Hello, first...my happiness in the role as your submissive is pleasing, seeing you pleased and earning your praise and rewards as YOU see fit. With that said, I would be coming to this relationship with only a few expectations. One, that I may nurture my submissive nature with a compassionate, intelligent and open minded woman that possesses the desire to explore an intense, deep and mutually satisfying d/s relationship. Second, that I may develop a genuine friendship as well an emotional bond that well suits the d/s relationship. I want to live and experience the deeply satisfying bonds of submission to you as well as feel your warmth against me (whether holding you, hugging you or bearing your full weight on me).
I do have several triggers that you will find useful. I am a sensual submissive, not at all interested in beatings, real torture, etc. I do however recognize the need for and use of various s of punishment that you feel is appropriate to bring about the behavior that you desire. Though, I am outwardly very normal, sociable, even dominant, my submissive nature lies just below the surface, awaiting the one that can demand it to the surface! A certain look, snap of your fingers or something whispered in my ear will also serve you well. I know you know this, but the mind is our biggest sexual organ, and by far the most powerful.
My nipples too are extremely sensitive. A simple pinching of my nipples between your fingers will completely overpower me, collapsing me to my knees before you and/or into you.
The following are areas of interest, some have been realized and others I have curiosity and/or a willingness to explore, again as you see fit:
CUCKOLD!!!! #1 on my list!
personal “handmaiden” (bathing, massaging, dressing, etc)
collars and leashes,
mild public embarrassment
others in your circle of trust, knowing, and or seeing me as my true self (humiliation)