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Male Dominant, 40, Reading, Pennsylvania
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Male Submissive, 55, MassCtLine, Connecticut
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Male Dominant, 33, Houston, Texas
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About DeviantRedHead
I am 5' 2"
Plus Size/Curvy (18/20)
Hazel eyes
Auburn/Red hair
I enjoy:
Web site creation/Maintenance, Massage, Sewing, Vampirism, Art Galleries, Beachcombing, Fine Dining, Movies, Museums, Renaissance Faires, Shopping, Travel, Dancing, Horror Movies, Aromatherapy, Beading, Drawing, Painting, Blogging, Intellectual Discourse, Paranormal, Poetry, Psychology, Writing, Neo-Paganism, Amusement Parks, SCA, Volunteerism, Board Games, Science Fiction, Photography, Camping
I am a seamstress, and I run my own business from my home. I am currently taking Spanish language classes at the local College, and hopefully I will be able to turn my love of languages into a new career.
I do have references if you need to talk to someone about me, just email me and I will let you know who to talk to. I've only been in this lifestyle for about a year or two. It's been an awakening. I am a Masochist, and I am slightly Exhibitionist.
I have no formal training, and I do not have a Mentor currently. I am Bisexual, though I really feel that I am more or less Homoflexible, as I am primarily attracted to other women. I have been married for over 14 years to my husband who understands my desire to be a part of this lifestyle but he is a Vanilla, so we do not play together.
I know how to use safe words, and colors. I am STD/HIV free. I consider myself Polyamorous, but more leaning towards Poly Fidelity as I often seek out just one additional female partner to my primary relationship, not several. I have a busy life, and I don't think I could handle that! I am not looking for a live-in situation, but I am able to incorporate D/s into my every day for sure. I do have a 7 yr old living at home. This should be considered (Homework, School, After School activities, etc).
I prefer to submit to Women, it would have to be just the right Man to get me to submit to him. I do not play with random people, nor do I go out clubbing. I prefer to meet people at local munches, get to know you and build trust first, then play. My fetish list is below, that's what I know I'm into at this point. I am able to get out and have fun about once a month. I've made a few friends so far, but I'm not at all known.
I am a neat person, and my home reflects this. I am organized and can express myself clearly and maturely. I do not play mind games, create or participate in drama. I've been an adult my whole life (so my mother says). I have many strong relationships with others and my family is big. I am a good listener and I am often sought out by my closest friends for advice.
I would be interested in the following service-orientated arrangements:
Personal Attendance
Housework
Run Errands/Shopping
Cooking/Serving
Boot Blacking/Boot worship
Web site creation/Maintenance
Custom Sewing/Costuming/Accessories
Travel Planning/Arrangements
Formal/High Protocol Dinners/Events
That being said, I am NOT looking for ONLY service-oriented submission. I am looking for Pain, Pleasure (sexual), and Service. I am not interested in long term non-sexual bdsm, though I know it comes with trust and time.
I'm just too sexual/sensual for non-sexual arrangements, so if you are unable to go there, please do not contact me.
I have some hard limits:
Scat
Watersports
Verbal Humiliation
Choking/Suffocation
Emotional Sadism
Hypnotism
Bestiality
Nun/Priest
Daddy/Mommy/Brother/Sister
Cheating (if you have to hide this side of yourself and your activities in it from your significant other(s) or you are in the flog closet in general)
...and several other things that I don't even want to think about..
My pain tolerance is probably 7, but you'd have to tell me I am not sure. I like to be played with on most parts of my body, and I do not have many physical limitations. I have some arthritis/old pain that is aggravated in certain positions. Otherwise I am fine. I do have some mild claustrophobia. I do have some anxiety, and I do take medication for it. I prefer after care that involves talking, and quiet time. I do not like to rush through scene time, or try to cram things in. I like to spend a day of it.
Have I been honest enough for you? LOL
WARNING: You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, writings, conversations, or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal action.
Into: http://.com/fetishes/2, http://.com/fetishes/1009, http://.com/fetishes/4258 (receiving), http://.com/fetishes/2317 (receiving), http://.com/fetishes/437 (receiving), http://.com/fetishes/33018, http://.com/fetishes/127966, http://.com/fetishes/7232, http://.com/fetishes/2752, http://.com/fetishes/6 (everything to do with it), http://.com/fetishes/7 (wearing), http://.com/fetishes/764 (giving), http://.com/fetishes/2128 (receiving), http://.com/fetishes/545, http://.com/fetishes/132 (receiving), http://.com/fetishes/15 (wearing), http://.com/fetishes/3529 (receiving), http://.com/fetishes/22535, http://.com/fetishes/23 (wearing), http://.com/fetishes/4035 (everything to do with it), http://.com/fetishes/193 (everything to do with it), http://.com/fetishes/454 (everything to do with it), http://.com/fetishes/393 (receiving), http://.com/fetishes/1149 (everything to do with it), http://.com/fetishes/1170 (giving), http://.com/fetishes/34, http://.com/fetishes/767, http://.com/fetishes/1528, http://.com/fetishes/329, http://.com/fetishes/74, http://.com/fetishes/819, http://.com/fetishes/17511, http://.com/fetishes/39, http://.com/fetishes/289 (receiving), http://.com/fetishes/2579, http://.com/fetishes/1370, http://.com/fetishes/544 (wearing), http://.com/fetishes/111 (receiving), http://.com/fetishes/181 (receiving), http://.com/fetishes/23329, http://.com/fetishes/47 (wearing), http://.com/fetishes/11095 (everything to do with it), http://.com/fetishes/49 (wearing), http://.com/fetishes/1883, http://.com/fetishes/1121, http://.com/fetishes/247 (everything to do with it), http://.com/fetishes/458, http://.com/fetishes/54 (receiving), http://.com/fetishes/61, http://.com/fetishes/356 (receiving), http://.com/fetishes/58 (wearing), http://.com/fetishes/1300 (wearing), http://.com/fetishes/54941, http://.com/fetishes/63, http://.com/fetishes/64, http://.com/fetishes/65, http://.com/fetishes/67, http://.com/fetishes/1290, http://.com/fetishes/71 (everything to do with it), http://.com/fetishes/251, http://.com/fetishes/189 (receiving), http://.com/fetishes/72 (receiving), http://.com/fetishes/560, http://.com/fetishes/328 (watching), http://.com/fetishes/81, http://.com/fetishes/1784, http://.com/fetishes/519, http://.com/fetishes/90, http://.com/fetishes/649, http://.com/fetishes/92, http://.com/fetishes/1020 (wearing), http://.com/fetishes/528 (receiving), http://.com/fetishes/195 (everything to do with it), http://.com/fetishes/607, http://.com/fetishes/1402, http://.com/fetishes/33756 (receiving), http://.com/fetishes/706, http://.com/fetishes/792, http://.com/fetishes/1213, http://.com/fetishes/964 (everything to do with it), http://.com/fetishes/3521, http://.com/fetishes/49378 (wearing), http://.com/fetishes/96 (receiving), http://.com/fetishes/651 (everything to do with it), http://.com/fetishes/594 (wearing), http://.com/fetishes/1547, http://.com/fetishes/73866 (giving), http://.com/fetishes/97, http://.com/fetishes/349, http://.com/fetishes/479 (receiving), http://.com/fetishes/78567, http://.com/fetishes/98 (receiving), http://.com/fetishes/5975, http://.com/fetishes/72739 (everything to do with it), http://.com/fetishes/351 (everything to do with it), http://.com/fetishes/644 (everything to do with it), http://.com/fetishes/103, http://.com/fetishes/2858, http://.com/fetishes/104 (receiving), http://.com/fetishes/1380 (receiving), http://.com/fetishes/21704, http://.com/fetishes/1604.
Curious about: http://.com/fetishes/4812, http://.com/fetishes/246, http://.com/fetishes/668 (giving), http://.com/fetishes/2054 (receiving), http://.com/fetishes/1532, http://.com/fetishes/1343 (receiving), http://.com/fetishes/2046, http://.com/fetishes/1403, http://.com/fetishes/43 (receiving), http://.com/fetishes/1866, http://.com/fetishes/585, http://.com/fetishes/1162, http://.com/fetishes/25270, http://.com/fetishes/625, http://.com/fetishes/260 (receiving). |
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