DeveloperDom

About DeveloperDom

From a BDSM perspective I have always enjoyed developing the women I have been with – respecting their limits but relishing the opportunity to challenge, push and stretch those boundaries. One partner described it as encouraging her to unfurl her wings and learn to fly. I see the Dom’s role as coach and mentor as much as controller and punisher.
The rules and conventions of the BDSM ‘lifestyle’ do not interest me. I really don’t like all that Y/you W/we stuff nor the third-person speech favoured by some. To me this is about making my own rules outside of the day-to-day restrictions of job and polite society. Saying and doing things that would shock most people but that are totally acceptable within the relationship, things that by most people’s standards would be considered extreme.
What am I looking for? Someone who, like me, feels this need burning within them. Someone who finds themselves thinking about their submissiveness more and more. Someone who knows that they need more from life, who needs to step over a line, off the edge. Looks and experience are less important to me than a genuine desire and willingness to please and do whatever is asked.
I am not looking for one night stands, roleplay or game players.