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Hetero Male Dominant, 40,  DUBLIN, Ireland
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The Past ....(got into bdsm by accident and out until early 2000s got to meet a wonderful Dominant woman who brought me into the world at a deeper has remained with me though we are no longer in any kind of relationship,we sort of grew out of each other.however the yearning is returning,is there a Dominant woman who could find a willing sub to bring back to a sort of slave status.not into pro doms,lovely women but service submission comes from the heart and the wish to serve to certain levels do live within still.)... THAT was then..but now is now..I have been reborn to become more Dominant in nature. Now seeking a submissive woman who wishes to treated with respect to the point she will not wish to leave.However you will be Mine to worship and Mine to own to be educated to serve me and Me only. I can cater to your needs But it is My needs which over rule your at any time or place. submission is a state of mind,it is ingrown into us and how some of us think. Submission is not all about being used..being used is confused by a lot of people. you can seek Masters who are Pro Masters like our Sisters the Pro Dominatrix. I do not seek financial reward as having a submissive woman to control,use for enjoyment is all the rewards I require. Certain elements of control will be can be expected and your life if any outside of your submission will be considered or accepted,but you will always have some thing which keeps your mind locked to me in some form. I do not care about your job,how much money you make,what kind of car you drive or the amount of clothes you buy during the year,you can keep them,their just material goods which too many see as what we must have. Control is controlling the mind and body all else follows and that is the secret to your submission. I have an open mind and a wicked sense of humour. There are physical attributes I do seek in a submissive woman and they are not the usual ones,beauty is very much from within as much as it is on the outside. People spend too much time being surface minded,all they wish to see and be stimulated by is what their eyes see. I have watched over the years on sites like etc and too many Dom and subs look with their eyes not with their minds. Too many artificial people who must have a thin sub or Adonis play thing..get real. there are women who only think about the money side of Domination they miss the fact that a good sub/slave does not have to be rich and have loads of money to be a good slave....I know Pro Dominatrix's who are very good at their job and the silly subs who think sex is part of it..wake up BDSM is not about is sex of the mind,it is about the control of your sexual being. If sex is what you seek then no problem you can have plenty of it on my terms. submission can be subtle or in your face,I decide how I wish to use you. I am aware that everyone has limits,yet limits are to be explored..the greatest thing for a sub is to push is your limits so they are no longer limits or for you to push your own limits to achieve a higher sense of being from that limit. Barry. I do not care how you address me in public,just as you remember in your mind you are MY sub or My slave. In the correct location such as a club of fetish kind,you may speak freely and refer to me as Yours,but you will be respectful of me as much as you are to me,then all will be well...if not well you bring it upon yourself.... I do respect you as the woman you are..but remember you are still My sub and how you normally talk with men in your work or social life outside your submission to Me is not the same as if you are in my company..I will not tolerate it unless I am happy to let you talk in this way. Too many people here forget about what submission is..too many think of the sexual kink of your own body and what it can do for do not require others for sexual gratification..... Who wants the challenge then ?












 Dominant Male



 5' 11"

 209 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive female


 Anal Play

 Blindfolding you

 Body Worship



 You wearing my collar

 Electrical Play

 Erotic Hypnosis


 Gas Masks


 Placing you on a leash

 Masks (Wearing)

 Masks on Partner

 You servicing me orally

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Rubber Fetish

 Sensory Play

 Suspension Bondage



 Amusement Parks

 Antique Shows

 Art Galleries

 Bar Hopping


 Bird Watching

 Coffee Shops

 Fine Dining


 Going to the Opera



 Musical Theater



 Breast Play


 Canes and Crops



 Genital Punishment

 Being Massaged

 Foot Worship


 Massage (Giving)

 Medical fetish play (Beginner)

 Mental Bondage



 Orgasm Control

 Selecting the clothes you wear


 Pony/Puppy Roleplay (Beginner)

 Role Playing

 Spanking you

 Speech Restrictions



 Wax Play

 Whips (Beginner)

 FLR Options (Beginner)


 Lifestyle BDSM

 Working Out



 Corner Time


 Eye Contact Restrictions

 G-spot Stimulation

 Obedience Training


 Vacuum Stimulation (Beginner)

 Female Sovereignty

 Curious About:

 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales


 Renaissance Faires


 Begging (Beginner)

 Exhibitionism (Beginner)

 Erotic touch (Beginner)

 Fire Play (Beginner)

 Rituals (Beginner)

 Outdoor Bondage (Beginner)

 Public Play (Beginner)

 Gor (Beginner)


 Old Guard (Beginner)


 Swinging (Beginner)


 Veganism (Beginner)



 Domestic Service (Beginner)

 Modern Primitivism


 Housework Service

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