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Interests:
babygirl
bondage (rope & water)
chasity
D/s couple (doesnt have to be Hetro or Male/Female)
floggers
ice & waterplay (not golden showers)
interrogation
micromanagement
ojectification
petplay (CAT)
poly
power exchange
protocols
rituals
spankings (OTK, belts, leather implements)
shibari (Japanese rope bondage)
zentai
Commonly Asked Questions:
brat = no
limits = yes
mashochist = no
real time in this lifestyle = yes
painslut = no
raceplay = no
safe words = yes
SAMI = no
slave = no
Stats:
married = yes, my husband is vanilla yet aware of my chocolate desires
children = yes older teens
employed = yes
tested = yes
drug/alcohol free = yes
 It's not the visual attraction but the intellectual, mental, spiritual, and emotional connection that leads toward the path of my submissive heart. 
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I have finalzied by decision to no longer particpate in the partices of BDSM; therefore i will no longer be seeking a Dominant nor a poly family. i do want to thank Y/you All that touched my life and encouraged me along the way. I wish you well in your endeavors. Feel free to keep on your messenger list or choose to delete me should Y/you desire. (just let me know. lol so i dont bother Y/you). Be well. |
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What a week!  i must confess that this girl is tired; however, i wanted to be faithful in at least submitting a journal entry and reaching out to those P.persons who have been so kind as to fellowship with me since i've been on this social engine. My thoughts this week take me to photos. How important are looks in a D/s relationship? If it's sorely about the heart of the matter, the Dominant's need to dominate and the submissive's need to submit why do i get so many requests for my pic or to describe myself, especially when the requesting party has not blessed their profile with a photo? Is the process of elemination how i look or whether or not we are compatible intellectually, spiritually, mentally, and/or if our goals, desires, and interests in BDSM and/or life match?  |
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Pondering today on what it means to be Someone's pet. i have a pet and i never leave his care unattended for days on end. Yet in the dynamics of my search i have found that the communication between the potential Dominant and myself is limited to the "spare time" or late evening. Yet my heart yearns to communicate with that dominant spirit at the top of my day, throughout it and even at the end of the day. How can that be? There is no contentment in that for me. Is wrong for me not to want to be an afterthought or a whim between a busy schedule? |
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 i woke up this morning thinking about priorities. What does it actually mean to be S.someone elese's priority? Does it mean that Y.you consider one another at both the top and end of the day? Does it mean that mutually Y.you give regard to each other's feelings, ideals, likes/dislikes, and or opinions in thought word or deed? How can i make a Dominant my priority when i am just Their filler, or entertainment at work, or something to do when They're board, or whipping post? hmmmmmm, just my thought for today.
***Update**** The responses to this question has been fantastic!!! Actually from the heart. I do appreciate that so much. The sincere responses to my question has actually given hope that this lifestyle could actually be more then just about "the play" or centered around it being a "Dom's world". |
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Wow there are so many friendly P/people on here. My pc was down for a bit, so i was unable to respond to some of Y/your emails; however, i will use this wknd to catch up. Please don't think that i am ignoring Y/you. That would be just plain rude. Oh and by the way, thank Y/you for not approaching me inappropriately. i appreciate that. |
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The best part of the game is the thrill of the hunt. How's Your stamina?
i feel the need to address this issue from the start...........PLEASE refrain from asking me what i would like You to do to me sexually or feel the need to express to me Your sexual talents, gifts, or bedroom dominiating abilities.
The mind fuck produces the biggest orgasm of them all. The intellectual connection is the most important to me. In other words, if i don't like You as a person i will never submit to You as a Dominant. Still wanna chat?  |
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| Age: 23 |
| Hesperia,
California |
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