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The long and winding occasionally bumpy and rough road to erotic self discovery, in spite of the hazards that lurk around the torturous curves/corners we sometimes have to navigate blind, is best traveled without caution or a roadmap. It's the sense of adventure, uncertainty, insecurity, vulnerability, humility and even trepidation that come with experimenting and being open to things most folks probably wouldn't be ... that make it an erotic odyssey and mind trip like no other.
If you think you would make a compatible travel companion, then I would love to hear from you. Otherwise good luck on your own trip, and be sure not to travel too safe.
About Me
Up to now, I've been the dominant one in most of my relationships. I didn't plan it that way, that's just the way things worked out. By and large, women are more comfortable being submissive, certainly in the bedroom, than the converse. I'm not sure most men care one way or the other, as long as the relationship is fulfilling. If I had my druthers, I would want a woman in control much more of the time, but unfortunately I think too many women have been conditioned by our culture to feel "unfeminine" when they're dominant. At least up until the last decade or two, girls were groomed to be submissive - some even think there's a genetic component, but do let me know when you're planning on holding a TEDTalk to defend that thesis. I want to make sure I've got time to make popcorn.
Presently then, I would be most accurately characterized as a sub-leaning switch. Being dominant all the time got stale, and I'm just not very excited anymore, being the one who takes the initiative all the time, particularly in the bedroom. I like to be surprised now and then, and it's a little difficult to hide one's intentions from oneself. I harbor the most intrigue about the prospect of being domesticated by a powerful self-assured woman in a sort of reversal of gender roles. I've got no problem with a woman who makes more money than me, and I would love to be in a relationship with a gal who has a job like a cop or firefighter, which by nature of their occupational hazards and demands, might encourage a girl to develop personality traits that are more commonly associated with guys. Many men are turned off or intimidated by that, they don't think it's feminine, but I'm very attracted to that type. Furthermore, I like to help women like this find balance, if that's what they want, and get back in touch with the femininity they feel estranged from (which might well necessitate me being dominant). There are some women who are not very feminine at all, and quite content with that. Not very many of them are heterosexual, and I've definitely fantasized about feminizing and making them fall in love with me ... but it would probably be more realistic of me to attract them by taking on some of the characteristics of the women they're typically attracted to - which I wouldn't entirely rule out, but would have to be very motivated to do.
One thing I want to be clear about, is that I'm not interested in subservient/weak-willed/shrinking violets who don't stand up for themselves in a relationship ... or life for that matter. If that's how you see yourself, unless you have a real desire to change, I'm not the right partner for you, sexual or otherwise.
I have more pics to share with those who do the same. Extra points if you live in or frequently travel to, the Pacific Northwest (particularly the Seattle area).
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