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fieryshadow

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About fieryshadow

I know I work hard at what I do. I also know that I long for more out of life. I want to serve someone. I want to find someone who is meant for me. I know that it is idealistic, but I still belive my dreams will come true. I want a man who can be strong, but not overbearing, someone who is willing to understand my needs, my past and my situation, and work with me. Right now i really am just seeking friends. i know i could lose some weight, however, it should stop people from being friends. if it does it was your loss any way. Submission is a gift not something taken by force. No one can control anyone else without first controling themselves, and second without leading the other person and teaching them to crave the control. a person can not give control up unless they first truely have the control in their grasps and secondly if they do not see the leadership in the one they give it up to.

each day we find or lose more and more of ourselfs.  one day we will come to learn the truth about us.  i was told 4 years ago, that i had already learned what it took most 10 more years to find out. now today i feel more lost then i ever was  4 years ago.  i am filled with doubt and uncertainity.  and wondering about myself.  but most importantly i dont know how to find the answers out within myself.
as each passing day comes more knowledge about others.  there are more drama queens and fake players in the world then there are real people.  life is about finding your dreams.  each day i look and wonder what happened to mine.  then i remember i am not barbie.  but then i have to smile.  because i know...i am me.  i may have my issues, and my self doubt, and my concerns, and my past to face, but i am me.  and if someone cant be around me for me not being a barbie figure, then by all means let them go.  they dont need me and surely deserve better.  I am smart, and pretty, and worthy. 

As I life life i understand less and less.  more people want to play games and are enthrawled with the idea of bossing someone around then they are with understanding Dom/sub.  Take each day as it comes.  The one thing that i have learned is i am me.  i cant be someone else.  and either i am liked for me, or i am not.  but it doesnt change. 

Hello,
this is my first time being here.  im not sure what to do.  in fact this is the first real venture i have had back into the lifestyle since my ex.  it is a scary place, but the bridge has been burned, and a new one built and i have steped across it.  i am not healed.  i have a past but i am learning about me and the past in preparation for the future. 
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