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Male Dominant, 42
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Male Dominant, 24, Elkhart, Indiana
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Male Submissive, 27, cairo
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About elkhartdom
I have over 30 years experience in the lifestyle, I am proficient in most aspects of it. I seek a good sub/slave, to not only serve, but to share life with me. All any Master can offer is a good home with a good life, for a good partner. Age is not a big factor, height weight proportional if you please, I take care of myself, hopefully you do also. d/d free, open experimental, Compromise is the key to life, dont miss it.I am elkhartdom, here and at yahoo, so lets talk a bit, and see if we cant make things work. I love road trips, historical settings, role play, bdsm in general, bondage, and pleasing .I offer nothing more than a great life for the right person who can dedicate to me, has opinions,needs the control and wants a good stable life with no work outside the home.I offer protection, a good life, a good home, and stability. I will make first contact after you messenger me, but do not expect me to chase. A few rules first to follow, 1. Height weight proportional 2. Honest, open and experimental 3. little or no baggage 4. few or no limits 5. seeking a life partner 6. Willing to relocate as I just bought this place 7. Wanting a great life with a great guy, who is as dom as you like, and still has compassion, understanding, and cares. If you have the will I have the power, lets talk you and I, and see if we just cant make it work. |
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happy new year all, still searching, im sure this year will be the one where my special shows herself |
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'Twas the night before Christmas, when all through the domain, Not a subbie was stirring, (they were tied down with chain) The shackles were hung by the chimney with care, And the St. Andrews cross stood empty and bare.
The subbies were nestled all snug in their beds, While visions of floggers danced in their heads; The Dom in his leather, and I in my slave cap, Had just settled down after getting our whacks.
When out on the lawn there arose such a clatter, I crept from the bed to see what was the matter. Away to the window I flew very quickly. Tripped over some handcuffs and cursed soft and thickly.
The moon on the breast of the new-fallen snow Gave the luster of mid-day to objects below, When, what to my sleep-crusted eyes should unfurl, But a miniature sleigh, pulled by eight pony girls.
With a Dominant driver, so forbidding and stern, I knew in a moment I'd a great deal to learn. More rapid than eagles his pony girls came, And he whipped them, and shouted, and called them by name;
"Now, dashslave! now, danceslave! now, pranceslave and switch! On, subbie! on slavegirl! on, slavepet and bitch! To the top of the porch! to the training room wall! And I'll redden your bottoms, should one of you fall!
As terrified tears before the cat-o-nine flow, When they meet with an obstacle, gather courage and go, So up to the house-top the pony girls flew, With the sleigh full of sex toys, and the Dominant too.
And then, in a twinkling, I heard on the roof The prancing and pawing of pony girl boots. As I drew in my head with a sense of forbode, In through the front door the Dominant strode.
He was dressed all in black, from his head to his feet, And his clothes were all studded, leathered and neat. A bundle of sex toys he had flung on his back, And he looked very menacing opening his pack.
His eyes, they were hard with a definite glower His countenance cold, and I quite felt his power. His sternly set mouth bespoke no reprieve, For the unlucky subbie who caused him to grieve.
The goatee he sported lent a devilish air, As did the slight spatter of gray in his hair. He had strong pectorals and a muscular torso. That hardened and flexed and gave force to each blow.
He was lean, stern and fit, quite the Dom of my dreams, And I wanted to serve him, so went down on my knees. He looked down upon me, with a turn of his head, He made my soul tremble while my heart filled with dread;
He spoke not a word, but put me straight to work, He watched me in silence, idly tapping his quirt. "Heel me," he commanded, the lone words he would say, And he stalked out the door as I rushed to obey.
He sprang to his sleigh, to his team cracked the whip, Pulled me 'cross his knee, where i hung scared and limp. And he whispered to me, "I shall teach you a lesson. Happy Christmas, new slave; tonight we shall session." sent to me thought i would share it
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time marches on, still nothing spectacular, alcohol mental problems drugs, seem to be the norm now for some, Understand i do not put up with drugs alcohol, or any abuse of anything. Mental problems can be delt with. Also, understand i have an I/P tracker now, so if your not in the usa, not real, want money or other bull crap stuff, guess what, you will be traced and reported. I do hope all have a great xmas this year, with all the wishes you have coming true |
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This is a special journal for a special lady, she knows who she is, she and I have talked for over a year now, and other than the age difference, we seem to be very compatable. She is a wonderful girl who has had some very very bad situations. Xmas should be good for her as she is getting something special she can keep occupied with. I hope someday she decides that maybe this Master is the one for her, the one who can keep her safe, sane, secure, and happy. She has my heart, she has my mind, and I hope someday to have hers also. |
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Today is a good day to give thanks, for what we do have, not what we miss, specail hugs to the special birthday girl moving to tenn. Special thanks to the many many friends who remain in my heart and mind as my friends, my thanks to all who have befrended me and have stuck by me. One cannot ask for more i dont think, Hope all got turkey stuffed. |
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Looks like all the sites are now being totally infested with the fakes, wanna be's and frauds, from here to alt, to aff, to bondage dot com. It does make me wonder why these people make up a fake profile, list it, and then never follow thru at all on anything. Is it just a game type of thing or what? Perhaps self policeing is what we have to do here, as well as the other sites. Personally I think the "confirm ID" idea is a good one, although it does not take much to fake an ID. Any ideas on how we can police out the fakes, let me know. Its now a mission lol. Happy Halloween to all |
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I still find it amazing that some "sub/slaves" on here delete messages without reading them. How can you know what is said in them if you delete them before you read them? I also find it funny when you have contacted one, on another site, and then contact them from here, and they have no idea who you are, eventhough you have the same log in name. wierd people for sure. Still looking, so far the last three I have had personal contact with on here were not as they stated (what a shock lol) but we just keep going. Love to all especially my kitten. Be well and find what you seek. |
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Still looking. Someday there will be a real one around who needs and wants a good Master. |
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another day older and deeper in debt lol, what a true statement.Late on tonight, same old stuff. hope all is going well for all. |
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WHAT TO DO WITH A SLAVE ON A WEEKEND DRIVE TO TORTURE HER..............
MAKE HER PAY FOR THE GAS |
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new day, new life, new problems, wake up call ladies,,,,prices are rising, economy is sinking, jobs are scarce, food and gas are skyrocketing, might be a good idea to wake up and smell the coffee.
Some of the fakes have been shoved off here by the staff at collarme, thank you for your diligence, by the way, read profiles people, i saw one today from new york, that is a cut and paste from one in south carolina who was removed by collarme staff. the fakes are rampant, and just are not gonna go away. Also in the rant and rave column: how not to attract a good real Master: 1. put restrictions on him and yourself 2. be very nasty and vindictive in your replys to him 3. Tell him you want to get to know him for 6 months on the net and ask for his phone number 4. lets see, i want to be vindictive, an ass, require restriction, put my rules up, keep him on the hook for 5 or 6 months, and then decide he is not who i want. those are the best ways i know to run off a real Master ladies. take heed. time is but a number, life goes on, make the most of the time you have. get your stuff together make a decision, right or wrong, just make it.
I got this from a lady on another site, who is a collared slave. I thought it was so appropriate and written so well, ti actually renewed my faith in staying in the lifestyle. She makes very good sense.
I just reread Your profile and I find NOTHING in it that should not make a REAL slave seeking a REAL Master water at the mouth at the prospect of being considered by You.
The truth is...while I am older than You are, I don't believe older women have as much trouble attracting Dominant's as older Dominant's have in attracting subs/slaves. I am well aware from belonging to this site for several years and belonging to collarme for several years, older Dominant's are not as fortunate.
Age discrimination of males seems to be the "thing" I'm sorry to say.
There's also the aspect that many "younger" women in the 40's simply do not wish to be slaves; sub, yes, but there's always controversial forums here about equating slaves with subs and most stupid subs believe a slave to be a doormat, unthinking, with little or no intelligence. They do not want to have thought about them but are unwilling to explore the possibilities of slavery with a nuturing, guiding Master.
The younger women are not willing to make the commitment it takes to be a good slave. They want to have all their limits, submit when they feel like it and top from the bottom. They want to submit/scene and then walk away leaving the submission behind them. Slaves live their lives in slavery; mental and physical...we do not walk away from it ever. There are only a few older women on the sites I belong to...if there are lots of older slaves active in the life style they sure don't want to expose themselves.
What a tragedy...slavery is the ultimate freedom; sexually, mentally, physically. I apologize to You on behalf of all the women who don't know enough about who they are to seek You out. So take heed my dear ladies, this is a woman who knows from where she speaks. Bless you my dear, you have renewed my faith
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life!!!! Life is sharing a thunderstorm with someone Life is sharing a bottle of wine, together Life is happiness for two, together Life is puppies and kittys who snuggle and lick their Master when they are happy Life is love Life is only what you make of it so make the best of it together What is the magic word here?????Together |
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faster than a speeding submissive, more powerful than an electric charge, able to leap small boundrys in a single bound, look, with the whip, it a dom, its a man, no its Master woody, strange dominant from northern california who came to texas with hopes and dreams of a great pet slave, who can change the mind of a stubborn slave, bend whips with his bare hands, and who in a vanilla lifestyle, entertains the masses, fighting for truth, justice, and better bdsm. CAn you tell im bored tonight lol |
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What it means to be a Master
Have been thinking about it for some time now. Think I have the final answer. got to thiking about perks of ownership last night owning, branding, regestering on the regestry, the responsablity of ownership, what it entails etc. how much responsability for someone else it takes to be a good owner/master that it is not all about the sex, or the whippings, or the pain and pleasure, that it is about the careing and needing and wanting and the willingness to sacrifice for another, what ever it takes to make them happy,stable, secure, and loved sir woody: kind of a wierd attitude i admit, but has been running thru my mind most Masters could care less these days from what i have heard and see on here, they seem to be on a power trip of me and mine, and not worryed about the care and concern for others that kind of bothered me, but still have my own thougths and ways of doing things, which seem to be going out the window The pride of ownership seems to be lacking, it seems to be a game for most now. Lets see what we can make her do, that will show how powerful I am. I don't see it that way, never have and never will. I have always taken a different approach to being a Master, and I think it works better for all concerned. I care about and for the one who serves me faithfully, with trust, love, and care. I amke sure she is totally satisfyed in all ways as she gets the things she needs, wants, and will ask for. It matters not to me what it is she needs, as her Master, it is my duty and oath, to make sure she has it. To care enough to make sure she is happy in her dutys, make sure she has the proper training and rules to follow for I have found each is different and needs to be treated different. The responsability of owning a slave, is a very great one. Most I have talked with or read things from, do not feel they owe a responsability to a slave. Wrong answer in my opinion. If you are going to take a person into your home, let them serve you with dedication and commitment to you, then that person becomes your responsablity, your job then, is to make sure they are 1. fed, 2. clothed 3. happy 4. recieving the proper training to fit their needs and wants. 5. their health and safety 6. her mental and physical status 7. and to be able to provide for her economically physically, mentally,and emotionally. In my opinion, if you cannot supply these things or are not willing to supply these things to a slave, then you have no business trying to own one. Personally I have the means, ways, experience, knowledge and ability to possess, care for, train, keep, and supply with all she needs, the perfect slave for me. Where she is when she will be with me is the unknown factor. My hopes, dreams, and plans are totally on hold untill she is here. Think about this as you seek, are you ready for this? Can you handle this kind of responsability?
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Hahahahahahh Boy the wierd ones you run into on here, with the questions, and the great lines, then blocks lol. Get a life people, and girls, if your going to say you are submissive or slave, act the part ok, demands and rants are not traits of true subs or slaves. So be real, some of us are truly seeking and really dont need the agravation of fakes, and you know exactly who I am talking about after your reply a few minutes ago. To those who wished me a happy birthday, thank you all. yes I still seek, but will find I am sure out of all the profiles on here, there will be one true one seeking what I can provide. |
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TODAY IS MY BIRTHDAY. QUICK QUESTION: DO YOU REMEMBER YOUR FIRST ORGASIM? DONT YOU WISH SOMEONE HAD BEEN THERE TO ENJOY IT WITH YOU? LOL LIVE LONG AND STAY HAPPY, LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO WORRY ABOUT THE SMALL STUFF |
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I must have the most interesting profile on collarme, now i have male doms looking at it lol. Still waiting, talking to a few, but still waiting for the right one. |
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for a change no fakes today, so no gripes in the blog today. Still seeking and ladies, im really gettng to the point where I want a real time real life slave/sub to share my life, ambitions, and dreams. So come on girl, if you get a letter, a courtious reply is indicated, not igoneing it, cause us guys just keep on writing |
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here is wishing you all have your "stockings" filled this christmas time. Still looking, certainly am finding the "stranded in africa, canada, and the uk girls" Get a life people, leave us alone we who are true and seek for real. Have a great xmas everyone
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Hope everyone had a wonderful day yesterday, and I hope that we all find what we seek before xmas, as xmas is the time to share and be with those we want to be with. Apparently a lot of the girls nowadays, are worryed about age. age age, age is nothing more than experience multiplyed by knowledge. Like a fine wine, us older men know our way around and know how to make it work and make our sub/slaves feel better. Have a good one friends. |
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I notice some slaves have so many demands on their profiles, why demands? Requests yes. As for material things, some slaves have the need to know a Master can supply the necessary needs of a daily life. which by the way goes on even in a d/s. relationship, Some like to know that the Master they are thinking about has the means to keep her.
HAPPY THANKSGIVING TO ALL |
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No news is good news they say. Only 5 replys in the last three days, and all and I mean all of them were not even close. I know your out there somewhere, craving the attention, the feel, and the domination. Find me. |
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I recieved this in my mail box today, and was much appreciative of the words. Everyone here should read this Sir, I am sorry you are having trouble finding the one for you. I would guess that the real ones are taken already. I am real, and have been owned for 8 yrs.
I know that doesn't help you much, but us real slaves do exist.
Its too bad all the ones on here are not like this lady. |
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well another day of nothing special here in east texas. Did get a few replys from wanna bes, and a few from outright fakes. Why can't these people go away and leave us to our own lifestyles. Hate to gripe, but I have been putting up with fakes and wanna bes for a long long time. Where are the real women, the real slaves and subs who would give up all for their Masters? Why are they not on here or anywhere else we seek? I'm just a guy seeking the right woman is all, I have a full pension, a home, acreage, and just don't understand where my special one is. Have a good day all. |
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this is freaky, i have guys wrting to me, Im a male dom seeking a female slave, what part of that does not compute?lol |
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I find it amazing that so many "wanting" women don't have the courtesy to write back and say "no thanks", they just read your letter, don't look at your profile, and never reply. HOPE ALL HAD A GREAT HALLOWEEN |
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Another day here in beautiful east Texas, waiting for the right woman to come along. Hopefully there is one here who is real and wishes the best from life. I may sound a little cynical but it's one of those things that all of us go through. Have a great halloween everyone. |
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If I wrote to you as masterelf, please get back to me here, as my other profile was accidently deleted. My name is now the same on all i/m's everywhere so feel free to drop me a line if your interested in a good Master. |
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