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Experienced male DOm with committed female sub Seek others to help in her training and cuckold couples Ideal couple would be sub/sub but all are considered I have been working with a new sub for the last several months. Since I find that a single sub can absorb a lot of time and my energy I have not been on here for some time. Raeven, my active sub, is at a point that I am advancing her training; she is ready to work with another woman and possible another man IF the rights ones come along. This will be new for her but she is such a good sub, a natural giver. Loves to be tied and caned. Anyway, we are both professional, and discreet as you must be. We are both married but as the song says, not to each other. I am always interested in meeting others in the life that understands the spiritual nature of all this, as it were. Sir [SIZE 4][/SIZE][B][/B][SIZE 10][/SIZE] I am a rare person to be here. I am real and I understand the song of SM. For SM is music, your body is both instrument and audience. It is a song to which we will dance. I will lead you through a ritual of sensation, movement, shared beauty and physical skill. Your melody is method acting in which you act out roles far more real than the face you show the outside world. Your song is a challenge of finding out what you can take, how far you can go and discovering the joy in that endeavor. The album SM is composed of the base of humiliation, physical pain, suffering, cruelty, and deprivation. The melody is the seeming paradoxes of seeking freedom through submission, pleasure through pain, serenity, humility and vision, through the naked exercise of power, illumination and spiritual apotheosis through physical engagement. SM takes the tune of aggression and cruelty and reshapes it into a shared melody that creates closeness, joy, and wonder, while inflicting no lasting harm but instilling lasting growth. SM life encourages self-knowledge, the pursuit of individual happiness, the satisfaction of need for importance of others, and respect for human diversity. SM is inexhaustible in its range of expression. It manifest itself as a delight in power, wielded in love instead of hatred and with the aim of making the participants feel good, whatever feeling good means to them. It can manifest itself as feelings of worship, service, atonement or physical ordeal, ranging from the comparatively mild to incredibly heavy. I believe BDSM is about NEED. Whether that need is psychological, physical, emotional or (as most often the case) self-understanding. I wish there were some crafty image I could paint for you but for now I can only say it is not about your WANT. As a Dom, I take the responsibility I believe in a BDSM with a deeper reality than mere sex. My definition includes providing access to hidden mysteries of meaning, sacredness, living abundantly. Such a definition includes teaching discipline teaching, not only physical skills but also integrity, awareness, with the validation of your needs. I am not seeking a stable or players. I am seeking ONE true submissive that wants to learn and grow. I require discretion (this is a small town) and honesty. So when you decide that you must not continue to deny yourself follow these rules: 1- Put some thought into your reply. No one-liners or canned responses. 2- Once you have replied, wait for my answer. 3- Answer all questions put forth honestly and openly. 4- I do not require a picture with the initial query however; I will require one before we meet. 5- Any initial meeting WILL occur in a very public place. If you are not up for this save both of us a lot of time and energy. I have found such sites as the one We/we are presently on to be of limited value in finding true seekers but I must face the reality that while living in Charleston is financially rewarding it limits exposure to people seeking the type growth I speak of here.[
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 Age: 21
 Phoenix, Arizona