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Hello Everyone, I am the Giant One. I know my name sounds very odd, but ask me andI maytell you the reason behind it!Anyway, I am a dom, I havebeen that way or have easily been thrust into that role by varying factors. I must say, its a easy niche to fit into and and it works quite well for me. Im looking for others to chat with about their trials and tribulations in the I am down forall versionsof the submissive or slave lifestyleKink and can work with you if that is your desire, but I am more into the fight for Dominance. I want a sub that will fight me for control, make me earn my place. That kind of test will prove a doms worth in their mind and that of the sub. I also have (Im not sure if you could call it a fetish) but a but a need ot protect those smallerweaker than myself (I believe it is sometimes referred to as a white knight complex, lol). Its strange, true, but I have seen much worse on this site, lol.I will also let you understand I am Bi-racial (BlackWhite), it accounts for certain things about me but I want to make that perfectly clear since some people hold the color of my skin as a negative factor.I also have a broad spectrum of hobbies I do which are way to much to List here! So if youre interested let me know.I thank you for your time.The Giant One
12/30/2011 5:17:10 PM

::Update of sorts::

I've decided against posting most of the conversation because validation aside, wasting any more time of this individual would not be a productive use of my time. I'll provide instead a bit more info on myself to hopefully prevent this from happening again in the future along with a warning. I am a student of life, a gatherer of knowledge and experience in various occupations and roles; I move and evolve and attempt to better myself with every step I take. I also attempt to understand the opinions of others, and don't pretend to cast judgment of others unless there's a specific reason that calls for it (I know that no matter how much I learn I will never know everything). If you get to know me (or don't) and disagree with my opinion, by all means call me out on it, that's you're right as an American and as a human being in my eyes. Now that being said, when you call me out you better be able to back up you reasoning with with fact or experience with why you think I'm incorrect in my reasoning; then I will either keep my opinion (while acknowledging yours just as valid) or change it to reflect to the newly gained insight. If you decide to to not do this and just view my opinions as incorrect or flawed due to either some delusional notion of superiority without reason or maybe due to perceived education/training influence(as in the case of the sub Litlebabiegirl) you better be able to back of your reasoning or else I will rip your arguments/logic/reason apart and toss them back in your face and most likely make you cry. LitleBabiegirl apparently believed her worlds carried weight due to her Masters in Psychology (Human Behavioral Psychology I believe), this is not the case and I'm sorry you didn't get the memo. I highly doubt she had a masters level psych degree (or any psych experience for that matter), since she seemed more than a bit clueless on even the most basic psychological terminology/knowledge they would probably use every day and became more than a bit defensive when I actually tried to explain my reasoning and where my experience comes from. It was either this, or she was incredibly incompetent at her job. I'm not here to jump through hoops in order to be "worthy" of anyone's time; I'm here to make connections, further my learning, and develop myself as a more well rounded person. This means I will not cater to your whims or illusions of grandeur because some previous Dom didn't praise or punish you enough, I'll just help you to realize how much you sound like an idiot. In any case I would not recommend LitleBabiegirl to anyone else on here if you're looking for a friend/partner/etc of any actual quality. While she may be attractive to some she also comes with a personality that’s hostile and judgmental, and she lacks an open mind to be asset to to any real conversation. So until this person grows to where her maturity meets her age, I suggest those interested in her proceed with caution.



The actual discussion her and I had was about a couple of things. I'll give you both of our general thoughts on the matter, and if you want you can give me your input as well since other opinions/experiences are always good to consider.



Topic: People choosing their roll in the Lifestyle and how it's affected by personality traits.

Her: People can only be Doms or Subs, if you've switched at some point it's because you didn't understand yourself and made the wrong choice. Switch isn't actually a real role, just someone who doesn't know yet.

Me: While some people can be as she said, I pointed out that people are in a constant state of flux and evolution. I also pointed out complex relationship questions with her theory, since I've meet many people who may be a Sub to one person but then a Dom to another. Her words on this were " In your opinion they are valid, not in mine " (note I was only pointing out another way to interpret it, not the only one)



Topic: Poly Relationships

Her: People in them have morality issues (I'm not sure if this was directed at just people who may be married or Poly relationships as a whole).

Me: Whatever floats their boat. While there are plenty of pro's/con's, in the end it's none of anyone else's concern.

 

(one added just because I thought was funny)

Topic: Reading and Comprehension

Her: If you are coming at me in a psych way..i have my MS in psych so please stop

Me: "coming at you"? I'm assuming you mean that in a context of where I'm attempting portray you in a way of intellectual inferiority?

Her: 'Coming at me' meant if your approach is psych. based

Her: Don't read into my words

Me: ….......

 

Sorry if my writing is a bit off as well, coming off of an all nighter.

12/27/2011 1:00:27 PM

I'm thinking about posting an conversation I had with a fellow CM'er on here today, if order to gauge your opinion on if I am writing as if I have some ulterior motive or if this woman is just viewing me with a distorted perspective (or under some kind of assumption)? I just have to figure if I want to make her anonymous or not at this point (I would think that to be the respectful thing to do, but I feel that all throughout the conversation I was being disrespected in some way and it makes me wonder why I care). Either way this will most likely be a place holder til that decision is made.

7/6/2011 3:23:03 AM

Found this journal entry while browsing and though I should re-post it, since it seems to sum up what I'm thinking quite well.

 

"So, I see all these people bitching about how there are never any real people on this site.

Bullshit.

I met 2 real people in my first month, 3 in my second.

Just because you are not interested in a person or what they offer doesn't make them fake.

So shut the hell up and lower the settings on your overactive "fakedar". You'll be pretty suprised, and the rest of us that don't bitch will be glad for the decrease in journal entries bemoaning the lack of real people."

9/8/2010 7:01:27 PM
Awesome times! The photoshoot is done and past, and I looked pretty good. Still going to keep up with my workouts though since I believe I can become so much larger. But we'll see what happens. Looks like I may also be moving to the DC or Fayettville area in the near future, so fun times with that.
8/19/2010 6:06:13 PM
Holy crap! Been at this for almost 3 1/2 months now and its almost over. All I have left is about 2-3 more weeks. In this time I've lost about a little over 50 lbs, and now I'm centering down on sheding the last of the fat I can before I start the Drying out phase before the photo shoot. Wish me luck, and hopefully I'll post some of the pics we take haha! And if you go to Dragoncon, you should see I Tan giant in the "300" portion of the parade!
7/11/2010 1:36:17 AM
I'm bout to hit my final phase before the photo shoot, so Will most likely be shredding a ton of weight over the next 6-8 weeks. This will suck a bit since its also followed by a intense diet (worse than the one I've been on, but the results show that it's working.... still sucks though). At least I've had the will power not to fall off the wagon, cause that would just make it suck a bit worse. Oh well, it's almost 5 am, and I have about 2-3 hours would of power training and cardio to complete, to wish me luck!
6/16/2010 1:52:26 PM
Went ahead and posted body shots for my photoshoot. Not bad, and still 2 1/2 more months to go, so I should be looking at some impressive gains. What say you?
5/12/2010 10:38:19 PM
Well into the 2nd week of my fitness plan in order to be ready for the random events ranging from july-september. Between my intense weight lifting sets, to my dedication and struggles with both Muay Thai and Capoeria, I've seen awesome jumps in both my strength and flexibility. Even from my measurements I've kept with, my body is already changing to reflect these increase. But even with all this I am not satisfied, and never am I one to just sit back and not challenge myself. In order to shock my body and increase my calorie deficit I'm striving for, I've added about 300 miles to be run by labor day weeken (sept). Currently I'm hitting easily 1-2 miles a day wearing a 20 pound vest, so I'm giving myself the extra added kick.

While doing all this, I'm heavily restricting my diet down to 2400 caloeries, but maintained a huge protein surplus in order to maintain my muscle growth at the same time as losing my fat. Either way it's brutal, but it's a test of will I enjoy to overcome.

So why do I post this.... *shrug* just cause maybe. I enjoy the practice of self improve, to take one's mind and body to the next level, everyone should. Theres no fun in staying stagnant so long, becoming complacent with the middleground. Plus, how can you expect to show another that you can take them to the next level if you can't do the same for yourself.

4/20/2010 8:57:12 PM
Gah, between Muay Thai and Capoeria I'm getting my ass kicked haha. Muay Thai is increasing my overall strength in gains I haven't seen in quite a while, and my overall balance and coordination is getting alot better (which is awesome for someone of my size). Between these and my normal gym schedule, I should easily be ready for my photoshoot in the next couple months, so wish me luck!
4/7/2010 1:13:09 PM
Currently training for my summer fitness photoshoots and For my upcoming MMA bout. Doing Muay Thai for strength/cardio training and Capoeria for Flexibility/endurance! Best combination ever haha, since the workouts are amazing and its the most fun I've had with working out!
3/16/2010 11:14:57 PM
I seem to have odd luck with women. I found one a couple years back. We hit it of pretty well, but she assumed I was some kinf of asshole/douche in disguise cause I treated her better than she was used to (was raised to be a gentleman so se me). So while she's so distrustful of my advances, she dates asshole men who use her and toss her aside.
I met a another girl a year back, really liked her and we hit it off, but we hit that same snag and she became distrustful of me because I treated her better than she was used to. At the same time she began dating a unstable asshole (which i was supposed to be, ironic) and I could do nothing but watch.
What does this say about me? What does this say about them? Whats wrong with treating others the way you wish to be treated, being a gentleman, having class? Or maybe I just have the look of one of those douchey frat guys although I have the mindset of a nerd.... oh well. Maybe I should introduce the two girls to each other. They could hang out and start a club, even have t-shirts, haha.
12/2/2009 10:09:42 PM
Decided to add in a pic of a costume I made 2-3 years back. It was extremely ghetto (made it in two days), but was fun to wear, lol. I really should remake it and actually take the time to do it right.
10/28/2009 1:16:42 PM
Currently Brainstorming some new Fet/Goth/bondage gear. I'm gonna draw out some quick designs, then produce one or two just to see if I can. One of the first I will make will be a full size neck/shoulder/head harness. I'll probably design on for men and another for women, although the one for men will be made to resemble armor or overlapping plates than anything else.

Probably also gonna work on a suit of armor I came up with quite a while back. Its nerdy as hell but should be fun. Will probably be a resin/plastic armor to resemble a deathlike visage, But since I dont want to make a helm, I'll do some make-up work to make it see like I no longer have eyes. I've doen something close to it before but it will be a test of my skills. Resin casting will be a bitch tho, and so will the leather work, but the end product should be fun. Like I said, very nerdy, lol! Will definitly have to design som new boots for myself, so I'll probably stand about 7 feet tall, so it'll be a fun thing to wear.
9/29/2009 10:54:56 PM
I wish to make a post, but firefox is being a total ass at the moment. So I will make a post after a little trouble shooting.
9/16/2009 6:24:05 AM
I've noticed this for awhile, but for some reason I'm just now putting this in my journal.

I would assume people other than me have witnessed the wicked double standard we have in the lifestyle.

I've had people tell me that I can't be experienced as a dom due to my age, they don't care to ask me where I've been or what I've done though for some reason. That seems to be the case with most young males.

But then you look at the opposite gender, and see that women can say they are professional Dommes at 18 years old, and demand men throw their wallets at them (which some foolish men will undoubtedly do I would assume).
9/8/2009 1:44:55 PM
Wow that's new. Today I recieved a message from a tiny slave (under 5ft) saying I was obese? This more or less was a slap to the face almost.

Now if you just flashed through my profile and only noticed my weight, yes, at first glance you would think I'm some unmotivated fat ass. But please, slow down just a bit and you may notice that I am almost a literal GIANT! I stand at 6'8, with shoulders broad enough to fill in any door and a waist of only 36 inches. My 260 lbs is mainly due the fact that I work out, and muscle weighs much more than fat may I remind you. Unlike most here, I enjoy being fit in order to better myself, and how can I do that if I can't keep up with anybody. Seriously, if we go by bodyfat, even under the army standards of fitness, I have to work hella hard to even get even close to being obese.
9/8/2009 2:27:49 AM
Sometimes I love life's lessons that you just have to teach you a lesson.

I believe in Chivalry, of being a gentleman, of having respect for a woman. Now I can be a Dom and treat a woman harshly or not as she desires, but I will always have that medium of respect in the way I act and the way I treat those around me. Why is it, that I am looked at as some kind of freak, someone who's "too good to be true" so apparently can't? I especially love this from guys viewing me as a threat or competition for girls they like. I understand you're too fucking weak to stand up to my level on your own skills and personality, but if you want to basically question my nature as a person of honorable character just go ahead and say it to my face like a man.
9/2/2009 6:55:32 PM
Will be in Atlanta til Tuesday causing havoc and the like. I will get back to the messages when I return!
8/28/2009 12:47:25 PM
Taking this weekend to go up to Baltimore. Will answer all emails and such when I return. Have a good weekend everyone!
8/15/2009 12:37:30 PM
Finally finished my epic quest back to Virginia and now just got to unpack! good times.
8/10/2009 10:37:06 AM
Another post in the same day?!!?? Blasphemous!

I've notices there are so many different versions of the lifestyle/kink out there. To each his own, and honestly I wouldn;t have it any other way. The concept of BDSM will change according to who you talk to, simply because the person with addapt the idea to one they think feels right to them. Not only does this this give you a clear view of the kind of person they are, but it keeps things fresh and new; and by meeting with others who enjoy it as they do, they broaden their understanding and hopefully heightens their enjoyment.
I've also seen others, self proclaimed masters and Dom/me's and subs alike who only view it as their way or the highway so to speak. While I give them free reign to their opinions, I believe they are truely shutting themselves off to learning experiences that lead them to further understanding of the lifestyle they choose to practice. In other words "Don't knock it til to you try it".
Also, I'm a little fuzzy over the the concept of a master that I've seen. Yes I am a Dom, I am proficient with the skills at my disposal, but a master means something more that that. A master means you have ceased learning. No one, no matter how good, truely can say they have no need to learn further. And this will always be so, since you can train dozens of people (be it subs, doms or anywhere in between), yet the next one will teach you something brand new since they are a different person than the dozens before them. Honestly, if I had such knowledge already at my disposal, I would have no place in the lifestyle because then it would be purely sexual and (to put it bluntly) boring. Put away your ego and try it sometime and you'll be surprised. I've learned the things I have from Lesbian and gay Dom/mes as well and a couple of switches here and there. I've talked to subs because they can enlighten me to techniques which did and didn't work on them. I've felt the sting of the whip/paddle/flogger. Does that make me less of a Dom? Highly doubtful. How can you say you understand your sub if you don't understand exactly what you put them through? 

Holy crap that was longer than I thought. Honestly, wheres the harm in learning, broadening your horizons, and most likely becoming better for it. And please remember to always have fun, cause it's back to work for me, lol! 
8/10/2009 9:30:53 AM
I'm kinda just wondering this out loud at the moment. Is there such a thing as too tall? I'm a large guy. I'm 6'8, 260 lbs, Shoulders almost a wide as a door way and a thin waist. My weight is muscle as it should be, which makes me seem all the larger, even to others of my height. I've found that to some that is a turn off. Can I say I blame them, not quite. I mean, I understand if you like your men thick or thin, long hair or short; but I would assume people wouldn't put so much stock in things that people cannot not change (and I'm not talking about personality). When I reference things that people cannot change, I mean Skin color (unless ur have a disease or are the king of pop) and Height, Age. so how tall is too tall?
5/7/2009 3:52:35 AM
I've recently been getting in the art of rope bondage. After being able to puzzle out the different methods and seeign people do them first hand, it's no where near as hard as one would think.
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