9/14/2008 3:43:27 PM

I guess I've been a bit misunderstood.  When I refer to Anna, "the love of my life", we're not in a sexual relationship, sportsfans.  We're just best friends that play sometimes. Regarding the uses of the words slut/bitch: I'm not a slut. I don't like being called a slut or a bitch (though the latter does apply rarely!).  If you treat me right and care for me, I may get comfortable enough with you to be *your* slut. But so you know, boys and girls- you are pitching in the wrong field if you email me calling me a bitch or a slut. Also- while I get many emails applauding my profile/blog entries (for being strong, intelligent, etc.), I do get an occasional email bashing me and saying I need to "learn my place". I'm not just looking for sex or a play partner. If I'm playing with someone, I'm usually in a relationship with them.  And I *do* have standards in a relationship.  I'm a submissive, and I am proud of it.  I have the right to be just as choosy about Dominants, and have the same expectations, as you do in your own relationships. I'm romantic- I love to buy/make people presents, surprise them, and just do sweet things- and yes, I'm looking for someone to do that for me.  That doesn't make me a snob, and it doesn't mean I "haven't learned my place". I have the same right to happiness as all of you "Doms" that have sent me rude emails do, and I have the right to look for what makes me happy- even if you don't feel it should. The right person will get just as much of a kick out of giving/receiving as I do, and will find that aspect of my personality delightful. If you don't, that's fine- have your own relationships, and don't email me. I'm not going to change my mind, and I'm not going to apologize for expecting respect, intelligence, and compassion. That is all!

11/2/2007 11:41:16 PM

So, I originally joined this site to find the 'love of my life'. Looking for love in all the wrong places? Perhaps. But you know what? I *have* found her! The love of my life- and her name is Anna. Sites like this are often associated with bad cyber sex, players, or people just looking to get laid.  I found something priceless on here that I never thought I'd find- my best friend Anna. I don't know about you, but "friends" aren't exactly what I came on here to find- but even if I never find the right guy (on here, or in general), making a profile here was one of the best decisions of my life. I'm laying in bed next to Anna now, as she sleeps. No, fellow perverts, we didn't have sex. She's a sub. It just amazes me that I could find someone that I love so dearly on this site.  She lives several states away, which proves that even distance can be conquered. So, here's to Anna- thank you for being my best friend. You are my angel. "Because I knew you...I have been changed for good."

1/11/2007 8:01:37 PM

I'm sick of Doms. No. I'll rephrase. I'm sick of Dums. And sick of Dims. A Dum is someone that is an ass intentionally (i.e., the type that sends you a message like "hi i wanna subbie do u wnat 2 be mine", and turns into an ass when you reply with something like "You obviously didn't read my profile." Also, the type of Dom that gets what they want from you, then ditches you. Or the type that pulls a disappearing act. Or the type that does not respect the gift you've given them, treats you like crap, and jerks you around like a toy. DUMS = BAD. Now- Dims are different. Dims are the ones who genuinely believe they have good intentions, but really have no idea what's going on. "I have 4 years experience in the lifestyle" means that you experienced it in *real life*. Pligger, nease. Cyber relationships DO. NOT. COUNT. I'm not talking about people who meet online and chat to become friends or eventually meet in real life. I'm talking about the Dims who 'collar' someone over the internet. NOT POSSIBLE. NOT LEGIT. It's completely demeaning to the people who understand the power of a real collar and the connection between two people. How you could even claim to have the same thing over the computer is beyond me. And while we're on the subject- NO!!!! I WILL NOT HAVE CYBER SEX WITH YOU!!! Dims also include the emails such as "i want a girl to love and take care of", because I *know* you send that to every prospective sub, and I *know* that you didn't read my profile! You didn't get past the photo because you were probably too busy jerking off to read. And all of those men who say something like "i want a  little painslut to clean my house and pay my bills and suck me off and be treated like a pig and eat my shit"- Congratulations! You are both a Dom AND a Dim at the same time! Hey, go drink bleach! For the record- I'm not a toy, gentleman. If you're going to fuck with my head and emotions, please go play in traffic.