Charles12345

Been around a long time now and have a grip of who I am. Naturally Dominant without the whip weilding machisimo, In a suit or leathers people naturally look to me as being one of the alpha males in a room. Sometimes this works as an advantage sometimes not! :)

I enjoy a fun and active play scene life within this BDSM family but 90% of my life is vanilla and regular. (not boring) :)

Who I'd like to meet:

A woman who is at ease in a cocktail dress on the social circuit and a slut when appropriate. The secret is knowing when is the right time? Like me you have or do not want more children, this is our time now and sundays are made for family's and grandkids. Saturday nights are for munch's, fetish nights and dungeon's :)

You must like other people vanilla and not and be able to be sociable.

I can not abide a dormat, please have a personality, opinions, be able to express and defend your point of view. Naturally I reserve the right to dismiss them haha!.

On the vanilla front, you must tolerate boating, you will be my first mate.

Charles