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	About enchantme Hello Everyone, tis enchantme back to see how everyone is doing. I see it was time for me to update my profile and i have a few rules for those who wish to converse with me. First off, My little one was born on 9/11/05 and i am a happy mom to a beautiful sweet little girl. I am not looking to relocate anytime soon, and when i feel i am ready for a collar or to give one, I WILL MAKE IT KNOWN. Right now i am back to find friends and see whats new in the Lifestyle. i have begun fetish modeling, and have found it to be very fun and exciting, so if your interested in photography, we might have something in commen. I know that i seek a submissive lifestyle. I am just not seeking at this time! please feel free to message me, and we can talk and build a friendship, from there who knows what might happen!

Hello all you SEXY people!!! Just wanted to update a few things, i was finally able to get into this account! grrr that took forever! I have MOVED and I now live in LAS VEGAS NV!!!! aslo since i was unable to open this account I opened a new one under theonlyenchantme So if you have done as i have requested and checked out this profile, then you will now know not to ask me if i am currently in Florida... hahaha. Missed you all so much! Happy to be back!

Still a romantic at heart.... Wanting my Dom in shining armor to come wisk me away... smiles.... whispering sweet naughty commands into my ear, all the things a lil girl wants to hear! giggles.... Wow its been a while since i have signed in here... I have mised all of my friends!

So it is time to add new things to this journal... An update if you will.
I am now 30, my daughter is now 3 soon to be 4, and as i am not looking i always seek friends... If things develop into more than friends iam fine with that as well... smiles...

Happy Fathers Day To all you Daddie's!!!

Happy Mothers Day to all the Mommies!!!! smiles...

**FIRSTOFF**
I just wanted to thank all the WONDERFUL people who have come by and given me words of wisdomeand shoulders to lean on! there is a reason that I concider this part of my family! I am greatful for the new friends i have made during this as well...
I just wanted to report the i can breath a little eaiser than what i was the last few weeks...
Im ready to start a new term with school and im ready to tackle the new tasks ahead of me head on!
HOWEVER im still only seeking friends, all that good stuff comes later... :D

you know i just have the absolute need to just write....im so damn depressed i cant see straight, and someone who wants to get to know me and "spend time with me" i reach out to and say, im really just not ok right now, and wouldnt it just be nice to have someone care enough to just listen? I dont need anyone to take care of me or to fix me, just to listen once in awhile would be really nice!!! Im doing great in school but that is about the only area that i am ok in. everything else is just gone. It just is, and yeah im sure ill get it together again and pul through, I ALWAYS do, and what is worse(isuppose its really better) is i always make it on my own, nd not even with an encouraging word. Tell me how i am supposed to have so many "friends" when they cant even just be around to only LISTEN. And also, recently my heart was broken again, its so hard to understand men... can anyone tell me what the lines below really mean:

Its not you, its me...
Your amazing, and you have changed me for the better, and your one hell of a woman, but im sorry your not worth waiting for... WHAT THE HELL DOES THAT MEAN????? i cant take it anymore... im over it, i dont want anyone at all... PLATONIC FRIENDS ONLY , and NO IT HAS NO POSSIBILITY OF DEVELOPING INTO MORE for once again i allowed it to develop, all for him to find another woman, EVERY DAMN MAN I HAVE EVER TAKEN AN INTEREST IN... It cant be them, it has to be ME! btw i finished another term, and although the last two weeks were spent in shutdown mode, i went from a 4.0 to a 3.96 but hey thats still an A in my book. damn im good! broken but still good...

You know i have always tried to be patient and understanding... I have never been one to share, so when it has come down to my little one going to her fathers, it has been very hard. I cant seem to concentrait on school and everything about my home life is so miserable that i just want to be burried inmy books. I suppose this makes for a great reason to have this 4.0 but you know somedays i just wish family would call and say, hey are you ok? i know your daughter is far away, do you need some comfort or distraction? ANYTHING!!! this is suppose to be my family who cares about me, and how come when they are in pain i feel it and i share it with them but when i am in pain i am ignored, or discarded because i cant possibly feel the way they do. It hurts to not have support, its hard enough as it is being a single mother, but when the father comes back around and WANTS to be in the childs life, and i accpet because my parents divorced and they had to share and i see nothing wrong with encouraging a relationship between my child and her father, im thrown to the wolves, cast out as a black sheep, for doing what i have known my whole life??? i will never understand, so now i will just hurt. Please forgive my shortness, somedays this pain is pverwhelming, not even the deepest masochist could endure this wanting and willingly...

REst in Peace George Carlin, You were a legend in you own time!

******Another 4.0 GPA!!! yea me!!!******

Happy Mothers Day to all the beautiful Mothers here! love you lots!

Good evening! For those who know me, i wish to give you my most current update on my endevors. i am attending college, and after completeing my first term i have accomplished a 4.0 GPA. im very happy to say the least! So those who have been trying to get my attention, I HAVE BEEN VERY BUSY. Please have patience with me, being a single mommy and a full time student is NOT easy. i never expected life to be easy, but please keep in mind all i have requested here is friends. I have not asked anyone to be my Dom/Master or sub/slave. while i show interest by writing to you, dont assume it is because i want more than a friendship. We will discuss that when the time comes for more than friends. Its hard enough finding time to spend with FRIENDS, let alone to make time for a relationship, Right now i dont even have time for myself.

I have recently offended... this is not who i am, i dont feel like myself lately. When stress bounds over me i tend to retreat. Not so i can hide or run away, but so i can look a t the big picture. I was recently asked if i felt now is a good time to "date" And if now was a good time to "meet someone new" I said no, because i need to reconstruct myself, and i am currently in the process. Perhaps i should have disclosed my issues, but i can be a private erson about some things. My financial status is no ones concern but my own, and I dont want to come off as some others here do, i dont seek what you hold in monitary value, If i cant create it on my own, then i cant expect you to scoop me up and wsk all my terrible striefs away. This is not me. I would rather struggle and accomplish on my own, then for anyone to take pitty on me. For those of you who do know me, i have gone back to school, and i am doing all i can to make my life better, for myself as well as my child. I am here for friends, i cant give much of anything to anyone, besides my friendship so, please understand, i only have myself to give. Right now, i cant give myself, because i am busy giving to myself.

Glad to be back for a short time, hope you stop by and say hello to me! kisses and hugs to all my friends! i missed you all!

OK SOME A**HOLE stole my phone, so if you ahev my number, please call me tomorrow so that i may replace yours! and message me if you have the old non working number from last year so that we may update that as well... Thanks Angie

I am another year older today... I wonder if it will make me any wiser... I wish all of my wonderful friends here on CM were local to spend this evening with me! but you will all be here in spirit! Have a wonderful day.... HAPPY HOLIDAYS! kisses and hugs and lots of love!

Here we go! the new list of RULES for engagement of conversations with me. If you have a BLANK profile i will not accept your chat invites, i have been honest and posted all you need to know about me at a glance. It is only proper that i know something about you. A picture is not required, but if i ask, send it! Mine are displayed. also, do not message me with you have too many rules, i have a simple few. I am human and a person i demand respect, as i give it to you, do not think i am beneath recieveing it. I will simply not talk to you. Do not demand that i converse with you, as it is my choice to do so if i am invited. i will accept or decline, but i will be fair about it and let you know either way. And do not think that just because i am submissive i must obey YOU, i am not owned and of my OWN FREE WILL. i am a strong headed person, and i am strong willed, but i am soft and kind and conciderate, ONCE AGAIN I AM NOT SEEKING! SO STOP ASKING ME TO BE YOUR SLAVE. I will be happy to talk with you and learn of OUR interests, and entertain the notion of possibly more. Thank you all, the one and ONLY enchantme

HAPPY THANKSGIVING EVERYONE!

Be happy and feel blessed, make sure to look at everyone around you, no matter how little they may be in your life, there is a reason and a purpose for them being there. Rememeber what you have and try not to think of what you dont have, for all that you do have is a blessing. i know i am. :)

i have begun fetish modeling! the pictures look great and i am a happy girl! i am asking exclusive people to view them before i post anything, please do not ask to see them, ill ask You.

i am making my way back to the land of the strong, slowly but surley... Although this road, like that of many others, is one of broken asphalt and major potholes (i should speak to the powers that be about this) and my car seems to keep geeting flt tires... hmmm... taxpayers dollars... err submissive taxes... err emotional taxes... ok so its all about being waxed... one way or another. i mean taxed... lol at least my humor is still there. be well all. feel free to send me a message, im happy to reply!

Its been ROUGH these past few weeks, If you are in my personal life and we talk off CM, then you already know what is going on. I will be leaving for a few, not that i want to but FAMILY ranks over romance...

It seems to me all i want is no where near me. i know my heart desires one to surrender to. My everyday life has the stern control of being motherly and "head of the House" How nice it would be to find a sensual Dom to surrender to. One i can pamper and relax after a hard day. Sadly for me, the only ones who are interested in me are across the country. What i seek is not a life too far for me to live. Online and phone relationships are not for me. I would much rather hold one close to me, rather than wish i was being held and waiting for HIM to come or send for me. It does me nothing to continue to wait. I feel as though i have no patience anymore. I am going to part from Collarme for a while, i am so unhappy with my lack of a person near me, i figure i might just settle for a vanillla life. THIS SUCKS

Isnt it funny how one can say there are too many rules??? does anyone else think i have too many rules? i only have two, my daughter comes first is number one. Number two, is if you want respect from me, you better give me respect. I dont think that is too hard to do. AS FAR as LIMITS go, When i am ready to find one to either be collared by, or to collar, ill let my limits be known to that person. FOR NOW I AM ONLY LEARNING< NOT LOOKING!

I see its been a moment since i have posted here on my journal... I am happy at home being a mother to my Sweet lil one, however it has left me little time to myself and what i desire in my life. I would never give up my oppertunity to be the kind of mother i am. I am so blessed to be able to be a wok at home mother...
I did however get to travel for work to the great state of Ca last month. I went to the Monterey area and i have to say i do miss it already. It was very beautiful and serene there. I also noticed the impressive BDSM community thriving in that area! I know if i have the oppertunity to travel there for pleasure i will notice so much more!
Its nice to know that people actually do care about complete stangers. Thank you to all who knew me not, and yet cared enough to lend me there ears and eyes for comfort since the loss of my beloved Popa...

The pain that has entered my heart this last month was more than i could bare. To watch my loved ones around me, shatter in an instant when the passing of my papa, My sister simply, is hurt so deep and in her heart her father she keeps. I know this pain, as i have been here before, when my father passed, so long ago. I cant think of what to do or where to stand, and all i can do is take my little ones hand, and walk her down memory lane and relive Popa's life again.

For my photos only for my friends i have reactivated this profile... not accepting new messages at this time so please do not send them in reguards to being collared or seeking one either, as i am not interested!

Things are changing rapidly!!! please if You want to talk to me and You have my number, call me... i wont be here for a while and i think i have all i need!!! i love it when i am a happy girl! take care all and be well!!!

Hello Everyone! i am happy to say that i think i have all that i need for now. i am happy in my environment and my elements around me. i am happy with my daily conversations and my little bit of sanity that i get from time to time. wishing all of you are well and happy!

Ok a new rules for the new year!
****Please do not make me sad, i dont like the thought of getting to know someone, only to find...please read the following:****

I DO NOT want ANYONE who is attached to someone vanilla or not! I AM A JEALOUS GIRL and do not tolerate such behavior. I would not cheet on One who i am with, Nor will i allow another to cheet with me on anyone else. I am a FIRM believer in karma and i am not about to start this year off bad. Secondly i must also say I am not into extreme taboo... so lets not even go there ok? to all the rest, Happy New Year and may wonderful things and events Bless You all!!!

Merry Christmas to all, and a Joyous Holiday Season. I am thinking of everyone of You out there. be well and take care,and have lots of fun!

***checks the calancer to make sure its NOT sping already***
Damn cleaning.... You know, going back to work has its ups and its downs.... I went back to a complete mess, the trazzo flores are ruined, the walls are full of dirst (combination of dust and dirt) and i dont even want to talk about the science lab in the fridge...( the science project turned into a lab)... None the Less, I love a challenge!

* rubs head and ears hurting and in pain* Damn winter colds and damn those sinus infections!

For those of you that I speak wih on a regular basis, sorry for not being around... Life has called me back to work and the end of maternity leave! I am missing my little one like the desert misses the rain, but all is good. I have found it is a bit eaiser to just type it all here.With the holidays here and my birthday as well I look forwad to all those parties and get togethers with my friends. This time of year shows me how happy i am to be loved by so moany. I do hope that all of you have someone special to be with this holiday season, for life is short and way too short to not love or be loved by others! So if you find Your standards are too high and Your all alone, come down from that high horse and realize we are all just people tring to make it in the same world as You... As for me, i have known love and i have felt love and i look forward to loving again!( just not ready to love tomorrow though keep in mind, im still only looking for friends!) Be well All this holiday season, and know that I love all of you no matter how good or bad you are...and i mean bad in a good way;)! and there is at least one who loves you than you are doing better than most who just wished there was at least one who cared. Be well...enchant

i have almost surrivived what i concider to be the worst day of the year for me, as 12 yrs ago my father passed away.
To take my mind off the pain of having a little one that i will never have the joy of havign a picture of her with him, i do what comes naturally and best, i bake! Today i made pizzelles( i call them spitzels) ( and i DO not like them) bread, fudge, and soon to make chocolate chunk cookies... yes i bake from scratch and no you cant use my goods as a hammering device to nail in the hooks for suspension lines... they will crumble. (the goods). Tomorrow i hope to take a break from the cookin to get some much needed R&R :D and then tomorrow night back to the cookin.... any requests? and i need a taste tester, but only by invite! hehe, ( im skeered someone might really like the way i cook and then im in trouble!) hehehe . So when things get you down do something you like to do, tie someone up, give a spanking, recieve a spankin( i like to recieve and give ;)) clean, have sex, or cook... :) be well and take care!

There is something about the feel of His fingers in my hair, close to the back of my neck, The tight pull that brings me closer to His body. The feeling of my heart pounding as i beg for approval, As i beg for His touch. there is something about feeling His strong arms holding me, comforting me, squeezing me. There is something to be said about the One who can gain my mind, who can gain my trust, and who will recieve my gift.

There is something about they way he looks down at My feet. His eyes lowered untill I allow him to gaze upon Me. The desire he holds to Make me happy, as I restrict his movement, to do with him as I please. Something to be said about the boy next to me, who aches and pines for My approval, longing for My touch and then the sweet release he feels as I gain his trust. My hand that lays firmly across his rear, leaving that warm red glow, such a beautiful sight, as he asks, "Mistress may i lay next to you tonight"

One day I will find what it s that makes me complete, be it by My side, or me at His feet... Oh how the days grow long, that i have not found my one, but untill that day, my work must be done...

From Today on... if You decide to send Me a hello, or what ever, DO NOT AsK me what I want...READ my profile, it tells ALL.
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?Today was a very tring day, more stress and chaos than I could ever want. I had so much tension with my little one being sick, and people who dont know what they seek or just dont bother to read what is right in front of them... I want to make it clear to all, If we have already started conversation this does not pertain to you, I am only seeking friends and Mentors.

Oh how the desire of wanting grows, to be accepted and approved of,
i can feel it down to my toes.
My want is a need that aches to be fullfilled,
to know i am certain, it comes straight from my will.
My heart it pounds just to hear the words,
My lips they ache to feel that touch.
My mind begs for that sweet release, to feel that sweet surrendered peace.
How i want to have my One, who also accepts my little one.
To know deep down that i am His, For Him to know, how i crave His kiss, How i want to feel His touch, to show always that He has my Trust... to be compleated, mind, body, and soul, untill i find this, i cannot be whole....

Thanksgiving turned out better than I thought it would. Even though I worked, and missed Dinner with the Family, I still spent half the day with them, and then after work I wentout with some nilla friends (which turned out more interesting than watching a one armed man in a clapping contest)
Funny thing about those nilla friends...
I was thinking about something while I was out with them...and I always have been a watcher... I like to sit back and look at everything around me and take it all in. Sometimes I can even sit and watch a group long enough to discover who plays what role and doesnt even recognize it.Since I opened my eyes to this lifestyle and realized it is very much part of everyones life, as ther is always a dominant and submissive role to be played put every day, be it work, school, or play.
My friends know of my opinion on D/s and know that I am very much into this lifestyle, they are supportive and inquisitive, asking about different types of play and techniques, and tools.
Nothing ceases to amaze me!

If you are married, and your spouce does not approve of you being with others, do not contact me for service, giving, or recieving, as marriage to me is sacred between two people and honesty is the key to life, if you dont believe in that, move on, im not for you...

I woke up this morning and got out from under my feather down blankee and when my feet hit the tile floor it took my breath away.... for living in my beautiful WARM state, it sure was DAMN cold.... My eyes were still not very open as i stumbled to the machine i usually get angry with, and checked my morning mail. Things seemed to be off to a slow start, when my phone started ringing, changing my thanksgiving day plans...Damn sometmes i really hate workin in healthcare. Im supposed to work 12 hours and from what i thought to be from 7am-7pm, still giving me time to make it to my familys late dinner at 8 pm... Now it looks like im going to miss dinner all together, and not even getting it with my daughter. This year i was really thankful that i had her, and everything about her is perfect. For One like myself who was diagnosed and told would never bare children this year i was blessed, and for sure had something good to say at our pre-dinner toast... *hangs her head* Damn im upset now. Today is not the day for additude, so if you have some to give, take it elsewhere.

Today was a vey good day, it started off really busy and hectic, and i thought i would never get through the morning. Wouldnt you know it carried me right on through the morning and most of the afternoon, until i realized it was almost 3 o'clock... then the day got better,MUCH better :) now im a happy girl...

?Isnt that strange how a day can be so busy and stressful and something like a simple hello can make that stress disapear? i think the same about smiles, one smile can send the world into a domino effect and before you know it, everyone is smiling :)

As I was browsing through the ads as I normally do, scoping out whos new and who I can learn from, I passed an ad where a Dom was unhappy about those on here "not looking" or already collared... this brings me to write this entry baised on this particular ad.

I happen to be one of these "subs" that is not looking at the moment for anything more than friends, and I dont think it should matter if I am seeking or not. I, like many others have good reason to not be ready for " a collar" right now, due to the fact that I just had a child and I need to know that I will have time to give another, but I missed the site so much when I found out I was pregnant that I had to come back shortly before my little one was born. More than just missing the site I missed the lifestyle.

I do understand the frusteration in searching for someone only to find a bunch of taken or not seeking, on a site designed to allow people to meet and "be collared". even if I were seeking a collar at this time, I am smart enough to develope a relationship with One before meeting them. Even if this takes six months in conversation via telephone and internet, before making the first visit. And believe me, if I make you wait that long until I am comfortable, it would be worth the wait. Life is too short to be careless and I for one am not ready to make a careless decision that could endanger my wellbeing.
he other hand it is difficult to find one when so many are taken, however there are plenty here who are not taken, and are seeking. It just takes time to sort them out so the moral of todays post is: be patient, good things come to those who wait!

***** The Pics are In!!!! *****

Great news my new pics have been approved and i am a happy girl... now on to the question at hand. I have been offered to get a hair cut, it would go to a wonderful cause, however i am kind of attached to my hair. I am opening a poll. please let me know if a short cut would be good, or NO DONT CUT IT! looking forward to the results!

More Pics Comming Soon!!!

I am happy to announce that i will be posting more pics will be here in days(as soon as they are approved)

I am also enjoying many of the conversations that i am having, however if you have recieved my yahoo messenger addy, and you notice i am comming and going frequently, its because YAHOO SUCKS and it keeps logging off. for anyone else who is unhappy that i dont talk with you EVERY day or EVERY FEW HOURS, its because i have a newborn and my time is short. I am a single mother and a new mother at that. IF YOU STILL DONT UNDERSTAND THAT THEN DONT BOTHER.
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???????Do you know who I am?

?Do you care to find out? Do you have the patience to deal with and understand my life right now belongs to another leaving very little time for you? Does it matter to me if you dont understand? No it does not. It is my place and will to tell you what i want you to know, not your right to know it.?
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?????????Are you able to open your ears and not only hear what i say but Listen to the words that come out?
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?? If this is something you cannot do or are unwilling to do, then I am not for you.ina very real sense I need one who will LISTEN and not only hear the

Something new.... I wish to make all of you aware that voradorslil1 is my sister... We do not scene together, nor will we do so for your pleasure... the two of us have several friends here and the chances of you talking to both of us is very possible(as we both have come to find) we are rather close and share expirences with eacother and help to answer questions that we might have.. My sister has shown me a lot here as well as giving me the information to this site, and even though we are close, we do not share. We dont get mad that somone is talking to both of us either, as it has been a common thing. so for those of you out there who have spoke with us both, please be aware that although we love eachother, we are not going to sleep with eachother! lol its so funny that one would think of that, allow me to now ask the question, would you sleep with your sister?

You know I have come across many profiles that all say the same thing and I agree it is very rude not to reply to a message that has been sent to you. After all, with all the people on this site, and someone took the time to read your profile and liked what they seen. Then after the time was taken to muster up the courage and write to you, some have the lack of respect and understanding what it might have took to rouse up that courage, and not respond, even to say, no im not interested.Now in my concern, im only looking for friends, so i dont really care if you respond or not, but if we engage in conversation, and things seem to be going well wouldnt it be nice to say you know this just isnt what im looking for,or its not working for me? Then ending the conversations? Doesnt this go back to elementry basics of learning respect??Perhaps its just me...

Lactation! the wonderful flow of Milk! it does a body good! hehehe !!!!!!!

I am happy to be meeting people and attempting to get to know everyone whom I converse with. I am a Switch and enjoy BOTH relms of D/s. If you are a sub/slave seeking My attention, when I ask you a question about what you are looking for, to keep my interest, you must give me a detailed discription. If you are a Dom/Domme i will answer you in detail. Right now i have made it clear as to why i am back here, and That I will make it known when i am ready to Look for that of which will complete me. Right now as i left before it is because of this new life i am creating, and most of my time will be dedicated to her. I am back because my life is not complete without the D/s world, but right now at this moment in time, i do not have time to devote to a Dom or a sub, in the fashion of which we all seek. This does not mean i do not want friends, and perhaps more, but being so close to what is about to happen makes it difficult to just get up and run to everyone who says hello. If you cannot understand this, then just dont message me. I am not interested in anyone who wants to meet after short series of one line messages. I am not a foolish or stupid person, I seek Safe Sane and Consenting adults who are honest and not just looking for a fuck, lets be honest in saying, ANYONE can be fucked, and I am FAR from JUST ANYONE.

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