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Pay attention, babydoll. My Expectations and Requirements
  1. A Desire to be of Service -I need someone who desires to make Me happy and who possesses a willingness to obey and serve Me as well as others around Me.
  2. Trust - Trusting Me is very important and even crucial in serving Me properly. Just because you don’t know why I am doing something, doesn’t mean I don’t have a reason. My plans for you are set and I will reveal them as you prove your devotion and trust-worthieness.
  3. Devotion - It must make you happy and excite you every time you get the opportunity to show devotion. This occurs every time I have a task for you to complete, and I will have many. This also occurs any time you stop and think of Me or any time you put Me before yourself. Believe Me, it does not go un-noticed. I will be asking you to do tasks of sexual and non-sexual nature that you will report to Me. We will discuss triggers and boundaries.
  4. Pamper Me - I’m not a money Mistress. I thrive on attention and devotion. If you are a hands-on gal, make things for Me. I am not materialistic but I am sentimental. If you’re not so good at that, give Me a massage, write Me a poem etc. I love dressing up and as your Mistress I would be sending you webcam photos in which you were to swoon and lavish with Me with compliments. Be aware that you are an accompaniment and how you dress directly reflects onto Me. I must be well represented at all times which means you must look the part to reflect Me. In return you will dress up for Me and I will approve your look. You will be My doll sometimes. It is important that I have physical proof of your devotion. Physical proof that I am on your mind always. Pictures of your day, of your Outfit for Me, makeup you did to impress Me, etc.
  5. Be Observant and Take Initiative - This is probably the most important quality a sub can have. It is absolutely critical that you observe your surroundings at all times and serve Me well. I should always be comfortable and content. In RL, never hungry, thirsty, or bored. In RL, if I have guests, they should also be tended to. One of your main functions should be to make Me look good. Especially in public. In RL, I should never have to carry my own bags, open my own doors, or even drive Myself somewhere if I do not wish to. Also, I do not wish command or order my sub to do basic things. This is especially true for our online dominance and submission role play. Once I establish daily tasks taking initiative is a huge, huge, must if you are looking to impress Me. We will have a set schedule and you will do as you are told. They will be a special set of photos that you will take for Me and ONLY Me. These will not be public.
  6. In addition to all of the above- you are to answer simply yes or no, Mistress. Be honest when I ask you a question. Use your safe word when triggered or when you need to get out of scene. Especially important since we are online, is to Capitalize every pronoun that you use for Me. “Yes, Mistress, anything for You.”<—-example. Wait until spoken to, always. Correct grammar. Read to Me on Skype whatever book I choose whenever I ask you to. Be online when I say.
  7. Follow Through - Complete tasks I give you to the best of your ability and complete them yourself unless you have asked permission to delegate them. My domination is of an extremely mental and personal nature so when I tell you to do something, I expect that it get done with a sense of urgency. I am a very busy woman and if you want Me in your life, you must be willing to keep up with Me when the occasion calls for it.
  8. Keep your Word - This is a HUGE make or break for Me. If you commit to doing something for or with Me, DO IT. And do it as close to perfectly as possible. Though I am and understanding person, I do not do well with being disappointed. It will happen from time to time as is true in any relationship and when it does, DO NOT make an excuse. A simple “I am sorry, Mistress, it won’t happen again” and something given of yourself to make it up to Me and we can move on. Whining and Excuses turn Me off to the point where I will shut down and excuse you from My presence. This is supposed to be something that you want to do and there is no use in doing it if you would rather be doing something else at any point.
  9. Submission to MAKE you not BREAK you- you will be learning valueable skills and experience, building yourself as an individual person with My wisdom and guidance. I seek long term submission. I get highly invested in the people that surround Me, My sub would be no different. Intimacy is my ruler. I want to invest My precious time and effort into someone amazing, with great potential for success on their own and in My life as well.
  10. I seek a lifelong friend, intimate love, and exhibitionist buddy explorer.

6/22/2010 8:39:50 PM

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"My Expectations and Requirements

  • A Desire to be of Service -I need someone who desires to make me happy and who possesses a willingness to obey and serve me as well as others.
  • Trust - Trusting Me is very important and even crucial in serving Me properly.  Just because you don’t know why I am doing something, doesn’t mean I don’t have a reason.  My plans for you are set and I will reveal them as you prove your devotion and trust-worthieness.
  • Devotion - It must make you happy and excite you every time you get the opportunity to show devotion.  This occurs every time I have a task for you to complete, and I will have many.  This also occurs any time you stop and think of me or any time you put me before yourself.  Believe me, it does not go un-noticed.  Remember, you never know who is watching you.
  • Pamper me -  If you are a hands on guy, make things for me.  If you’re not so good at that, give me a massage, write me a poem etc.  It is important that I have physical proof of your devotion.  Physical proof that I am on your mind always.  Plus, all Ladies like being treated like a Queen.
  • Be Observant and Take Initiative - This is probably the most important quality a sub can have.  It is absolutely critical that you observe your surroundings at all times and serve Me well.  I should always be comfortable and content.  Never hungry, thirsty, or bored.  If I have guests, they should also be tended to.  One of your main functions should be to make me look good.  Especially in public.  I should never have to carry my own bags, open my own doors, or even drive myself somewhere if I do not wish to.  Also, I do not wish command or order my sub to do basic things.  Taking initiative is a huge, huge, must if you are looking to impress Me.
  • Follow Through - Complete tasks I give you to the best of your ability and complete them yourself unless you have asked permission to delegate them.  Most of my domination is of an extremely mental and personal nature so when I tell you to do something, I expect that it get done with a sense of urgency.  I am a very busy woman and if you want me in your life, you must be willing to keep up with me when the occasion calls for it. 
  • Keep your Word - This is a HUGE deal or deal breaker for me.  If you commit to doing something for or with me, DO IT. And do it as close to perfectly as possible.  Though I am and understanding person, I do not do well with being disappointed.  It will happen from time to time as is true in any relationship and when it does, DO NOT, DO NOT, make an excuse.  A simple “I am sorry Mistress, it won’t happen again” and something given of yourself to make it up to me and we can move on.  Whining and Excuses turn me off to the point where I will shut down and excuse you from my presence.  This is supposed to be something that you want to do and there is no use in doing it if you would rather be doing something else at any point."

    -DarlingNikki217
     

 

evangeline
 
 Age: 39
 Lexington, Kentucky