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1/27/2012 12:01:05 PM

My Limits

If you're into any of my limits but are still interested in me, we will have to speak and negotiate. However, any limit listed under the "Black" category will always be a deal-breaker if encountered. In fact, if you are even having relations with someone who is into something under my "Black" category and consider them a friend, I will not be interested in you. Sorry, but I have dropped friends myself who have an interest in what falls in my "Black" category.


A lot of people are going to say "slaves don't have limits, blah blah" and "you're too demanding!" I'm sorry, but I have to be in order to protect myself and my health.

Black


* Children

* Death

* Non-consensual nullification

* Animal abuse

* Bestiality

* Anything obviously illegal that can bring immediate harm or trouble to my person.

* Rape (and not rape play)

* Trying to make me get rid of my animals - I'm sorry, but my cat and my snake are more important than your feelings. They were here first, and they come first. If you are allergic, we can work something out, but I am not letting my animals go.

* Stupidity.

Red

* Permanent markings - again, this can be negotiated.

* Pregnancy

* Non-consensual violence - things can usually be worked through, but don't push it.

* Drugs - I'm not against drugs in a proper time and place, but so help you if you drug me without my knowledge, or slip me some GHB. If I have memory loss of something, consider yourself cut from my life and subject to legal actions.

* Forced intoxication - drinking makes me sick, and is unhealthy. Do not make me do it.

* "Cold" pain - this is pain that I consider "out of the blue" where I have no warning or preparation for. I cannot handle this, and I may hurt you on impulse by accident.

* Forced Relocation - I will make a decision to move on my own.

* Forcing me away from my friends - granted, I only have like, one close friend that I actually speak to on a regular basis, but seriously, don't limit me from speaking to people. I can handle myself and make me own decisions.

* Forcing me away from my family - sure, my childhood wasn't the greatest, but whose was? I still love my family, no matter what, and you should respect that, especially since they have little to no influence in the way that I live my life.

* Making the world revolve around you (especially concerning men) - this is a pet peeve, and I frankly cannot stand dramatic men, at all. You're a man. Grow some fucking balls. If I had a gold coin for every time that a man in my life has "broken down" over the smallest of things, I would be rich. Seriously.

* Theft - don't do it, especially to me. If you want to rape Walmart's ass and steal their shit like a ninja, don't involve me. More power to you for stealing from a mega-corp, but just don't get caught, and make sure I'm not around.

* Grudges - if you hold grudges, stay out of my life. I know that no one is perfect, and that most things really don't fucking matter in the world. Don't drag drama out.

* Fisting - I just can't have a hand in any orifice, sorry. I consider large toys to be fine, so long as I am... um... well, so long as you acclimate me to various sizes.

* Scat - this is one of those limits that I will not negotiate, sorry. I just can't do it, and it risks my health.

* Basing your entire life and theology on one Sci-Fi novel and shunning all else in the world (this means a huge percent of Goreans... and Christians).

* Taking all of my money under your control. Unless I ask for your help, keep away from my finances. I work for every cent that I own, and the only thing that I have that is not mine is my car, and even then, I am paying it off.

* Forcing me to eat weird food. Seriously, shrimp shells on a salad? No, man.

* Dis-figuration.

* Dicks. I hate men who are inconsiderate dicks.

* Unwanted input about my body size. Yes, I have fat on my body. Yes, I am content. No, I do not need your health advice. Yes, I primarily eat salads, organic food, and nice things (aside from the once-a-week burger). Yes, I'm pretty active.

* Control over my hair length - this mostly applies if you want my hair above the length of my shoulders. I'm not getting it shaved, sorry.

* Wild hair colors - my job will not allow it. However, you can temporarily put something in my hair.

* Clothing - unless you're going to help me out and buy me some new clothes, I can't afford to change my clothing or wardrobe. Hell, I still need to by myself some new clothes.

* Jobs - unless you happen to own a company and can give me a secure job, or work enough so that I can be a little slave pet basking on a pillow in your room all day, I cannot allow you control over my job.

* Bad grammar/spelling - at least make it so that we can communicate.

* Catheters/sounding

* Infantilism/diapers

Yellow

* Enemas

* Watersports

* Incest - if you and your cousin or brother consent or something, I will not mind.

* Auctioning for Charity - it depends on the circumstance.

* Sharing - I will have input in the people.

* Asphyxiation - please know what you are doing.

* Branding, cell popping, etc - I will have the final say. I will be more willing to accept a brand after a few years then right away.

* Cutting - we need blood tests, etc first.

* Blood play - see above.

* Electric Play

* Heavy S&M sessions

* Extended bondage

* Gun play - please know what you are doing.

* Hook suspension

* Photographs and videos

* Watersports

* Tattoos


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 Age: 33
 HONG KONG, Hong Kong