I know I work hard at what I do. I also know that I long for more out of life. I want to serve someone. I want to find someone who is meant for me. I know that it is idealistic, but I still belive my dreams will come true. I want a man who can be strong, but not overbearing, someone who is willing to understand my needs, my past and my situation, and work with me. Right now i really am just seeking friends. i know i could lose some weight, however, it should stop people from being friends. if it does it was your loss any way. Submission is a gift not something taken by force. No one can control anyone else without first controling themselves, and second without leading the other person and teaching them to crave the control. a person can not give control up unless they first truely have the control in their grasps and secondly if they do not see the leadership in the one they give it up to.