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Pan Female Submissive, 35,  Tampa area, Florida
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I do not bullshit ... and neither should you ...

Yes, I am a BBW ... and I not only carry it well, I am not insecure in any form about it ... if you can't handle that ... then pass my profile ... I have no need for childish bs.

What I can offer

Well .. for starters .. I can offer a good intelligent conversation, opinions, desires and be able to articulate myself in a reasonable fashion .. even if we do not see things on the same level I always seem to find a way to find common ground.

Unshakable Loyalty

When I have found Him .. I offer the kind of loyalty that is not able to be broken, by person, place, thing or time.

Unconditional love

I love hard .. and fierce ..It is the kind of love that time it's self stops for .. The kind of love that pushes me each and every day to surpass what I thought I knew, break through barriers I never dreamed I could and stand (or kneel) beside the one I call Master.

Undeniable Trust

When I find Him, the trust I have for him is complete ... without a moments hesitation, without fear, and without regret I trust him enough to lay my life in his hands .. to never place me in harms way or put me in a situation that I can not handle .. though his hand, love,guidance and domination, I will Trust him with all that I have.

Unquestionable Communication

This to me is very important .. though communication we find out our desires, needs, wants, hopes, dreams, limits, boundaries ... along with a many other different things we need to know of ourselves .. and each other .. though this Strong Communication .. We can achieve anything our hearts desire without leaving it to chance.

I look for a Man who can and has done this before ... Someone who I can Love, Trust, Communicate with, who is both kind and strict, affectionate but stern and compassionate but also structured .. a Balance .. Without question ... I can not and should not settle for less then this .. if I do, the one I hurt is myself ... and I can not allow that to happen.

If he is out there .. let him come find me ... Let me embrace him .. and make his Presence known .. both in my mind .. and in my heart...until then ... I will remain











 Submissive Female

 Tampa area 







Actively Seeking:


 Lives For:

 Mental Bondage

 Alternative Medicine





 Amusement Parks

 Art Galleries

 Coffee Shops

 Renaissance Faires



 Breast Play



 Hair Pulling

 Housework Service


 Massage (Giving)

 Clothing Selection

 Public Play

 Role Playing

 Sensory Play






 Paranormal Phenomena






 Anal Play

 Electrical Play


 Masks (Wearing)

 Outdoor Bondage

 Suspension Bondage

 Vacuum Stimulation

 Curious About:

 Canes and Crops

 Erotic Hypnosis

 Fire Play

 Medical fetish play

 Modern Primitivism

 Orgasm Control


 Wax Play

 Hard Limits:





 Pony/Puppy Roleplay


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Journal Entries:
4/25/2013 4:57:20 PM

Some wonderful and living changing events will be happening very soon and I look forward to them....


I hope everyone finds the one that matches them ... and appeals to their desires.


Best Wishes



4/13/2013 9:25:25 PM

This site is hysterical ... 


All those names with Master Dom Lord Supremeblack bull ...etc in them ... have me almost hitting the floor in tears laughing ... 


A True Master does not approach a sub with "Bitch on your knees and suck my cock" 


or all the better 


"You will address me as SirMasterDom" ... 


*Dies laughing*


Who are they really trying to convince ...? 


I just think it's funny .... and those who have those titles ... can rest assured ... not only will I not answer your emails ... I will delete it without reading it and Block your profile ... because honestly ... people like that are a complete and utter waste of time, space and skin.





3/31/2013 8:44:27 PM

Understand something boys .... 

I am not here to have sex or get laid, I do not need this site for such trite bullshit. 

But I can tell you this with all assurance .... 

Players ... will get caught ... now or later ... makes no difference .... 

The only one you hurt, is yourself ... because it takes little effort for me to block you.

3/20/2013 6:37:31 PM

At the very least .... understand that those you blow off now, could of been the ones you were looking for while wasting your time with those who do not deserve it.




3/18/2013 4:48:40 PM

So .. today was an interesting day ... Made a few new friends ... and have enjoyed many of the conversations I've had today .. but one that sticks in my mind that find hysterical ... when a Dom asks me ... why are your emotions chained, it turns into a series of back and forths ... until finally ... I get this as a reply ... 


I do not disagree with what you state, however, you speak nothing of service or anything you offer "Him"...only of what He can do for you.....definitely a red flag for anyone in this lifestyle on a serious and long term basis.



Now ... lets see here ... if he EVEN bothered to read my entire profile, it states exactly what I offer ... in bold print ... and I took much time making this profile, as I wanted it to reflect the kind of woman and submissive I am ... So ... in essence .. I got insulted not to mention a "dom" assuming such things ... had he even read my profile, that ignorant statement wouldn't of been made .... to the Doms on CM ... this is the kind of B S we see, all the time ... so forgive us ... if we move a little slower ... 


This was just too funny not to share ... 



3/7/2013 7:50:42 PM

"Don't make a permanent decision for your temporary emotion."

Truer words were never spoken

3/3/2013 2:50:36 AM

some people just have no damn sense of humor ... 

10/15/2012 9:00:12 AM

Peep this ... and know that I mean it ....


there are millions of stars surrounding millions of planets,circling around a single point in this universe ... and that point is Not you.... So get over it ....

8/25/2012 12:47:07 PM

If you are unable to be real with yourself

Chances are you will NEVER be real with anyone else.

the fakes and frauds that linger on this site are astounding ... and make me think I'm thankful for what and who I have in my life.

I'm on here to play games with peoples emotions or screw around and get laid.

If you have no sense of humor, personality or heart ... Pass Me By

Because We won't click ... trust me ...

just because I am a submissive woman, does not mean I am a carpet or will roll over for the first man who says hello to me ... and any submissive with any kind of sense or Value won't do it either.

7/14/2012 5:30:22 AM

Hmm ... random thought early in the morning ...

If you have no faith in someone else ... then why should they have faith in you?

6/24/2012 5:39:43 AM

Wow ... Some people on here are more full of shit then others ... lol

If you are looking to start a conversation and someone actually attempts it .. and you give a one word reply ... no matter how many pretty big words you use in your profile ... you're still not what you claim to be ...

check yourself ... just because you have a "dick" doesn't make you a "god", "Dom" "lord", "Master", "Daddy" or what ever the hell you wanna call yourself ... you say you know how to figure out women ... well, we also know how to figure out men who are so full of themselves, they have no room for anyone or anything else other then their own ego.

So let this be a lesson to you ... If you want to approach me and have an intelligent, fun and real conversation, I welcome them all!! But if you're going to sit here, stroke your own ego and think you are gods gift to women because you have a big dick, I'm going to be there one to you to fuck yourself with that dick, laugh at you for being a complete and utter moron and from that moment in time, Never think of you again ...because honestly ... you aren't worth it.


6/9/2012 8:38:38 PM

Newbies are so damned irritating ... and so are the fakes ... geez ...

If someone looks at a profile, they are NOT by Any means obligated to write you a fucking email ... so try not to get on a high-horse when someone doesn't email you after looking at your profile .. if they have some kind of valid interest in you, give them time to come up with an intelligent And articulate email so it doesn't sound so damned cookie-cutter ... or god forbid, bubble-headed.

I am not nor is any other sub or for that matter Dom out there, obligated to write you an email upon looking at a profile ... and those who seem to think we should ... should really take a long look at this little thing called .. Reality ....

I will never overtly treat someone in a rude fashion because that isn't how I am ... However .. if you do email me ... whether or not you are a Dom, sub, switch, Domme, what have you and you flat out accuse me of being rude just because I didn't email you when I looked at your profile ... chances are ... you are going to get a rude and very abrupt reply ... See, this way, you aren't made to be a liar when calling me rude in the first place ... so I'm doing you a favor ... lol


6/9/2012 6:15:21 AM

I can understand certain people not wanting to post pictures of themselves on their profile ... I myself, do not post a picture on mine due to the fact that most people on here seem to be extremely judgmental ... but here is what you need to know.

I am a soft, sexy, curvy Italian BBW ... with more then enough confidence in myself and my own abilities ... I just get sick and tired of men on this site always wanting to see more then what I have ... it's redundant.

So now that you have some kind of baseline of what I might look like, you are welcome to message me ... if however, I do not fit into your "Ideal" sub, don't be rude about it ... just simply pass by.


6/3/2012 4:04:00 AM

You know what I find amusing ... are these new profiles that pop up on here .. and there are so many it is hard to keep track of them. That always want to set "rules" down for someone they have never met, never bonded with and think for a moment that those rules are going to be "respected".

It is my experience (More then ten years of it mind you.) Respect is Earned over time, it is never flat out given, nor is trust, because that is just ... stupid....who are we really trusting and respecting, a name on a screen?

Oh, oh, oh, and what I LOVE to see. Profiles who insist on proper grammar when you read their profile every other word is either mis-spelled or god help me, they use slang ... I'd rather poke my eye out with a spoon to see that shit. I mean really, yes, we can communicate in an adult fashion .. but do not be so quick to point out others mistakes ... if you can not handle someone pointing out yours ... I know I make plenty, so I don't judge ... lol

Enjoy the rest of your weekend all!!

~ ChainedEmotions~

5/7/2012 4:15:40 AM

Again ... this just simply amazes me .. I see so many men on this site who are "Actively seeking" A submissive, or a woman with a care taker nature ... and they go in length in their profile to describe her as well as themselves ... but when they are approached (respectfully I might add) You hear or see nothing of them ... hmmm kind of makes you wonder doesn't it?


Listen gentlemen ... If you wish to gain a lady's respect and submission, communication is a 2 way street ... you can't just drop the ball whenever you choose ...pick it back up and say "I'm a Dom" ... because that isn't what it's called ... that's called being a player .. looking around the site until something more interesting pops up and if it doesn't then an only then do you even consider responding ... You loose out more then you would ever gain, but I fear my words will fall upon deaf ears.


That being said ... If you wish to Maintain and actually hold a conversation and get to know me ... please do so ... but do not expect me to simply fall all over myself because a guy with a penis messages me ... I mean really? ... lol

4/22/2012 11:29:46 AM

I find it both hysterical and sad that when you reach out to someone who is new to collarme and offer them perhaps another site to go to where there are not so many fakes, frauds and wannabe's only on here to get laid ... and they ask for a picture ... and you decline ... they get hostile, toss out vulgar names and become down right rude ...



Why is it ... men come to this site really anymore? To get laid ... because that's seems to fit the pattern with 99% of the men on this site ... and I find it irritating that when I offer to help someone ...they act childish and get all pissy because I don't want to give them a picture ... it's my right not to, and no one would ever convince me differently ...


Get over yourself ... you are not a "God" ... just because you have a penis ... lol

3/22/2012 1:43:44 PM

It simply amazes me ... how some people act so damn immature and jump off deep ends when there is no real reason to ... lol


I don't come online to say hi to someone, and oh my goodness ... they leave a status message of a childish nature about not saying hi and I delete you ... really?! LOL


Not everyone lives online ... not everyone is able to get online ... and since I'm not owned by you ... you have no right to say otherwise, nor do I have to answer to you or even explain myself.


So ... if you wanna act like a pissy, know it all, I'm Da King of my shit ... and act like that ... lmfao you aren't the king of anything ... Grow the Fuck up.

3/9/2012 7:24:56 AM

If you're into games .. then my best advice is to go to wal-mart and buy one.


I grow tired of this site and the frauds on here .. who claim to be "all that" and feed you the lines of "You are exactly what I've been looking for." Then all of the sudden vanish, stop talking to you for no reason what so ever.


Seriously .. Grow up .. and do not come back to me months later saying you them, you miss talking or laughing or you haven't had the connection you have had with others like you have with them ... get over yourself ..


We won't be anyone's backup girl ...or Doormat ... and if that's what you're into, then pass by my profile because I have no time for people who can't be honest with themselves .. let alone honest with me.

2/12/2012 2:39:10 PM

Ya know what I find funny ... and sad ... lol


To see the guys that I have talked to in the past ... months and months later ... hating on certain kinds of women ... and making that known .. then they ask why they can't find anyone who is real ... hmmm ... Well the real women .. aren't going to want to go anywhere near a man who is judgmental or obviously full of that kind of negativity. 



What I find funnier ... is a year can go by and the guy who said " I don't think this is going to work" ... comes back to me ... and not only wants to talk to me .. wants me to be his because ... and I quote .. "No one has treated me like you have, no one made me smile the way you have ... and I can't stop thinking about you."


I mean really? Where does it say that a submissive .. has to go down roads like this and tolerate being put thru a ringer just because a Dom is either interested in them, or decided to figure out they really were real ... really were honest, really were this loving and caring ... and are we really suppose to just turn over ... and be thankful someone is interested? Hmmm *Ponders*

12/31/2011 12:15:11 PM

I hope everyone has a wonderful and blessed New Year!

12/25/2011 1:32:37 AM

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to all the wonderful friends that I have made both past and future. I hope the Holiday brings you great joy.

12/4/2011 12:48:18 AM

never lie to me .... lying means a broken trust ... a broken trust means there is no way on this earth I am going to let you any where near my heart.


You will be eventually found out, by me, friends who know me ... or perhaps both. Once you are found out ... you will no longer be welcomed in my life.


I do not like Drama ... so please, if you can not keep yourself 100% real .. then pass by my page.


I will state this again ... I am Not submitting to women .. Period ...

11/18/2011 8:32:18 PM

No .. I will not surrender to you simply because you ask me to, or tell me to ...


No, I am not mistaken as an easy target for you to play your little mind games with.


No, I am not the one who is in this for sex .. there is so much more to the lifestyle then that.


No, I will not submit to any woman ... no matter how well you ask me, or what you think you do differently then someone else might.

No, I will not be your cash cow ... And you will NOT live off my income .. Get a damn job!


Yes .. for the single one who supports me, loves me, teaches me, guides me, protects me, encourages me, gives me structure, balance and purpose, who allows me to be myself and accept me for who I am and creates that bond between us that is unbreakable ... I will give you my submission and along with that ... all of me ... 


If you can not and are not able to do any of the above stated under "YES" ... then pass me by ... Because It will be a waste of effort to get me to change my mind.

11/15/2011 4:09:41 AM

Yep ... I have pictures .. No I don't post them here ... but yes, if you are interested in speaking with me ... and are not a picture collector .. then you are welcome to ask me for one ..


I am not shy by any means, I have just learned that there are many people on this site who are not who they say they are ... so if you would like to talk with me, you are more then welcome to.



10/29/2011 10:17:50 PM

This to me is very simple ... Mean what you say and say what you mean or it is best to say nothing at all.


If you email me and tell me you have interest in speaking with me ... you show it ... if you dodge me or ignore the email I have sent after telling me you wish to speak with me ... do not expect a warm reception ...


I'm not the female on this site who needs to find stability or even confidence in a Dominant, I have that in myself already, I am not a door mat and I am not an XBOX ... so seriously ... stop playing.

10/26/2011 12:43:23 PM

I find this amusing ... the Doms who say " I look for inexperienced slaves" Or Those who will only collar slaves that have little to no experience ...


I mean really ... Yes, as a very experienced submissive, I know my rights, I know who I am, I know what I will and will not do ... but really? ... lol


Finding this often on here, esp in younger guys below the ages of 31 but above the ages 50 .. LOL


A Strong Dominant will want a Strong sub at his side


A Weak Dominant will want a Weak sub at his side


Which would you take more pride in ... someone who you know that will stand at your side and be there for you when you need it.


Or someone with no backbone, no sense of self, no understanding of life, that will run the first time it gets "Scary" ?



Need I say more?



10/17/2011 8:35:10 AM

Perhaps making myself clear yet again warranted ... lol 


You show interest ... you keep interest ... you keep communication open ...


You drop interest, do not expect me to chase after you like some little puppy dog thankful you are showing me Any kind of attention ... that won't happen here.


You lie to me .. Once ... we are done ... This lifestyle is All about Trust ... and if you lie to me about anything, that means I can not trust you, which means ... There can be nothing between us but air ...


So there you have it ... a submissive's standards are no different then a Dominants ... and I won't merely settle for just anyone ... again, I know my worth and what I offer and what kind of heart I have and I will not just chase you around because you make money, have a big house, want a harem of women or have a big dick ... get real ... lol


I will not chase, I will not beg for attention, I will not go back to someone who has lied to me ... and if you don't like it .. move to the next profile ... I do not need a Dominant to find security in myself, I have that ... and if you are intimidated by it ... then find someone weaker you can control and over power ... my submission is meant for the one Dominant who understands it, embraces it along with me ...

10/7/2011 5:29:13 PM

Maybe ... I have not made myself clear ... but I will say it again .. in smaller words ...


I am NOT interested .. in female dominants of any kind ... so do not message me and tell me you wish for a friendship then tell me to contact you off site ... you will be ignored.


Do not message me and tell me you think we are a fit, because at the end of the way you will still be sitting on your little computer scrolling over profiles while I will most likely be with my girl and enjoying my life.


Do not message me ... if you have an ego complex and think you are just gods gift ... because honestly honey, if you were, ya wouldn't be here ...


so, I guess what I'm trying to say is .. Do not message me ... lol


Thanks =)



9/30/2011 2:18:01 PM

It comes to my attention that people often bail when things get rough or if mistakes were made ... or they choose, not to talk to the person they hurt, by whatever means they did it ... and that to me, is not what I would define as noble.


So to these people .. I say simply this .. Mean what you say, Say what you mean, or it is probably best you say nothing at all.

9/24/2011 10:35:20 AM

Well ... here are my thoughts for the day ... lol


If you think for a single moment that I am not capable of "handling you" and you see fit, even after a sweet and extended hello email, to tell me, flat out, I can not handle you ... then perhaps it would be better for you to just not message me back ...


Because chances are, and lets me honest here ... you're ego is probably bigger then your dick, and I've handled much bigger ...


enjoy the weekend everyone!!



9/16/2011 6:11:01 AM

As I sit here this morning .. sipping my coffee and relaxing for the first time in a week .. I receive an email from someone who wished to try and lecture me about how my conduct in my journal entries are ... and what I should not do ...


Yes, I put in my profile and journal entries what I think, what I feel, and how I am .. I have ever single RIGHT to do that ... and no one will ever tell me differently ... if you do not like what you read .. click the next button .. it's that simple ...


Before you go off telling me, I am judging someone else ... and how I do not have the "Right" to do so .. instead you should ask yourself ... before you assume something that you know nothing about, before, during or after the fact of conversation with someone, which someone posted a journal entry about ... do not email them telling them they are wrong for judging someone ... because you infact did your self taking it upon yourself to defend someone who isn't worth defending ... but not knowing that because you get on your soapbox defending saying I have no right to judge ...


Everyone on this site .. Everyone ... judges in one form or another ... and to deny that is living in denial ... I am free to write about what I wish in my journal entry ... I have broken no rules of collarme and I have left no names .. so if you do not what to know what I write about ... then ... perhaps you should not read it ...


If you wish to lecture someone about judging ... then it would be advised not to judge the situation before giving your "Defense" ...


Those who live in glass houses ... should never throw stones ...

9/11/2011 10:10:30 AM

I had the unfortunate issue of running into someone on this site who appeared very real ... but when confronted with another woman, a female friend of mine ... he fell right into the worst trap known to man ... I don't have a sub, I am not interested in anyone else and I would love to have you ... all the same things he said to me ... mmhmm ... and when confronted with it ... he continues to deny it ... and swears up and down, I didn't do it ... but when logging into her email, it was very clear he had ...


To the Doms that are out on Collarme ... yes, us subs do stick together ... and in order to know someone isnt playing a game, Doms should be tested .. just like subs should ... to establish trust ... and if you fail .. at least be man enough to admit ... you got caught ... and if ya can't do that .. then you have no business being on this site to start with ..


As I have said before ... I am not an XBOX .. so please .. don't play with me ...

9/10/2011 10:38:05 AM

Geez, this is too funny. I keep reading profiles where there are so many errors in grammar, and spelling it's not even close to being funny ... but oh they "Demand" submission ...LOL


If you can't even spell the simplest words right, with Spell-check built right into the email system ... then you don't deserve a submissive ... you deserve a slap ... lol

9/10/2011 5:17:59 AM

Just because you have the word "Dominant" next to your name on a site, on the internet does NOT entitle you to automatic submission and respect ... For all we know, you could be some lil boy living in mommy's basement using her computer ...


Submission and respect are both earned ... and those who can not understand that, are doomed to end up alone constantly bitching because they can never find someone real ... We will not fall all over your and lavish you with attention and submission because what, you send an email and say hello? Oh or demanding it in your profile ... here is something to think about ...


Submissives and Slaves ... Who are not collared or owned, hold no damn loyalty to you what so ever ... you have no right to demand anything of any of us ... and the sooner you figure that out, and the sooner you understand it takes time, trust, communication, honesty, respect and love to make a D/s or even M/s relationship work, the faster you will find the one you are searching for ...



8/28/2011 2:41:38 AM

It comes to my attention ... that those who say they are interested ... stick around for a while and then disappear over time, though they are very insistent they are wanting you ... and even charming ... very articulate and somewhat convincing ... 


the fact of the matter is very simple ... I have yet to meet someone who is from the state of Ohio, who is not completely and utterly full of shit ... lol It saddens me, that all the men back home in Georgia ... can be more real, more honest and man up faster and easier then these ppl who live up here ... it is both heartbreaking and sad ...


If you come to me, know that I am an honest woman, who will give you the better part of the doubt, but I do not fall easy ... nor do I submit easily ... it does take time to do that, and develop that kind of trust between two people ... I do not take this lifestyle as a "Game" or a "Role play" and neither should you ... I am more then capable of holding an intelligent, articulate conversation with someone who truly wishes to get to know me ... but I will not be "Forced" or "Backed into a corner" and made to submit simply because you have "Dominant" next to your name ...


So, I ask something that is very simple, but seems very hard to find ... epically on here ... Be real ... don't fake, don't pretend, don't wander off, don't be anyone other then who you are ... because at the end of the day, all you have is your word ... and if your word isn't any good ... then that only leads one to believe neither are you ... 



8/25/2011 3:06:42 AM

So .. a few days ago ... my submissive tendencies were questioned ... and put onto a chopping block .. and I have to say ... I found it rather interesting ... the conversation I had with this one Particular guy .. 


After an extensive txt messaging chat ... no, we never breached actually talking over the phone .. only ever through txt message .. which raises a flag to me, that someone who insists they are interest but never reach out to contact her beyond a txt ... but I let it go and decided to see the good, rather then the bad.


We began chatting .. and upon chatting with this ... guy ... He starts questioning me ... and my intentions as a submissive ... asking if I am real ... If I am truly submissive, when I tell him flat out .. No dominant has the right to force a submissive to do Anything, when she is not owned or even under consideration ... and he wishes to argue that point .. telling me ... "All submissive women want to be forced to an extent" ... Yes .. those where his exact words .. and I sat here with the better part of 14yrs exp R/T in the lifestyle to tell him, He has no right to back a woman in a corner and force her to do something she is not comfortable doing ... Yes, there is a power exchange, when and only when she becomes comfortable enough to surrender that precious part of her to him ... but only speaking with him less then a week ... yes, less then 7days time ... He is insistent ... that ALL submissive women want to be "Forced to an extent" ... and I greatly disagree ... then he starts questioning my submissiveness ... asking me ... "Are you truly a submissive ... if you are prove it .." .. Wow .. lol


Then he goes on to tell me, Don't message me ... until you have written about me in your journal and prove to me that you are a submissive ... What do I owe a man, who has not yet collared me ... not yet considered me ... Nor Even MET in person ... to prove anything to him other then sitting back using the common sense and experience I have in the lifestyle ... *Ponders in thought*


The biggest mistake ... was He never did stipulate what to write .. but to mention him in my profile ... So ladies and gentlemen ... the man who seems to wish to argue that all submissive women need to be forced ... backed into a corner ...and made to do something they are not comfortable with, because they must first prove themselves to someone they have never met, never spoken to, not owned by or even under consideration ... Is on collarme ...and his name .. is MrMarshall



8/14/2011 4:16:44 AM

Mean what you say ... and say what you mean ... be Man or Woman enough to stand by it ... don't make endless excuses for it ... don't try to use copouts for it ...


If you are on here looking for something ... or someone, and you continue to say you have a valid interest .. then don't be a weenie and bail out without so much as saying a word to Her .. or even Him ...


It's about being a mature adult ...and if you can't stand by what you say, then it's probably best you say nothing at all.

8/3/2011 4:05:43 PM

Know this ... and understand it ... Just because my title says submissive, does not mean I am not intelligent and it does not mean I am an easy target ...


So, with that being said ... If you are not as real as your profile, and I find out within the first five minutes of talking to you ... Expect me, to call you on it ... And if you don't like it ... then perhaps you should take a long look in the mirror before you even approach me.

7/22/2011 10:08:57 AM

Fakes everywhere ... is this site even real anymore ...

7/21/2011 11:11:23 PM

I listen to you so called Doms bitch and gripe and piss and whine and moan about never finding anyone on this site who is remotely real ... never finding someone who could hold the passion, or surrender that you desire ... never finding anyone who can and will show herself to you ... spilling all that you have to offer, in a profile ... upon empty words that fall on a page ... And when one .. who is not only true to herself, but also to you ... and comes to you with the most humble regard ... as well as honest ... You dismiss her based upon what ... body size....Are you serious?!?


Submission .. does not come from a woman's physical form ... it can be altered in the course of time .. her passion, her submission ... her soul, comes from the heart she has .. and the love that it contains ... you are so quick to judge thinking you offer what others can not, will not and do not ... and yet you wish to put yourself up on some kind of unreachable rope ... and have the Gaul ... to sit back and judge those ... who are more real then you would ever hope to become ... 


If you want to find someone who is as real as what you claim to look for ... attempt to get to know the woman before simply banishing her and casting her aside, as if she would not matter ... As a Dominant, you are suppose to uphold those who are true to the lifestyle and themselves ... not treat them with that kind of disregard .. and it sickens me to death ... and I am so tired of hearing all of you bitch ... about what you "Cant find" ... OPEN your eyes ... and perhaps what you seek, will in fact, be standing right in front of you ...

7/19/2011 2:58:32 AM

Let me make this quite clear ... for those of you who do have a difficult time understanding what I mean ...





7/14/2011 11:51:29 AM

Announcement ...


If the only purpose that you message me is that you wish to get laid ...


You would stand a better chance crawling up a chickens ass and waiting.






7/11/2011 10:09:25 AM

As of Today .... My life ... Start's over ... open to new horizons .... and embracing life ...and coming out of the shadow's ...

7/2/2011 12:38:20 AM

Okay ... really .... this is just ... laughable ...


What Dom in his right mind .. is going to post a picture of his dick on his profile ... as his main picture ... and then go on to say .. and I am a true Master and you will submit to this large cock I have ... what the fuck!??


We do not submit because you have a huge cock, or one that could fuck a cherrio and not break it .. (insert laugh here) I am getting so tired of seeing these little wannabe's filling up space on profiles ... Ladies ... any True Master would never put his "dick" out on display and tell you to submit to the dick ... waving it around like what, you're going to hypnotize me with it ... "You're eyes are getting sleeeepy ... Your body is getting heaaaavy ... You will surrender to my massive throbbing cock!!" .. Get serious will ya please~!


If this is how you start out your profile as a Dominant ... it is nothing short of a joke ...


Men with less then admirable honor ... need not reply ...

7/1/2011 7:13:17 PM

The reason for no picture ... is not because I am ashamed of who I am, or I try to hide myself from the world ... it is fairly simple ...


I am very tired of these so called "doms" who like to picture collect and then find some obserd excuse as to not to talk to you ... or just don't bother replying after several email exchanges when asking for pictures and telling you how "beautiful you are" ...


So if you come forth and ask for a picture ... and I decline .. please understand ... I am very tired of being sought after for "nude" pictures or various ways to help you get off .. I have them .. and it is still within my right as a Submissive, so not share them until I feel comfortable ... if you can not respect that, then you are not the "Dom" I am seeking.


Less then Honorable men .. need not apply ...

6/29/2011 10:10:02 PM

This lifestyle ... is suppose to be about patience and understanding ... communication and respect ... Love and admiration ... service and loyalty ... dominance and submission ... 


Somewhere along the way I think people get lost in what this lifestyle really is ... Their actions and how they speak .. speak as to who they are and how they handle things ...


Actions are always louder then the words they speak, or the keys they type .. I hold no ill will towards those who wish to disagree ... but I do know who I am .. and I do know that I am a good woman ... and a good submissive ... with a golden heart ... that would never do anything to hurt another ... and that is something I can take to my grave ... and that is something No Dominant (Or submissive) will ever convince me otherwise.


I have no issue speaking up, or speaking my mind, but I would never be directly insulting unless someone warranted it .. Speaking from someone who is looking to get to know others ... it seems impossible when certain individuals never give them a chance to speak and only their word matters ... -shakes head-



6/29/2011 9:52:42 PM

Communication .. is Key in any relationship and misunderstandings happen ... sometimes .. words get read in the wrong contxt then they were intended ... and when that happens ... I would hope ... that someone would take the time, to sit back and evaluate the person they are speaking to ... and wonder if she was indeed .. being disrespectful and insulting ... or if perhaps she meant something all together ... and give her a chance to explain herself ... but apparently I am mistaken ...


If you can not show the ability to communicate with more then just yourself and your own point of view .. and not at least give her the chance to explain what she means ... and know that she speaks from her heart ... but instead, rip her head off .. without so much as a hesitation ... and not even give the emails ... she has sent, a second look, to see, she was trying to understand where someone had come from ... but rather focus on words on a screen that were meant in jest and nothing more then that ... Perhaps her humor might of been put in the wrong place ... but in my opinion ... to sever her head from the rest of her body ... over a misunderstanding ... Is not something, an honorable man would do ...

6/25/2011 10:44:52 PM

It's irritating ... when you hear and see so many profiles on here, who welcome "communication" or show some kind of interest in that ... you send them emails, see that they have been opened .. and yet they don't respond?


Why on earth would you even bothering opening an email and not responding when you've already started a previous conversation ...or are you that childish that you can't simply speak up and say I'm no longer interested ... this site is filled with so many people who like playing online games, the lairs, the wannabe's, the fakes .. it's redundant ...


This lifestyle is difficult enough ... then to have to keep running into people like you who make it that much harder ... for fucks sake .. Grow up ..

6/15/2011 11:23:27 PM

Puzzling ... that sooo many Doms want to complain about someone not being able to carry on a conversation with someone ... or they look to find someone who is "real" or someone who knows who they are .. and yet when they are confronted with this kind of woman ... they blow her off completely ... and it seems to become the norm on here .. and it's just sickening ...


I grow very tired of the fakes that linger on this site .. those who can not stand by their word ... even older Doms .. Yes, I've spoken to men from the ages of 25-50yrs old .. and they all do the exact same thing, games, playing, looking for the Bigger Better Deal, biding their time ... or simply just being completely full of shit ... and it's heart breaking to see or experience ... you doms wonder where all the good subs are ... and where all the real women are ... well .. when you are confronted with this kind of childish, immature behavior from various different men, from all age ranges ... it takes it's toll ... and lets be honest, if women were to do this to you, you'd get angry too .. so don't say you wouldn't.


If you can't be real ... and Be a MAN and Stand by your word .. and mean what you say ... you are better off to just not approach me, or anyone else ...

6/14/2011 1:32:14 AM

Wow ... lol I've seen lots of profiles on collar me as of late ... and lots of new profiles ... and some of the things I see concern me ... and make me laugh ... :D


Seeing subs .. and "doms" put up silly quotes, with nothing in their profile .. no information on who they are ... where they come from ... what they are seeking, their goals, desires, interests in what kind of servant they want or need or what kind of Dom or Domme they desire ... it leaves entirely too much out there for interpretation and most often I seem to find out these profiles are of ppl who aren't actually "lifestyle" but more ... I'm a Dominant man .. or I like to be submissive ... with no actual experience in the lifestyle and the responsibilities it takes to wield the sword ... or submit to another.  when creating a profile .. one would think this is a glimpse into the soul of the person who is behind the monitor ... and if you wish to know something of them ... that is where it should be found ...


To Catch a fish ... One must First Bait The Hook ... am I not right?


I dont knock newbies coming in and checking it out ... or seeing Whats out here, hell, everyone has to start somewhere ... but Don't come off with the impression that you are "Experienced" or worse ... a "pro" when you've never known what it takes to run a dungeon ... or be involved in an Actual "Community" Doms and subs alike ... or what knocks at your door ... could either destroy you (thats to the submissives out there who think they know what on earth they are asking for, when they say NO LIMITS"  Or to the Doms ... what you might find ... isn't a lifestyle submissive, whose core tells her she submits in ALL Aspects of life, and not just kinky fun in the bedroom ... Do your research, watch and listen to how others speak .. how they present themselves ... if they Get defensive ... or attack when you attempt to help ... all these will tell you exactly what you need to know both in the lifestyle and of life.


Happy Hunting Everyone :D

6/13/2011 5:16:45 AM

Mean what you say .... and Say what you mean ... or nothing that you do say will be worth hearing ...

6/11/2011 11:43:36 PM

When you have found the one you search for ... your work is not yet over ... it has merely begun. For the Dominant and the submissive .. her work to dedicate herself to him and be willing and open to training and seeing things in a different light and in different paths that he shows her ... allowing her to become an open flower basking in the sun .. rather then that closed flower hiding in the shade ... she is his ... her heart, her soul belong to him, her love and her entire being belong to him ...


This is not a responsibility that should be taken lightly ... for Him ... he needs to reassure her .. be there for her ... dedicate himself as much as she does to him, if not more. to be her muse .. her guardian ... her strength ... her love ... her determination ... her motivation and many more things that combine what it is that make their relationship work.


Simply finding someone ... who "fits" isn't enough ... that is only the beginning ... and if you can not give her the same things that she gives and offers you ... then it is not only unfair to her ... for not getting back what she needs ... but also yourself ... because any submissive woman ... who doesn't get fed all that she needs to ensure she grows closer to him each day .. will in fact suffocate and down the line be forced to leave, not because she does not love him ... but because there is no future ...

5/31/2011 2:42:28 AM

Let me specify ... I do have pictures ... but do to what is going on in my life I will not display them on my profile ... However, if we begin to start talking then I will of course send them ... this does not mean I will send them to every man who says hello ... as I am sure you would not do that for every servant who would say hello to you.


I feel that submissives need to be a little more guarded then the Doms do .. after all, there is no one looking out for us .. but ourselves until we find the one who can do ... just that.


Thank you

5/20/2011 12:37:56 AM

Too all the female Dominant's on this site .. do not waste your time or Mine to think I am going to submit to you ... FAT CHANCE. So let it be known, I will Never  EVER submit to another woman ... Don't flatter yourself to think you will be "the first" It just wont happen.


Friendships are a stretch ... but the simple fact remains .. I'm a Switch ... Can you guess who I top?


enjoy reading my profile ladies ... XD



5/9/2011 8:23:28 AM

And never lie ... never say something you do not mean ... never ask for something that you do not want ... never break your word to someone who you wish to call a friend ... The only two things you can take with you when you die .. are your Spirit and your WORD ... and to fail at keeping your word ... makes you less of a person ... and speaks volumes as to your character ...and your ability to be a real friend to someone .. or even a real Master or dom ... or whatever you wish to call yourself ...


I stand by word ... my heart my soul and my compassion for life ... I never break my word .. and will never break my word, if there is even a hint that I could not for-fill something ...then I would never give my word on it ... You should do the same ... and if you can not ... pass by this profile ... I don't deal with a man who doesn't know how to keep his word.



5/9/2011 8:04:44 AM

Mind-games ... Let me express how number 1, they do not work on me ... and number two .. I do not fall for tricksters or selfish little boys trying to be men ...


If you can not express what you are feeling ... in a civil manner ... then you have no reason to speak with me. I do not display childish antics ... nor will I be subject to deal with them ... I'm a grown,mature and good hearted woman/sub ... I do not see the reason for not being able to discuss issues in a civilized manner ...and if you are unable to do this ... then it is best that you step away now ... for Any Master/Dom who is unable to express what he thinks or feels ... then it leaves the sub/woman in a state of limbo ... never knowing what or how something will be taken ...


I grow tired of men like this ... the charming men who have charismatic presence and can talk their way into anything ... only to find .. they suck ... at communication ... but have the Gaul to call themselves .. a Master ... -sighs- Disturbing ... 

5/7/2011 2:02:08 PM

As of Today ... I am no longer interested in finding much of anyone on the site of collarme. .. It is either someone is interested in only Sex ... or for some apparent reason (Beyond my own knowledge) I am not of the taste of those who are on here ... So I will take a hiatus for a while ... With all the heart that I possess I love this life ... and can see no other way for me to live ... but it seems ... others continue to disagree .. so with a heavy heart I leave for a while ... Best of luck to those who are on their journey.



4/30/2011 5:49:08 PM

Don't flatter yourself and think for a single moment, just because you say you are the best, does it mean I have to take your word upon that blanket statement.....


I am so sick and tired of these wannabe show off "doms" who think they have their shit together ... getting on this kind of a site and demanding and praising the fact they are "the best" at what they do ... yet they have no idea what on earth they are looking for ... and even if they did, they wouldn't come close to recognizing it if it slapped them in the face with a frozen salmon. 


I tire of this site .. and its drama and it's endless amounts of BS, and Fakes that just make this life that we live that much harder for those of us who are serious. I took a long Hiatus from this site, to only come back to the same thing ... over and over ... And the "Doms" keep wondering ... where are any of the "real" women ... well it's simple Gentlemen, We stay distant ... hiding in the shadows ... being told we are exactly what someone looks for, and with no just cause be dropped off the radar with not so much as even a "Sorry I'm just not interested." I have never been one to complain entirely too much, but this just sickens me ... So if you cross this profile ... and bring your Arrogant, Chauvinistic, I am GOD Attitude ... and show it to me ... I promise you ... I will show you .. where you can stick that attitude ... without hesitation ...A Submissive woman I might be ... but I am far from Stupid .. nor a Doormat and I will not be treated as such.

1/20/2011 10:51:18 AM

I see a lot of profiles on collarme .. and many of which have me in tears laughing so hard .. but this one ... that I came across, has one of the BEST Quotes I think I've ever seen. I can not and will not take credit for it ... but it could not be more true ...


The Difference between a Good Dom, and a Great Dom ... 


A good Dom makes you do his wishes. A great Dom will inspire you to do everything he wants.


1/14/2011 5:28:06 PM

thought for the day;

Any man ... who says the best way to a man's heart is through his stomach ... Hasn't gotten a good enough blowjob! Hehehe

1/11/2011 5:42:02 PM

Wow ... it never fails to amaze me ... these little boys who come to collarme ... no profile, no experience in the actual lifestyle ... with their dick up on their profile ... and they think they have the right ... to talk to a woman .. and call her a bitch, a slut, a whore .. and demand shit from them ...REALLY?!


Geezus boys grow up ... if you wanna get laid .. you can do one of two things ... go to an adult website that caters to that ... or crawl up a chickens ass and wait ...


You run into those who have experience, and know what they are talking about, and they won't even give you a second look ... just because you have a dick on your profile .. does NOT Entitle you to ACT LIKE ONE!

1/7/2011 9:28:27 PM

You know ... i have been on this site for many years .. Yes my profile says Switch .. but most .. seem to want to assume .. it means I switch with men .. this is Incorrect!


I am Dominant with women ONLY ... and what I find appalling ... and down right rude .. is all the so called doms on this site who linger around .. wanting to find someone to talk to, saying they are open to talking with anyone ... even play sessions ... and when you, as a submissive, or female for that matter .. make it a point to reach out, and More then respectfully ... send an email out, inquiring to speak with said dominant, You see the email has been opened ... But there is no reply.


Now I see this a lot on this site ... and have for many years ... and I think it's a joke, for anyone to say they are open to talking with someone, approach me and we can chat ... and yet ... you show no regard for any kind of email you do get ... and dismiss it and I can bet it's because there is no picture up .. Now if I showed titties, ass, cunt pictures or usage pictures .. I would get slammed with emails ... So I tend to have a little more class and respect for myself in that regard. 


I have pictures ... I do not post them due to personal reasons. But I do have them .. but why show them off to everyone on this site .. when at least 80% of the emails I take the time, effort and more then respectful manner to email, never reply? Doesn't make much sense to me ...



10/16/2010 7:21:58 PM
WARNING: Sydney University and all other institutions using this site or its associated sites for projects, or any individual person - You do not have permission from me to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal action

Read the next journal entry to find out why I say this ...

10/16/2010 7:15:18 PM

what I think is truly pathetic .. is someone who joins a collarme site .. or any other site for that matter .. who steals pictures and or information on their profiles .. and submit them as their own thoughts, Ideals or rules.

They expect to be taken seriously .. and not found out they steal information like this .. master4urmind .. you were called out and found out .. you have taken someone elses profile and attempted to submit it as your own .. and collarme's support system and administration have been notified.  and they take less then 3 Days to figure it all out .. It is truly pathetic not to mention childish to take something that does not belong to you .. Grow up People .. this is an adult site, and the disclaimer was on the profile that you took it from .. which means .. you broke the law, free site or not .. once the disclaimer is added to a profile, the person who has taken any kind of information is subject to being arrested.

We as submissives, slaves, Dommes and Doms in this lifestyle take this very seriously ... and you will, in one way or another, be found out, called out and removed. It's a shame that someone must stoop to that level .. but it does happen more often then most can expect.

Until later ... ChainedEmotions

10/3/2010 5:43:23 PM
I am owned .. and if you wish to have communication with me, any and all requests will have to go through my Master ..

For more information, feel free to ask but pls be respectful.

9/27/2010 11:38:46 AM
Many subs and slaves that linger here .. seem to think service and loytality are things that come easily ... I say, nothing that is worth doing, is ever easy ... submission ... is being who you are, accepting challenges and overcoming them, even when you think you are unable., with the hand of the man we call .. Master.

7/17/2010 4:13:05 PM
Things are always not often what they appear to be .. nor the people, places or things we surround ourselves in...

In the past few months, I have learned a great deal about these things, in more depth then I ever thought I would. I was once told, it is never the beginning or the end that matter most .. only the journey ... And we cross paths with those who make strong connections with .. sometimes they last .. sometimes they don't .. it is a part of life, living, loving, learning and pushing forward , even through tough times.

So it begins again ... pushing through time .. learning, seeking, loving, living ... and always being who I was meant to be ....

3/30/2010 8:22:05 AM
And it has happened .. by chance, meeting this wonderful, loving,sexy patient and understanding man that I have such a connection with that it goes beyond words ...

The time we spend talking, seems like it never ends and I never want it to, Drawn to this Man like a moth to a flame .. hearing His voice, feeling His words ... ignites my soul.

I have found, after a long journey, what my heart has hoped to find .. I look no longer .. He has found me .. and within His Strong loving arms, is where I will stay.

3/28/2010 10:34:41 PM
Honesty ...Honesty...Honesty....

Is that really ... such a difficult thing to do?

3/28/2010 2:55:20 PM
If you do not like a woman who has to offer what I do, is willing to do what I do, has the heart and affection, loyalty and desire that I do .. And ..this is important .. Has the a thick,curvy figure .. that I do .. please .. do not disrespect me, by sending me emails that I will just delete and block...

We are all grown adults here ...lets start acting like them .

Inquire Within if interested


3/24/2010 2:38:46 AM
It is human nature to be curious ... and see who is honest and who is not ..

But I wonder if it is human nature .. to be honest and loyal to one .. and the one you give it to, does not return it back to you ..


3/13/2010 9:02:42 AM
I'm off to Cleveland for the day ...

Enjoy your weekend everyone!


2/23/2010 8:02:51 AM
Very excited .. such wonderful plans for next weekend, I can hardly wait!

Smiles happily

I hope everyone's week is a good one!


2/21/2010 8:53:58 AM
It's interesting ...

I read a profile earlier today and something in it brought me to ask a question .. Which I thought was something we could do ..

but what I fail to understand .. is why someone has to have a picture .. to ask a question ... and what baffles me, is why there is no response even when you are polite enough to send the picture attached to the email, when it was merely a question being asked pertaining to something in their profile.


2/20/2010 4:39:42 AM
Revelation Of Self ..

It is not how well you know yourself and it is not how much you know you can give...

It is what you allow others to see, your true self that you hide from the rest of the world that comes alive when you are around someone who sparks that part of you that wants and needs to be brought to life.


2/3/2010 10:04:28 PM
Why is it, when someone wishes to get to know someone, they wish to rush into this quickly ... upon first meetings, please understand most of us who are real, will be a bit skiddish .. due to the site and those who linger here ... but once you have taken the time to get to know her, and her heart ... which may take more then twenty minutes ... she may surprise you.

Nothing that is worth doing is ever easy ... is a motto I live by.


2/3/2010 11:10:36 AM
When emailing someone today asking if they would like to chat and asking what they seek, since they put "ask for info" in their profile .. they respond first by saying ..

If you're looking for a sugar daddy, keep moving.

Really? Is this how Doms answer women on here?

*shakes her head*

1/29/2010 2:52:07 PM
Hopefully, I can clear a few things up ...

while I am a good, strong and stable submissive ... I won't surrender to someone who demands, expects or tells me to do it. thats not being a Master .. thats just being ignorant ..

However, I feel that I must say this, since apparently I did not make it clear in my profile? ..

I am Not Poly ... I will Not Join couples, espically Dominant couples .. and I Will Not .. Ever .. serve a female in any way.

If you can not respect this, then please pass by this profile ... I am just who I am, no more, no less and the one I seek is out there ... and if it takes time to find him, then that is what it will take.



1/26/2010 2:13:59 PM
Before I run out today, I just have to say this before I explode ...

what is with all these "doms" on here who want to show their dicks on their first picture .. seriously ??? Like we surrender to someone who would be dumb enough to believe that we would say

"Oh yes, take me, fuck me like your dirty whore, slut, bitch because you have such a big dick!!"

Really?! ... Good lord ... Put them away boys ... Real Doms approach with respect .. fakes and sharks ... approach with a picture ... live and


1/24/2010 9:37:28 PM
No matter what anyone says or what they do .. one thing that I have been taught still remains ..

A Man, Master or Dom is only as Good as his word ... and if he is unable to keep that, then what does this tell you about him?


1/19/2010 1:22:49 PM
Hmm thought for the day

Now you would think ... or would hope to think anyway ... that most who are on here would be polite and respectful when emailing someone ... Not cold, callus and unfeeling.

so if you would like me to do something, or say something or be a little more clear .. is it too much to ask ... to have manners when doing so?


1/14/2010 5:45:13 PM
Wow .. can someone tell me ... why there are so many video's on here of what should be an introduction of themselves

 when in fact the guys are sitting there jurking off on cam?

Seriously, and you expect any submissive worthwhile to message you?

*Ponders in thought*


1/9/2010 7:59:40 AM
It simply amazes me ... that Doms who run on this site continue to say they are looking for that one woman, that one submissive .. that can give them what they have desired ... love, strength of character, devotion, admiration, loyalty, obedience, and willingness to serve ... and yet when they find her ... they talk a good game .. they say things to keep her interest in the beginning ... and one .. false move .. they do ... Erases it.

I am tired of "the game" ... I am tired of the liars and the fakes and the ones who come on here for thrills and thinking they can have so many women at their feet, saying to them "put yourself under consideration...
I want you as mine"

then turn right around, and tell someone else .. to get in touch with him because he is interested ... now going into this, they both agree they are not poly .. and yet this happens .. So I can honestly say this ..

In the 8yrs .. I have been on this site, between this name, and the other few I have, I am vastly disappointed in what I have found .. and know this ... just as you Doms will Test a submissives loyalty to you .. I will test yours to me .. This is why I remain .. ChainedEmotions.

1/3/2010 11:21:18 AM
Yesterday afternoon and today .. I received bad news .. that one of my closest family members has now passed on ...

I ask that those who email me, please understand I am really not in the frame of mind to discuss what fetishes I have, or have anyone assume I am ignoring them.

It is a difficult time for me .. so I am doing my best to deal with things ...

Thank you,


12/29/2009 8:03:30 AM
So .. earlier today ... I receive a message from someone again, cliaming to be a"Dom" .. when he replies to my asking, what are youseeking in a submissive, he tells me, someone to take care of him in and out of the home and not afraid to make him his money.

So ... being who I am, I ask .. "So you want a sugarmomma" .. this was his reply ...

no...and dont be want it blunt you will be out sucking dick for my money!!!!!!


12/29/09 10:50 AM

Really now ... hmmm .. yet another man trying to pass off as a dom, in order to have an excuse to pimp out his gf while he sits on his tail doing nothing ... Dom? .. ummm no .. and no worries .. he was blocked :)


12/27/2009 7:20:26 PM
If you are not looking for RT .. and Long-term .. then please ... please do not respond to this profile .. I am not here for games, childish behavior, assumptions or internet tag .. I am not the type who will follow you around like a puppy begging for attention ..

if you want a good submissive and a good woman, who will stand by you, support you, love you and surrender to you .. then by all means ... come say hello :)

12/27/2009 6:54:14 PM
A Little Italian ... tends to go a long way *winks*

I have pictures .. i just dont post them here .. if you would like them, please feel free to ask .. but before you inquire ...

Yes .. im a thick woman, but Im built well and the only way to know that, is to ask to see me :)

12/18/2009 4:52:44 PM
Do we remember the statement I made before about getting  replies when asking a simple question ...

I asked who I thought was a Dom ... (who turns out to be a joke) what his version of a Sadist is ... and his reply is .. and I quote ..


This ... gentlemen, is the reason why the true subs on this site get so pissed off so fast ... Granted Im a sub, but that does not mean Im going to sit here and take stupid shit like this ... and allow someone to speak to me in such a disrespectful manner when I was merely asking a question ... seriously ...?

To the .. whatever you want to call yourself, who wrote it ... take your childish antics and go else where ... that is not the behavior of a Dom ... just an ignorant man who plays games.


12/18/2009 5:53:42 AM
Perhaps ... just perhaps ... there is no one real enough anymore to see what a natural sub has to offer ... but please do not mistake .. me for someone who is weak, because of my passion ...

for those who message me, I will always respectfully answer .. but for those who walk around ignorant and blind to the truth .. you will not receive much ...


12/13/2009 12:51:30 PM
If one does not have their word ...

then what do they truly have?

12/8/2009 3:19:06 AM
Only those who have been chained ..

knows what it means to truly be free.


12/4/2009 12:01:50 PM
Honestly ... is there anyone on this site that isn't full of shit, about jokes, bs and wasting someones time and emotions?

It seems there are Too many players and not enough ppl who are real .. and ready ... so I ask, please don't waste my time

What I offer is real, and honest and who I am .. and I expect someone to be the same who contacts me or even views me.

for those who are curious, yes I have pictures, but do not post them. If you are looking for a submissive woman who is truly a natural sub, strong, independent,  and very real .. then that would be me ..

If you are looking for a doormat, or someone you want to degrade and use as some kind of sex toy with no regard for her safety, or the submission she gives .. then move on to the next profile please ... Im not that new .. and I do know how to spot someone who is full of ... fill in the blank ..

Thank you


12/1/2009 7:06:11 AM
I hate Dr's ... and you know what I hate more ... is being told ... "Sorry you can't work" And filling out all those forms you need to fill out .. and them taking their sweet time (over a week and a half) to get to my attorney's office .. dear god ...

Anyone have any suggestions ... I'm told I should of gotten an attorney because it's workman's comp ... and they do like to doddle a lot and avoid payment if they can .. so any advise would be greatly appreciated!


11/25/2009 1:16:35 AM
I find it odd ..

when i run into profiles ... and there is something i am not sure of, out of sheer curiosity .. I am the kind of girl who will ask about it, instead of wonder ... and i cant help but to sit here and ask this ...

why when asking a question of someone who says they would love to help those of us who are new .. they never reply?

Would you just rather someone not ask? *shrugs her shoulders*

i just don't understand ...

11/21/2009 6:48:24 PM
From a submissives point of view to those of you who will read my journal entries ..

Why is it .. when you first talk to someone, they first want to be called "sir" without knowing them, and secondly .. when you first chat with someone .. isn't that a stage of getting to know someone .. to feel them out ... to see where the thoughts lay and how they process information on both parts, not just from one side, but on both? ... I seem to think it would be .. but apparently some of the ppl on here do not seem to agree ..

I recently, not too long ago, started a chat with someone who seemed to be fairly nice .. and because I answered no, to two questions, rather then saying no to each separate question he goes on to tell me it is annoying when he has to repeat himself, when I try to tell him I meant it for both, and even corrected myself ... he still continues ... with it is annoying to have to repeat things, but to make it easier it is all "his fault" .. when I say I do not assign blame ... he says he does not wish to argue about it its all "his fault" .. and tells me to have a good night .. Im sitting here left confused ... when attempting to tell him, we are just trying to get to know each other and feeling each other out, within the first 5minutes of conversation, then starts using profanity and cursing at me for not dropping it, and I go as far to say Im sorry, it was my fault, I should of been more clear ... and continues to attack me ... seriously? .... wow ... this is collarme?

If this is what can be expected from this site .. then I do not hold high hopes for it ..

11/6/2009 5:27:40 PM
It is funny ... when you have a Dom who has emailed you .. and it takes less then a minute for a reply ... you have to ask yourself if he read the message ... and responded in less then a minutes time ...

And all you do, is become open and honest and ask a simple question ... or make a statement .. and there by doing so, you are labeled rude ... *confused*

If you are not prepared for me to ask you questions in regards to relocation ... and using a very sound minded logic to it .. then please I will ask respectfully, that you do not email me. I ask questions and pose situations because they have either happened or would happen ...

Please do not mistake my directness for rudeness ... I was raised to believe to be honest, open, clear and direct .. my profile should tell you of the kind of woman I am .. but that does take a bit of chatting to see .. as that part of me is not kept out on my sleeve ...

thank you


10/29/2009 9:52:20 AM
Please be sure to read my profile ... it includes some things that as a Dominant, you should know when speaking to me.

I do however, have a great sense of humor and sense of self .. and love to laugh with a playful personality ..

All that I can ask .. is that you are as real and honest with me .. as I will be with you.


10/27/2009 12:04:52 PM
It amazes me .. how some on here whom you meet in real life .. even have the ability to lie to you and deceive you ...

a year ago, I met who I thought was a wonderful Dom ..  to only find out less the n24hrs ago, he was nothing more then a fake .. a liar and a wolf in sheeps clothing ...

if he ever gets brazen enough to unblock me, since he figured it would be easier to block me, rather then deal with the hurt he caused me by his lies ... he knows who he is ...

I have always and will always remain honest, open and up front ... but to those who have to lie .. and use people as a pawn ... you are no Dom, No Man, and surely not someone I will ever waste my time with again ..
 it is because of men like you ... that I guard myself so heavily ...


10/26/2009 8:49:15 PM
Just an addition ... Yes I do have pictures .. I just don't post them on sites ...

if you would like to see one or two, feel free to ask :-)


10/21/2009 9:05:15 AM
I'm starting to wonder ....

When someone states they desire something .. or want someone who fits the profile of what they are looking for ... and the other party replies to them, also seeking the same thing ...

Why is it ... the initial party never responds back??

Is anyone on this site .. Real?

10/20/2009 10:25:34 AM
I just have a question ... It seems I see a lot of this on profiles and it makes me wonder .. and kinda giggle ...

What does being "hung" have to do with being a Dom???

lol .... really?

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