Changelyng

Everyone has an itch. For some it lies in restraint. When you tap into this, something happens to a person. It’s kind of an energy. It’s definitely a reaction. There’s a sharper presence in the eyes. The skin radiates with perception. Whatever it is, it’s powerful, and it’s the most beautiful thing in the world to me.

I love to chase this state with my partners and friends. I love to bring them to their boundaries and safely back again.

I’ve been a ‘full time’ domme for about four years now, though it’s been an interest/fantasy my entire life. Every blue moon I switch, but I’m not looking for that here. What I ‘do’ depends a lot on the boundaries I’ve set with a partner. I’ve no interest in scat, urine, diapers, infantilism, drama, nor any sort of ‘assumed/unspoken expectations’.

I prefer that it is sexual. I’m open to non-sexual if there’s an element that particularly interests me.

Degradation is not my forte. If it’s a must, then we can talk.

Generally, I’m pretty open and I love trying things I’ve not done before when trust and communication are up to it.

I’d like to dabble further in some of the hardcore. My current project is to become proficient in rope suspension.

I love to work with people who are new to the stuff, as its fun for me to help someone figure out what their boundaries and interests are.

For a number of reasons I am not available for a relationship for another year at least. My time commitment level would vary between once a week to once a month or two.

I’m open to a playmate developing into a friend but it is not an expectation.

When I’m not doing the above I can sometimes be spotted dancing at clubs, eating good food with good friends, pretending to be a great artist//writer/singer, and sitting in class chasing my dream of being a massage therapist.

I would imagine that if we talked, we’d email a time or few, meet somewhere public for foods and/or drinks. At that point if it seems fun, we’d talk boundaries and find time.

I prefer to entertain.

My most prominent deal breakers are that I smoke, I’m thirty-something, and I have trouble scheduling with those who work 9-5 jobs.