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Pan Male Submissive, 57,  Sfbayarea, California
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Hello, happiness in the role as your submissive is pleasing, seeing you pleased and earning your praise and rewards as YOU see fit. With that said, I would be coming to this relationship with only a few expectations. One, that I may nurture my submissive nature with a compassionate, intelligent and open minded woman that possesses the desire to explore an intense, deep and mutually satisfying d/s relationship. Second, that I may develop a genuine friendship as well an emotional bond that well suits the d/s relationship. I want to live and experience the deeply satisfying bonds of submission to you as well as feel your warmth against me (whether holding you, hugging you or bearing your full weight on me).

I do have several triggers that you will find useful. I am a sensual submissive, not at all interested in beatings, real torture, etc. I do however recognize the need for and use of various s of punishment that you feel is appropriate to bring about the behavior that you desire. Though, I am outwardly very normal, sociable, even dominant, my submissive nature lies just below the surface, awaiting the one that can demand it to the surface! A certain look, snap of your fingers or something whispered in my ear will also serve you well. I know you know this, but the mind is our biggest sexual organ, and by far the most powerful.

My nipples too are extremely sensitive. A simple pinching of my nipples between your fingers will completely overpower me, collapsing me to my knees before you and/or into you.

The following are areas of interest, some have been realized and others I have curiosity and/or a willingness to explore, again as you see fit:

CUCKOLD!!!! #1 on my list!
personal “handmaiden” (bathing, massaging, dressing, etc)

collars and leashes,



mild public embarrassment

others in your circle of trust, knowing, and or seeing me as my true self (humiliation)

g/s (possibly)












 Submissive Male



 6' 1"

 225 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Switch Women

Domme/Dom Couples

Female Led Couples

 Lives For:

 Fine Dining (Expert)

 Being allowed to beg you for things

 Being blindfolded

 Being allowed to worship your body

 Being allowed to see your breasts

 Being placed in a cage by you

 You controlling my male parts

 Being allowed to wear your collar

 Being allowed to be your servant


 Being allowed to do all of the housework

 Being humiliated by you

 You putting me on a leash

 Being allowed to give you massages

 Being allowed to be obedient to you


 You deciding when I'm allowed to have an orgasm

 You never allowing me to have pleasurable orgasms

 Being allowed to service you orally (Expert)

 Role Playing

 You cuckolding me

 Female Led Relationships

 Lifestyle BDSM







 You tying me up


 Eye contact with you not allowed

 Being allowed to worship your feet

 Mental Bondage

 You treating me like your butler


 Being allowed to see you in stockings

 Female Sovereignty

 Being allowed to pamper you



 Art Galleries

 Coffee Shops


 Musical Theater



 Scuba Diving

 Anal Play

 Anal Worship

 You giving me corner time

 You punishing my gentials

 Being gagged by you

 Outdoor Bondage


 Being spanked by you

 Living a 1950s lifestyle




 Curious About:


 Chastity Piercing

 Clothed Only


 G-spot Service

 Local BDSM Community

 Erotic Hypnosis


 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Sensory Play

 Speech Restrictions

 Wax Play

 Victorian Lifestyle

 Hard Limits:


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