She is a 36-year-old bisexual and he is 50, and pan-sexual.We are supportive open minded and playful spirits, and fiercely loyal to our partners, as well as compassionate, and self-confident without the ego trip. We have always been naturally Dominant in the bedroom and enjoy the foreplay of the power exchange. We enjoy leading a submissive to discover their path and are safe and sane, knowing the difference between BDSM and abuse. We are an eclectic couple who, when we find time, try to stay involved in all kinds of community service, and value community, be it the inclusive circle of our friends, our neighborhood, the city, or world.
We feel as a married couple and as individuals, we are always evolving.

We find pleasure in enjoying the outdoors.
We love festivals and fairies from art/musical festivals to polyamory/pagan conferences. Art and creativity are a manifestation of the spiritual and we place value on our own and others’ creativity. Part of our creative energy has been spent in the in the process of converting the duplex we own into one big eclectic house again.

We are kind of Punk, kind of hippie, and kind of Goth, blended with some old-fashioned sensibilities.
While we have listed a few things we enjoy, we are always open to new experiences and learning about what interest others.
We look at profiles as quick snapshots of an individual, or couple, not encompassing Manifestos of who they are. We are also a respecter of all cultures and nationalities

Our Ideal Person:

Can you identify with the girl in secretary? We could not expect to find anyone exactly like her, but definitely admired the characters’ spirit and determination.
Our Ideal Person(s) are a female submissive or submissive couple who are open minded, creative, playful, and healthy of mind and body. A non-possessive person, who thinks that relationships should enhance a person’s life, not BE a person’s life.
What we idealize is a submissive couple or submissive female to life partner with, however we realize this is a process and do not have rigid expectations or time lines.
We have not put much in here on our BDSM style or expectations as we feel these are things, which can enhance opening discussions. Our experiences with BDSM are like our lives and ever evolving. This person should understand that they will be required to help provide for shared living expenses. We do ask that you bring something to the table. If you have skills that aid us in where we plan on going with our lives that is a plus of course this is all reciprocal. You will assist us in chores, such as helping with house/yard work. We are involved in several alternative communities, groups and activities and we do expect you to have an open minded.

We are disease/drug free and social or non- drinkers we would ultimately like to find someone(s) in our city or willing to relocate. We are child-friendly and try to plan the plan not the results.

Our experiences with BDSM are like our lives and ever evolving.