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Female Switch, 36, savannah, Georgia
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Female Submissive, 30
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Male Submissive, 50, Minneapolis, Minnesota
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About FiestyRedhead
My profile changes here from time to time as I learn more about the things I need and want in my life. I work to keep it current.
At the moment, I am off the market. Yes, this means I am collared and owned. I do still enjoy chatting with and meeting new people. Life is too short not to enjoy other people.... like minded or not.
I am fully aware that the spelling of my user name is incorrect. Feisty is the correct spelling.
With that said......
I am open and honest and very giving in my nature.
I am a tall, intelligent redhead with green/amber/hazel eyes. I am not a skinny little whipping post and I love a good spanking. I am trouble and the right Dominant will be able to handle that and keep it under control without putting out my fire.
I am BBW. If that is not your interest, there is no reason to read any further. There is also no reason to degrade me for what I am.
I have been told I am an old soul. I believe in the ways of the 1950's where females had a certain role and this was a time when children were raised to respect adults. In my heart, I believe this was a time where there was mutual respect between couples but the man, being the head of the home, had control.
I am a very accepting and non-judgemental type of person. I am easy going and easy to get along with. Some have told me that this quality is what draws people in.
I am 38. I am looking for someone long term so I would need someone who doesn't already have one foot in the grave and the other on a banana peel. (Yes, this is an attempt at some humor.)
I wear my heart on my sleeve and I am a very giving person. I will not allow that to be taken advantage of ever again. Yes, this means the men of my past have burnt me. I have learned from this and I am able to move forward.
I am not quick to trust. That must really be earned when it comes to me. I keep myself slightly guarded these days as a self defense mechanism. Are you patient enough to crack through my shell?
I love music, art, and reading. I am a full time parent to a young child. I am the crazy cat lady with three feline familiars. I follow many of the ideas of the Wiccan religion.
Just to repeat, I am the mother of a young child (five years old) and she is my priority. I will NOT expose her to my lifestyle choices and this is one thing that NOT NEGOTIABLE.
I am illegal drug and disease free. I do not smoke and I am allergic to smoke. I am a social drinker. I do enjoy sweet wine like Rosso and Moscato.
I am just who I am and that will not change, but out there, there is a match for everyone as they stand.
I seek a strong, dominant man who is, above all, honest and loving. This man knows exactly what he wants and just how to get it. This man has a plan in life and knows how to put it in motion. He is caring, romantic, and playful, but rules with a firm hand.
I need to be kept on a tight, short leash. I am a very needy attention whore that does not do well with being ignored or unused for long.
I appreciate my opinions to be heard and respected, but understand and fully give final say to the dominant man who has earned my trust and submission.
My goal is to service and please my Dominant. Keeping him happy is what makes me happy. Him seeing me happy, also pleases him. It is a reciprocal circle.
I am a romantic and I love to cuddle and kiss. I also love to be restrained and enjoy the wresting fight to get me there. There are just so many facets to me that need to be fulfilled.
I believe a woman's role is to be a lady in public and to be as her dominant wishes behind closed doors.... be that in the bedroom or any where private.
I believe a submissive is a true treasure to her dominant, to be loved and cared for... and with that she will give of her submission. This is gained through mutual trust and built within many layers of a relationship.
My wish and need is for my life to appear fairly vanilla to the outside world and my family.
This space is far too small to go into many details and scenarios of all the what if's. Many different details unfold within a relationship over time.
I am looking to meet new people and see what is out there in the real world of this lifestyle. I would enjoy a chance to get to know others. This does not mean I "play" with everyone I meet.
I am fairly new to this world compared to most out there.
In the end, my goal is a long term relationship but I understand that takes time to find and build.
With that... if you would like to message me, feel free. I am real, open, and honest. I am fully aware that these are rare qualities on this website.
I am not here to play games and I honestly don't have time for bullshit in my life. Other serious, like-minded people would agree with that.
I have pictures available. I choose not to put them on my profile because I feel getting to know someone is just as important as the physical attraction.
Be able to prove who you are! No bullshit, no liars.... lets not waste anyone's time. I have been down that road and I am over it.
If you have read this far, and you are real.... you will ask me what my favorite flower is.
Taken from the profile of LordDark7117
"As inspired by friend: One question, one chance, one honest answer. You can ask me one question (TO MY INBOX ONLY!). Any question, anything, no matter how crazy, dirty or wrong it is. No catch. But I dare you to post this on your status and see what people ask you!... My dare done! Now I dare you."
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I am currently off the market, no longer searching. |
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I have, once again, turned to my hobby of reading BDSM fiction books. Truly amazing and wonderful. It keeps that fire roaring that ignited in me so long ago. Well, at least it will help keep me interested until my matched Master comes along into my life.
So, anyone have any good titles to suggest that I read? |
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I have a suggestion....
How about instead of complaining about all the fakes, spammers, and frauds... everyone just referred to the site where people can list the fakes?
Will CM even let me refer to the site in my journal?
http://collarmefakewatch.blogspot.com/ |
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feisty : a bit of a sarcastic smart ass on a respectable level with a great sense of humor and fire in her heart.
trouble : things a feisty one does to get the attention she needs |
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I am finally back in Southern California after a seven year break. It is good to be home and time to find my true self along with my happy.
Along the way, during my move, I took a pretty good fall and damaged my right knee pretty bad and hurt my left knee as well. This has left me currently unable to be on my knees at all. Hopefully they will heal but for right now, it is a limitation I have to deal with. |
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Be straight up, be blunt, be honest. Be real, be yourself.
We all know that part of what we are after is a sexual connection in this world, but can people just get to know each other first?
I am a submissive. I like my ass spanked. I enjoy my vanilla life outside the realm of the kinky world.
I am really not into extremes.
Don't fuck with me and don't lead me on. There is no time in this life for bullshit.
So how hard is it to find a real Dominant man who is firm, loving, fun, witty, caring, playful, and strong but can handle a feisty, playful, intelligent redheaded smart ass? My fire needs to be contained, not extinguished.
I am not a doormat! I am a submissive and my submission is strong! |
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I love the urban dictionary.....
Brat:
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A relatively recent development in the BDSM community, a brat is a woman who suggests she is ripe for a submissive sexual encounter, but diliberately and flagrantly torment prospective doms.
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This has been posted all over, but it is a good read.....
Submissive's Creed
i am a Submissive Woman.
i find pleasure, joy, and fulfillment from being submissive to another in a loving relationship.
i am not weak, or stupid. i am a strong woman, with firm views and a clear concept of what i want out of my life.
i do not serve out of shame or weakness, but out of pride and strength.
i look to my loving Master for guidance and protection, for never am i more complete than when He is with me.
i know that He will protect my body, my mind, and my soul with His strength and wisdom.
He is everything to me, as i am everything to Him. His touch awakens me and His thoughts free me.
Only in serving Him do i find complete freedom and joy.
His punishments are harsh, but i accept them thankfully, knowing that He has my best interests always foremost in His mind.
If He desires my body for pleasure, i shall joyfully give it to Him, and take pleasure myself from knowing that I have brought Him happiness.
However, the pleasure of the flesh is but one facet of any relationship.
The love, the trust and sharing, the words spoken and felt, those are all parts of this relationship.
My body is His, and if He says i am beautiful, then i am. No matter what I look like to others, i am beautiful in His eyes, and because of that i hold my head high... ...for who can tell me that my Master is wrong in seeing the beauty in me?
If He says i am His princess, then i am that...regal and graceful.
And if i see laughter at me in the eyes of others, I do not recognize it, for who are they to call my Master wrong?
If He says i am his toy, his slut, his tramp, then i am that...as wanton and dirty as He wants me to be, and if others do not see
this, then it is they who are blind, not my Master.
My mind is His, to expand, to explore, to know as only he can. i have no secrets from Him...for secrets are a thing that would keep me from being more perfectly His.
Secrets would put a wall up between my Master and myself...and i do not want walls.
His lessons are not always ones i would seek on my own, but they are lessons He has decided i need, and so i learn from Him.
My soul is His, as bare to His touch as ever my skin could be when
i kneel naked at His feet.
Never a moment goes by when i do not feel His presence, be He miles away or standing over me.
If i were to ever displease Him, His displeasure would be a blow to my soul, worse punishment than any lashes could be.
The anguish of my soul that I feel when i disappoint Him is harder to bear than the physical anguish i feel when His belt caresses me with fire.
i spend my days knowing that the energy and thought He puts into our relationship is as much for my benefit as for His, and look forward to each lovingly crafted scene that W/we do together.
His part is much harder than mine, and i know this and am grateful that He cares enough about me to spend His time and energy so freely on me.
i have the easier job: to feel, to experience, to let myself go and abandon everything to Him.
i am His pleasure and His responsibility, and He takes both seriously.
i am a submissive woman. i am proud to call myself that.
my submission is a gift that i do not give lightly, and can only be given to One who can appreciate that gift and return it tenfold.
Only to He who has that strength will i give myself fully, because i am strong and proud.
i am a submissive woman. always on my knees
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Don't make someone your priority if you are only their option! |
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Why is it that so many people, male and female, feel the need to show off their naked bits and pieces in their profile. Am I the only one who thinks a nice face shot or full body clothed shot is a much better way to start off meeting someone? Pictures of your naked bits can always be sent later. I find it more attractive to get to know someone first.
To the men......How about this thought... the camera add ten pounds, right? So the cock you may be showing off may look bigger than it really is.... LOL!
And what about people who only have pictures of other people up on their profile? Or other people in sexual positions? I suppose it is freedom of expression.... so have at it but it doesn't do a thing for me! :)
I don't even have pictures up at all, but I can provide them..... crazy world we live in.
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Love this song....
So many people gonna say that they want you,
To try to get you thinking they really care,
But there's nothing like the warmth of the one
who has put in the time and you know is gonna be there,
Back your border when she knows someone crossed it,
Don't let nobody put you down, who your with
Take the pain of protecting your name,
from the crutch to the cane to the highwire
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