Hi, and welcome to my profile.
I am looking for a dominant woman or switch with Domme tendencies that wants to date and eventually build a long term relationship. I am a 6’-1” tall HWP single, attractive brown hair male. Retired engineer by training but still able to use both sides of my brain.

I have known most of my life that I am submissive. I want to be part of a loving Female Led Relationship, where an assertive woman takes the lead, creating a lasting partnership. I want to serve and please my partner in whatever capacity she desires. Its about you! Your needs, Your desires, Your fulfillment as a woman. What can I do to help you have a better life? I give great foot, leg, back and total body massages. I am very good at home improvement projects and yard work. And with your guidance can learn to be an expert at housework, laundry, and many other things to your liking.

How would you like to come home at the end of a hard day to a waiting eager man, who greets you at the door with your favorite glass of wine. carries you to the living room where he gives you a full body message while you relax and unwind. While you are resting, the man disappears into the kitchen to finish preparing your candle lit dinner. (Honesty disclaimer. I am not the best cook, but I am willing to take classes, learn, and apply myself in this area. :)

Sound intriguing? Think you might enjoy taking an intelligent man and molding him to your tastes? If you want a dynamic articulate man who can make powerful persuasive arguments and yet will yield to allow you to make the final decision. And he can entertain you with a witty story or joke. If you have Googled the search terms, "Loving FLR", "Real Women Don’t do Housework," if you have investigated the books "Venus on Top," "Uniquely Rika," or "The Enlightened Submissive," if you enjoy working with a man as a team so he can learn to better your life, if you are looking for a compatible companion who can follow your lead in whatever sphere you travel, be it career, family and social gatherings, vanilla or something else, if you are creative, intelligent, playful, and keep trying new things until you find what you like, then we are probably a good fit. If you believe that the mind is the most important sex organ, we are a good fit.

If you are into giving extreme pain, public degrading humiliation and abuse, hate men and think they are all pigs, we aren’t a good fit. If you enjoy stimulating conversation and like to laugh we are a good match. If you enjoy teasing, witty banter, reading and learning new things, we are a good fit. I am a firm believer in Monogamy, and while I would enjoy or indulge your kink appetite, I would not be a good fit for a hardcore sadist. Pain, restraints, predicaments, for fun or correction is acceptable. Overt cruelty and brutality is not. We would want to have many conversations to establish trust for a mutually rewarding power exchange. You will get far more out of me with praise, and encouragement then you will with regular torture disguised as maintenance discipline sessions.

The best men, like me, and Chevrolets were produced in 1957. While I have been contemplating this lifestyle as a submissive attentively pampering an assertive woman since I was a teenager I didn't know it existed, or how one might even bring this up with a woman. Pre-Internet, I tried to broach this with my ex-wife decades ago with disastrous consequences. I did not understand that kink was not the substance of the relationship. It is submission of the man to the woman. Kink if any, or even ever, is totally at the discretion of the woman. My role is to enhance her life. To be so attuned to her that she will often wonder how she got by without me, and why did it take so long for us to find each other.

While my enthusiasm is high, my experience level is that of a neophyte. If you are patient and willing to teach me how you like things done, I will respond. I am a very good prospect. And like a well maintained 57 chevy, all the equipment works, all the parts are intact, and I have low miles. And as a bonus Disease and Drug Free.