM lifestyle. I seek a Dom who is secure in His role...Someone who will not be bothered with good questions I need to ask to understand my submissive role. I feel that a good D/s relationship is in all parts of life..not just sensual. I feel a good D/s relationship is one that can work in the everyday of life but always there is an unspoken communication between U/us regarding the structure W/we have defined. I am submissive but not a slave. I seek a true Dom who doesn't need to show his power...it is always understood by his confidence in himself and in me. I seek to please...not to rebel..I am not into physical pain for pain sake.