chani

Like many, when I first became involved in BDSM, I was primarily after the sex. As time went on and I gained a little experience, it began to dawn upon me that there is so much more to the culture and lifestyle then I had ever dreamed. Sex, while great and important in itself, isn't primarily what I seek.

I'm a submissive who loves to kneel at the feet of her master. I have some experience in D/s and play but there is still a lot I have yet to learn and try. I am not afraid to try out new stuff. Sometimes you only find out you like something after you've tried it.

I'm looking for an experience Dominant for a TPE. Here is a list of qualities I'm seeking (I borrowed these from a site I found since it expressed my thoughts and desires so well):

1. To be a powerful presence that commands my devotion


2. To respect my needs and limitations - emotionally and physically


3. To have joy in controlling and disciplining me


4. To have the imagination to keep me thrilled with his being


5. To understand that I am human and may stumble in my efforts to be a good slave.


6. To have consideration of my ideas


7. To keep my physical needs met


8. To be honest and trustworthy


9. To educate and guide me in the ways of BDSM


10. To protect me, even from myself at times

As a submissive I promise to obey to the best of my ability, be honest about my thoughts and feelings, open minded to new experiences, and willing to follow my Dominant as directed.