I am no longer new to this game however there is always so much more to learn. I have joined local bdsm clubs and have been mentored by some very kind people. Both Dom and sub.

Many play at being a Dom but what does it take to be one? Doms are not always right and many are cruel, selfish, inexperienced or "wanna be's". More important a strong master knows when to listen and not ignore or dismiss a sub. One must first master themselves before they can begin to master another.

I am a strong personality and have seen much of the world and life however I truly enjoy being submissive in the bedroom, within reason. I suppose the correct lingo would be that I am a 'bottom'. I am open minded and willing to explore, even though I now have a few scenarios/hardlines I would never be interested in e.g. Cutting, serious burning, eating shit.

I am not looking for a 'fling'. I can enjoy those adventures at the club. I would enjoy having someone to share my journey with me.

As my profile indicates, I am no longer a spring chicken and am not looking to have a realationship with someone who could be my son. I am looking for a male who is over 5' 10" and over 45. I also would prefer someone who has travelled and seen a bit of the world so that when we are having 'down' times we might have something to discuss other than the local whether or sports.

If this sounds like you, I would enjoy hearing from you.