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Male Submissive, 30, Waukesha, Wisconsin
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Male Switch, 37
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About courageinfear
I am a switch who has been blessed by making kinky friends and play partners throughout the southeast United States. I am always looking for new people to share the adventure of BDSM with.
Intellectually, I’m like a 100-watt light bulb. I love to learn about new subjects from people who are knowledgeable in their field(s). I am attracted to people who are passionate about knowledge and learning. True saphosexuality rocks. My particular interests include mathematics, biology, green science and alternative energy, and meteorology. I have a passion for politics; I identify as very liberal. I prefer the company of other liberals; however, if you are an argumentative conservative, prepare for the intellectual whipping you so richly deserve. I don’t fuck Bush 43 or Sarah Palin supporters unless they kidnap me and torture me until I put out.
Emotionally, my situation is trickier. I can have bouts of blueness from time to time. However, I refuse to let them stand in my way. I try to keep busy studying and enjoying things that make me happy. I legitimately care for people -- particularly my friends -- and strive to do right by them. However, from time to time, my social awkwardness gets in my way. I tend to play very rough with others. I'm not blatantly rude; however, I will say things that will make you feel uncomfortable without realizing it. I like to do things on the town with friends; however, I shy away in situations where I don’t know many people. My Myers-Briggs personality type is INTJ.
Kink and Sex. My primary identifications are submissive sadist and assertive masochist. I switch into the first mode when I’m happy and wanting to share my happiness with others. When I inflict pain upon people, I like to give the type of pain that my masochist enjoys.
As a bottom, I’m only mildly turned on sexually by SM. However, a good “heavy-sensation” scene can make me very happy -– extremely bubblely, jump-up-and-down, “OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG,” wanting to do cartwheels happy! Alternatively, a “heavy pain” scene that makes me yell and scream and struggle against very constraining bondage that turns me into a sweat and tear covered pulp can be very cathartic and leave me happy for weeks. Either way, it makes me happy to allow my Domina to find her own happiness by having her way with my mind and body. It’s these aspects that make a good scene truly great when they come together.
When I’m a masochist, there are certain things that I need to make a scene work. However, instead of trying to dictate what will happen during a scene, I present my prospective top my scene negotiation report that details activities that I have enjoyed and that I am interested in. I hope you will use this report as a beginning for finding activities that we will both enjoy. The aspects of BDSM that move me the most while bottoming are ass-play and dildo use, tight and constraining bondage, knee-high boots, giving oral sex, sensation overload, and thuddy pain toys.
Whom I’m looking for. I'm not currently looking for a long-term or serious relationship. I am also looking for friends and play partners. If you are reading this, we should play together! :D Ideally, we would form an intermediate relationship somewhere in between those extremes. In particular, we will build a level of mutual trust enabling us to explore types of BDSM & D/s on the periphery of our comfort zones. We will indulge each other’s fetishes, awaken and feed our inner hedonistic sluts, and revel in our mutual depravity. Let’s explore the uncharted waters of our desires and be happy together. Being upfront and firm about your interest plus plying a little bit of seduction -- mentally and physically -- will be rewarded. I feel totally comfortable playing with most women. Gentlemen, I'm new to playing with you; however, I'm looking forward to more hot times together.
If you want to tie me up in bondage while topping me, the first two or three play dates must be at a public dungeon or a well-attended private party. I’m a member of IMPACT in Memphis and The Mark in Nahsville. We can have a vanilla date at any public location we agree upon such as a restaurant or coffee shop.
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